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Well okay. I want to break up with my boyfriend but i dont know what to say. like, i still want to be friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, you know? Okay please help me! oh and if it helps i want to break up with him because summers comin up and i wont see him. thanks!

Tell him exactly that. You should say "heyy I ithnk we need to take a break because I wont see you at alot during the summer and I dont want you to have to worry about me or visa versa.." or something im sure he feels the same way and it'll all work out fr the better. Hope I helped xox mwaa

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ok, I'm supposed to ask this really hutt guy out tomorrow and i dunno how!! All my friends are like "write a note, tell him directly" but im too scared to give him the note because he'll show it to other people and im waaaaayy to shy to ask him directly. so how should i ask him out? and trust me, i need to ask him out tomorrow. i really wanna be his girlfriend!!!! hellllllppp!!

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Okay I thik that you should write a simple not saying..."Your hott and I liek you wanna go out?" or if you really cant write him a note have someone do it for you. Have your friends go up to him and say "(whatever your name is) wants to know if you would go out with her?" Hope I helped LYL MWA xoxox send feedback!

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ok there is this guy who is really nice and smart...we dont really talk and i havent thought of him as a love interest until recently..hes going to my parrty im having in a couple weeks..any advice on how i can see if he likes me too?any ideas of how i can flirt with him?

Teasing always works...be like your hair loks so cute

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ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.

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Im sure he wont get mad. It sounds liek a realllyyy cute idea! Im sure he'll love it! Hope I helped xoxxoxo lyl good luck send me feedback I wanna know what happens!

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i want to ask this guy out but i dont want to ask him out directly or give him a note...i want to be creative with this...something he'll like...how do i do this??




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My friend was in the same position. What she did was wrote "To Pete, I really like you wanna go out?" on her science homework and then asked him to take it out for her while she went to the bathroom and when she came back the paper said "really I've liked you too! Cant wait..

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this girl that i am friends with but hate at the same time (jane) likes one of my close guy friends (peter) and he likes her. she has a tendency to lead guys on and then break their hearts just because she likes to feeling of being wanted. my other guy friend (owen) also likes her and she has told him that she does like him. he was one of the guys that she has led on. now she is thinking that she should go out with owen because she feels bad for him. she told peter that she is going to ask someone out but it isn't him. now here's where i come in. peter told me that him and jane like each other and what she said to him. jane told me that she is thinking about going out with owen when she doesn't like him. i told owen that she is planning on asking him out because i dont want her to break his heart. and i also told peter (before i knew he liked her) that i can't stand her. i am in a huge mess. what do i do?

I think you should act all buddy buddy ywords her and lead her in a new direction. Like omg scotty is cute and then she'll go out with him and leave peter sad but it'll save him wrose heart break later. hope I helped MWA LYL XOXO GOOD LUCK!

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Hey me and my friend are having a party and we want some good ideas because we dont want it to be way lame. nothing corny like clowns and baloons. but we are 14 and its a boy/girl party and its going to have alot of people so keep that in mind thanks.

Well I hate to sound slutty but spin the bottle is always a hit. Truth and dare is great too! Guys love food so make sure theres alot of snacks. and even tho you think bollons are corney theyre really great for setting me mood. Pool partys are great too or maybe a cook out? you decide hope I helped send feedback LYL MWAA XOXOXOX

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Okay,,,,,
I have this boyfriend(Kevin) that im madly in love with and hes in love with me. I am 13 and hes 15. We've been going out for 7 months!! Theres a problem though. My neighbor is the one i always hung with and i introduced her to him because he was my boyfriend and they have became close and she always im's him online and calls him on his cell phone. Latly i have been getting scared. Shes been saying maybe she will take him to the prom next year if she has noone to go with and crap though my boyfriend says he wouldnt go with her and i do belive him... and i think shes falling for him. Shes 16 years old too so shes closer to his age. She had alot of crap about him written in her profile saying stuff about there friendship. She doesnt have a boyfriend and im positive shes never had one. I know he wont leave me for her but i am afraid thats shes falling for him. How do i tell? Im scared because i dont want her too and if she does then i dont know if i can handle it. Shes been writing about a guy in her profile and she says she likes this one guy but i think she has some feeling for Kevin that are getting stronger. I think she flirts with him but im sure Kevin doesnt think so.... i donno please help I'm flippin out here!



