Question Posted Tuesday September 2 2008, 12:35 am
what are things guys look for in a girl they want a real relationship with? what do they look for when they want someone to be with for a long time? and what keeps them interested and wanting you? thanks!! :)
I'm not saying she's immature or too young to know any better, I'm saying that at her age all the guys who are also her age are pretty much worthless.
Guys mature far slower than girls in the relationship department. Most guys don't know what they want in a girl, don't think about it much either. At least, until years later in adulthood.
Guys just want a girl who is interested. Any girl who is interested who they are also interested in.
At the age I'm guessing you are (16 or under) its a crapshoot. You could get a decent loving guy (who will probably tell you he loves you WAY before hes ready to say such things) and be happy. You could get an asshole who hasn't learned women are worth more than sex.
Though, a tip. Look at the shy guys. Shy guys don't have expectations for you, and are usually decent people who haven't had enough successes socially to come out of their shells and relax around people.
Also, if a shy guy is an asshole, you'll know right away. He won't want you to bother him, and he'll drive you away. He's shy because he doesnt like people. If hes a nice shy guy, he's probably going to be so nervous talking to you that he'd never make a move, so the trick to them is you have to give them incredibly glaring hints or just outright tell them you want them to take you out.
A final note.
The important thing is not "what a guy wants to see in you"
xospbabiiexo answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 2:09 am: well it depends on the personality of the guy.I'm telling you now that all and I mean all guys want in a girl is to have sex with them sooner or later.but guys they want a girl who looks good and has a sexy body and eveything they look for in a girl.plus to make them stay longer with you in a relationship and you love them so much then you gotta do whatever it takes to make him happy and whatever that pleases him.like I said,it depends on the personality of the guy you like .hoped I helped=]. [ xospbabiiexo's advice column | Ask xospbabiiexo A Question ]
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