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hey my name is danielle...danni for short...i live in boston massachusetts and am a 15 year old female...my screen name is xxdancinbabi15xx so if you need to im thats where im at
im here to give advise to people no matter what the question is...so ask me anything and i will try my best to help you!

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How can I get my breasts to be bigger without implants. 14/F.

i dont think there is relaly anything you can do about it hun sorry...you could always get a bathing suit with extra padding...hope i could be of some help...

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i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
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go for it!!! you should definitly tell him just how you feel about him and nothing less...he needs to know and you will feel much better when he does know trust me...and what is the worst he can say...that he only wants to be friends? thats still okay...dont worry you should definitly tell him ....hope i was of some help...

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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????

of course not...only if you enjoyd it in any way then that could be a problem..but we all do weird things when people dare us to so dont worry about it...hope i could help in some way...

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I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks

it is of course going to effect you in many ways...but you shouldnt let him being bisexual stop you from likeing him because you should like him for who he is and you should only be worried if he starts seriously likeing other guys...hope i could help in some way...

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Ok i've liked this boy for almost a year now and he's known for quite some time. Of course, like a typical girl trying to get the guy, i've flirted and such. But i recently heard that he has called me obsessive. Rude huh? well I'm confused as to whether he actually likes me also and is just shy about it and trying to cover it up as some of my friends say or if hes serioiusly annoyed by me. I personally dont feel obsessive at all and i would realize if i was. Well i dont know if i should keep trying to move foward with the relationship or just quit and find a new guy. Please help!

im sorry to say it but guys dont usually say they think your obsessive unless they really mean it....i dont know him so i dont know how he lets girls no he likes them..he could be trying to cover it up but you should try and move on and when you think about him just remember that he may not be the right one for you and its okay to think about him eventually this attatchment will not be there anymore and you wont need him....i hope i helped in some way....

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Hi. I want to lose some weight. All my friends are a little bit smaller than me...and I feel embarresed when ever I got shopping with them because i have to buy bigger sizes than them. I think that I am eating more because I gained 10 puonds last year...any ideas that could help?

im probably gonna tell you the same things that others have told you...working out is a good way to loose weight and so is eating right...you could always go on one of those weight loss plans if you are that concernd...the jenny craig works pretty good says my friend....but maintain good exercising habits and you will be fine....hope i could help out a little...

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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.

well just think...neither of you have kissed anybody before so he must feel the same way and he must be just as nervous as you are...just wait for the right moment i bet he wants to kiss you too...to let him no you could give him small hints that you want to kiss him...hope i could be of some help...

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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?

its not bad at all hun...when you get to 14 its when you start to think about that kinda stuff and its completly normal...but actaully doing it is another story...from my opinion i think that you shouldnt actually do it because you know it is wrong at the age of 14 i mean you have the rest of your life to do that kinda stuff why do it now?? so its totally normal for you to think about it its okay...hope i could be of some help...

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ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?

you definitly need to tell him to step off and stop saying all that stuff to you because thats like sexual harrasment and if it gets annoying to you then you should tell him straight up that you dont feel comfortable with him saying all that stuff to you...and if you still want him to be your friend tell him in the nicest possible way that you want him to stop...hope i could be of some help....

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ok i like this guy and i have liked him for about 7 months. we went out twice. the first time only for a day then the sencond time for a week. the only reason he broke up with me he said was cuz he cheated on me but i didnt care but he didnt believe me. now we are good friends. but i want to be more than friends i want to go out with him.but he has a gf but she is realli ugly and im prettier than her her. and i look batter(body wise) im not making fun of her but i want him. wut should i do
kaitlin /14/ florida

wow its pretty scarey becuase i am going through the exact same thing right now...there is this kid i have like for the longest time and we were going out for 2 days and he dumped me becuase he told me he cheated on me and didnt feel right going out with me anymore but i told him i didnt care but he didnt believe me either and we are really good friends and talk on the fone everynite...i want to go out with him...so i suggest that you just let him no how you feel about him and keep talking to him and keep being friends with him and always give him hints that you still have feelings for him just being friends could turn into more...thats what i do...hope i helped in some way...

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Hi! I'm having thoughts about marriage, I'm a 19/f btw. I recently viewed the film, Romeo and Juliet and was wondering on what other people's opinions are. Do you think Romeo and Juliet got married too soon? Why or why not? I'd like to talk to someone about this. I gove good ratings. Thank you in advance. =)

i think that romeo and juliet got married at way to young of an age but you really cant go by them because you have to consider that back then people didnt live too long so they had to make the most of their time lol....getting married at 16 is very soon i mean you have the rest of your life to get married but you only have your teen year to be..well..a teen...if you have anymore questions about this stuff you can im on xxdancinbabi15xx...

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okay so was goin out wit this really cool guy and i loved to b with him we always had fun. well i just found out that he broke up with me a few days ago because he liked another gurl and he was waiting for her to like him back! and now i feel really used! and i was soo mad! i really wanna talk to him and tell him how i feel. and i wanna get over him soo bad! and i thought that i did! but then i looked in his profile and all and its all about this other gurl and how hes crazy about her! how can i get over this guy? and how can i talk to him about it w/o lookin desperate.. or looking like i want him back? (cuz i dont)

to get over this guy you should try and move on to other guy even though it may be difficult if you still like him...talk to him like you would normally do with one of your friends pretend act like you dont need him and that you dont want him back because im sure that you can do much better...you dont deserve to be treated like he treated you, guys shouldnt just think that they can do that kinda stuff...hope i helped...