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Okay this is a huge problem. I definatly see where your comming from. To aviod hurting her feelings you should say something general in front of her like OMG I love kevin and if he were to ever leave me even you one day I would die. That way she would get it without you having to be too direct but if that doesnt help then try talking to her about it but use some one elses name like "hey I tihnk jen like kevin Id die if she does I wouldnt be able to handle if some one else liked him" Hope I helped send feedback lyl mwaaaa xoxoxoxoxxoxo

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I have no idea whose column this is. I saw this in my friend's favorite advice sites. So I'll ask you. There's this girl at my school, Natalie D., real b****. Okay, she always bumps into me and doesn't say sorry and thinks shes so cool cause she went out with 'Chris S.' or whatever his name is. She is being a real bother. What should I do!?

i got this question in my advice column and i really want to no who it is. how do i find out who put this on my site. by the way natalie is me...i just didnt want to but my name on this site. and chris s. is my ex. how do i find out who sent this to me?


Thats soooo mean omg who ever did that is midley insane you seen sooo nice!!I dont think you can find out until your a moderator sorry but if you ask around im sure youll find out soon! LYL send feedback hope I made you feel better lotz of luv xoxo

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okay, this week i got invited to 6 parties and so far they've all been really fun. but at the one i just got back from, i got thrown into the pool a lot! but most of the people who threw me in were good guy friends. but i don't know, i really want a close relationship with someone. i was kind of sad because all the girls that got thrown in by their boyfriends, they were cold when they got out so they went and snuggled with their guy and i kind of got jelous. this one guy (that a lot of ppl don't like because they think he's mean) is so sweet around me and is just one of the nicest, funniest people i've ever meet. i really like him and hope we could be more than friends. is there anything that guys like or something that i could do to get him to like me? (nothing slutty, i'm not that kind of girl thank you very much) and please don't say be yourself because that's not exactly helpful. i'm about to go into highschool also, so i kind of want to know how to get guys intrested in me. it's not like i'm not pretty or anything, people tell me i'm gorgeous and that i'm a really cool person, it's just that i've never been really able to hit it off with a guy, they see me more as just a friend. help? i rate high

tonyroxursox is absolutly right! you should always be flirting or giggling and joking guys love that..eye contact is key too. And if you ever have an aqward molment dont get nervous cuz it means its working haha. Plus you should tell someone that you like him cuz it seems like he likes you and if someone tells him it'll probably give him the courage to ask you out. hope I helped if not sry + even if I did or didnt i want feedback on what happens

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ok so im going out with guy now and like every time im with him and his friends i can never talk to him cus im really nervous i might say something really lame and his friends will laugh at me. when he is about ot leave im to scared to hug him goodbye . i dont want him to think i dont like him so how do i talk to him without being scared? please help fast! i rate good!

heyy I think you should ignore his friends I mean who cares what they think...and im sure you wouldnt say anything that lame haha. And about the hugging if you feel weird dont do it but if its just nerves go for it I mean you only live once and what the wrost that could happen? I hope I helped send feedback lyl mwaaa

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Hey. I been dancing since I was 4ish-7ish but then I quit. I started going street/Hip-hop lessons now since April. I have a few dance videos but I still cant keep up with them or my dance school! Everyone else is prancing around memorizing all the moves when there is me forgetting the moves and really slow!! I'm not sure how to remember the moves and speed up! Any tips? And yes i do concentrate as hard as I can but i forgot them all even after 2 minutes! Thanks if you can help x

OKay Im not very big on dancing but mayb you could take notes or sumthing. Like spin,jump,spin,jump? Or mayb you could have one of your friends help you stay on track, like after school or something you can practice with her?I hope that helped if not im really sorry

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ok my guy friend wants my help and im not sure what to say to him. His girlfriend whom he loves alot theyve been going out for like 8 months is treating him like dirt. They broke up for awhile then got back together. Im good friends with his girlfriend and shes always looking for other guys and says her boyfriend is ugly. Yet she claims she loves him. Shes a bit of a brat, and anytime something goes wrong thats not her boyfriends fault, she acts like shes mad at him when he did nothing wrong. I feel so bad for him because he LOVES HER. I told him if I was him Id dump her, but he said he didn't want to. I don't know how to help him. Any advice, I rate!

I think you should either stay out of it ( and I know that doesnt seem like it'll help but it might) or tell him to do the same thing shes is...like tell every1 shes an ugly slut or that they slept together...that will get her to stop haha hope I helped lyl good luck I wanna hear what happend even if you didn't use my advice so send feed back byach! Mwaa

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I'm 16 F and I've never had a boyfriend. I know some of you might say, "Don't worry! When the time comes, it comes.." The problem is that I hang out with a bunch of preps..and all my friends have already had boyfriends..:-( I'm the only one out of that group that's never had a close relationship with guys! It's kinda sad..if you ask me! The question is..how can I get guys to notice me..what can i do to make myself look prettier (I'm pretty ugly compared to the other girls)..How can I start convos with guys..it's already hard enough to talk to girls! Thanks

Everyone here seems to not know how to talk to guys except me so im gonna help you...]]
First.\\To get started you should stand in a group with your friends that way if the convo dies down someone will start a new one
Second.\\Say funny stuff...guys luv a sense of humor
Third.\\keep smiling that way they'll think ur paying attention haha
and last but not least fourth.//Tease-Flirting is the best way to get guys to notice you...dont be mean just joke and keep smiling that way they know its a joke

Hope I helped send feedback cuz I wanna know what happens even if its nothing

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I really, really like this guy Andrew. He liked my other friend, Xochitl, but he might still like her...I tried to hook them up, but she rejected him. I gave him all sort of ideas. But he came up with a sweet idea of making her a necklace. Andrew and I became good friends, and I started to have feelings for him. I want to ask him out. There is only 4 days left of school though! I was thinking of writing something special in his yearbook. Like, kind of asking him out. What should I write? Or should I tell him face-to-face that I like him? I can't make up my mind!
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I think you should write a note in his year book saying something sweet but not to direct. Like "I really liked hanging out with you this year and for the record I think your hot" or something....if that didnt help sorry lyl send me feedback even if my idea didnt work cuz i wanna know wht happens!!!

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so I've never been kissed but pretty soon its gonna happen and well, will he know? I dont wanan tell him just because its kinda embarassing. But can he tell? !! thanks.

he cant trust me in was i your position and then when we kissed it was nothing he has no clue still haha..hope i helped lyl!!

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well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

Heyy! OMG thats sooooooooooo cute! You should go I mean he wants you there for a reason and oviously he feels more then friendship. But you should let him make the move because once sexual tensin enters things are never the same...but theres also a plus to that because it shows that your both ready and your friendship probably wont be messed up after

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Ok, well, I really like this one kid, but the major problem is he likes one of my best friends. I needa find a way for him not to pay attention on her and pay attention on me. I need to know what turns on a guy. Like what do you want in a girl, honestly. Thanks for your help

you have two options
1.)Find out what he likes in a girl and become that
2.) or trash her to him
but friends last guys dont so think whisly
ps. tell ur friend that u like him that will help

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Heres the thing..there is this guy and hes in one of my classes and i like him alot. but all of my friends are asking him out for me and i really dont want them to but they juss go up to him and say Will you go out with her. and hes saying "why is every one asking me that" and hes getting really pissed and like that he will never want to go out with me. so how do i make my friends stop and also how do i get him to want to go out with me .. because all my friends say im a big tease and i flirt to much but i dont think i do.. PLEASE HELP
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My friends did that to me like crazy and truthfully i wouldnt talk to him cuz that would be a bit aqward. but if you want to go ahead. but theres no way to stop your friends ive tried it doesnt work. they say what they want. but dont let that get you down things will work out right i mean everything happens for a reason. The best thing to do is not react cuz then theyll get bored of doing it and stop...thats what my friends did and now were prctically going out...well sortof.
hope i helped if not sorry.

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Okay, so I said the wrong thing at one point and told my guy I didn't feel like I could trust him (of course, at the time, I was just mad and upset, and everyone says the wrong things/stupid things when they're mad).
The thing was, he lied to me about something totally mundane, and he did it to keep me from worrying, but he can't lie to me worth crap, and I can always tell when he's lying, but I never know what he's lying about.
I have major trust issues because my last guy lied to me, cheated on me, then lied to me about cheating on me and lying to me. Lol. I mean, you'd have trust issues too.
So yesterday we talked, and he said something about maybe taking it a little too fast if I felt I couldn't trust him, and now he wants to refrain from sex...lol. Like, he wants to go back in time to like, right before we had sex. So it'll be physical, but like...not physical.
I asked him every confirmation question I could think of, including "is this leading to some sort of a breakup? If it is, be honest and don't string me along," and he didn't even let me finish before he said "What? No!" like "that's ridiculous". I mean, we've been engaged since august, and we're still engaged - he laughed at me when I sounded all nervous about it - he said "just because I want to go back in time doesn't mean I'm changing the future," so I don't think we're breaking up anytime soon.
But I don't understand the not wanting sex.
I have a couple of ideas - one might've been that every time we've seen each other lately has kinda led to sex because our schedules are so crazy that we never see each other.
Anyone have any other ideas? Thanks in advance for your help.

I think that your good I mean he doesnt want to break up with you he just wants to slow downand who could blame him.
Hope I helped

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