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I'v always had low self esteem and latley i'v been feeling a little better about myself. I always wish how i had a bf or someone who cares about me like that but i never ask guys anything cuz im to shy. I'm kinda the type of girl who mostly has guy friends but not the really hott popular ones because im to shy to talk to them. I'd just like to have someone there for me thats more then a friend but i never think that anyone will like me. I hate having low self esteem and i try to do things to help it but nothing ever works. is there a way to make me feel better about myself besides a "make over" cuz im not tha girly and its juss not my thing, and is there a way to maybe get noticed more?

well as you may know guys...well the hott ones...usually like girls that are pretty and
popular becuase thats how guys are...even though this may sound low but you could try and be friends with the more "popular" girls if you arent already...or you could try and be friends with more girls in general, popular or not. if you have low self esteem you should try this, my friend has the same problem and this is what she did: you write a list of the things that you like about yourself when your not feeling so good about yourself. it may help

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Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno....

if he really loves you then he will make an effort to stop but you should also make an effort to help him with it...try and help him with the problem in any way that you can and tell him that you relaly care about him and that you dont want anything to happen to him...hope i helped

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me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx

your sister sounds pretty harsh...if she dosent excpt you talking to her calmly you should just try and avoid her even though that may be hard but there is nothing you can do if she wont cooperate you are just gonna have to accept it...just dont take the mean stuff she says abut you seriously...you cant get brought down by her try talking to her again calmly and tell her that you dont like the way she talkes to you and how you deserve more respect...hope i helped

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I'm 13 and I had high cholesteral since I was 3. My parents aren't exactly cooks and we always eat food made from instant and frozen foods. I'm skinny, but still I need to exersice, but I'm too lazy because the food I eat isn't giving me enough energy. Any suggestions on how to be healthier?

you need to eat foods with more carbs because that will give you the energy foods and liquids like orange juice and bananas are good sources of carbs...if you cant help the choices of food you are givin then you can always make an effort to exercise you just have to get motivated to do so...hope i helped

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well theres this guy that i really really like..lets say his name is jared...he's nice, funny, veryy sweet and be get along great...he's everything i could possibly want!! well anyways i've known him for about a year and we've become best friends..but i like him more than a friend...one of my friends..lets say his name is timmy...talked to him for me...then a lil while lata one of his friends came ask me if i liked jared..of course i said yes...then i ask jred's friend wut he thought of me..she said he thought i was really nice and sweet and had a great personality...and he told timmy wut i said...but then jared said he needed time to think...so a few days lata he said he wasnt ready and he didnt wanna ruin or friendship...well timmy still kept asking him question but jared said things like no comment and idk or he changes the subject or just doesnt answer...he almost asked me to a school dance..but i guess he chickened out...i dont know what to think...i think i wouldve given up by now but he talks to me almost every night and he smiles at me almost everyday as school...i dunno if i should give up and settle for just a friend...

if you really like him you should keep trying for him...i was in the same situation once but i was from "jareds" perspective, i liked this guy but i didnt want to go out with him because we were such good friends and i knew that i wouldnt last and after we wouldnt be friends...so i would keep giving him signs that i liked him so that he wouldnt decide to give up on me...you should keep going on liking him and someday he will realize that you 2 are meant to b...hope i helped

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I'm really scared. My grandma (on my dad's side) has Alzemiers...it's where you forget your past and aren't really aware of your surrondings...My mom's brother has something like that, so the disease is on both sides of the family. It scares me thinking that I might get it. I get sidetracked really easily and I just know Alzemiers is in my genes. I'm 13...Do you think they will have a cure for it by the time I'm gorwn up?

my grandfathers mother who is in a nursing home also has Alzemiers and i doubt that people will ever find a cure for it but you never know...dont be scared about it either dont live in the future just think about how life is now...it will be a long time unitl then and you may not even contract it and getting sidetracked now may be other things many teenagers get off task thats just how we are...people these days are finding cures for many things...i hope your grandmother is okay....hope i helped

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There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.

Luv Ya xoxoxoxo,
XoKisSeSoX

in my opinion it seems that he likes you by the way you describe him...i bet that he likes you but he knows that you do not feel the same way about him and he is to scared to tell you so he may be giving you hints that he likes you more then just a friend...you should in someway ask him how he really feels about you and if he says that he likes you more then just a friend (which it seems like he does) then tell him in the nicest way possible that you like him as a friend only and thats how it should be...hope i helped

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what can i say beside "sorry" to make my friend forgive me for lying to him??? can some one help me please???? i really need to talk to him again but he will not listen to me and he will not even look at me any more!!! i cant take it!!! i really want him back as a friend!!!! thanks to anyone that can help me! and see i didnt mean to lie to him thanks anyway!

well there is not much i can tell you except that you need to keep on talking to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he dosent except that what are you gonna do? you cant force the kid to forgive you...he definitly should becuase you are really sorry for doing whatever you did but he cant be much of a good friend if he will not forgive you...hope i helped

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