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How can i tell him?
Well okay. I want to break up with my boyfriend but i dont know what to say. like, i still want to be friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, you know? Okay please help me! oh and if it helps i want to break up with him because summers comin up and i wont see him. thanks! <3 samm
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Okay! I have had to do this before also! So i kinda know how that is! But i think that you should just tell him that you just want to be friends and tell him why! Just say " Well summers comeing and i wont beable to see you so i dont see why we should go out "! Or i also feel that you should just tell him what YOU feel that you should tell him!
* Brandi * !
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just let him know why you dont want to goout anymore. trust me, there's realy nothing you can say that wont hurt his feelings, unless hes some noncaring jerk, which i doubt he is. if he wants to still be friends, then kudos- if he doesnt, then shame on him. hope i helped.
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Well i think you should sit him down one day and tell him calmly that you want to break up with him and tell him that long distancr relation ships dont work out it should work
Good luck (seriusly good luck)
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Alright, I've been there and done that so I hope my advice helps. Well it mostly depends on how long you guys have been together. The longer the worse it will be. Just be sincere and kind about it and don't make it sound like it's his fault you guys are breaking up, because that will make him feel even worse about the break up. Depending on how you want to break up, I've always been the kind of person that likes to break up in person, because I think the phone, email, or IM is way too inpersonal. But that mostly depends on how long you have been going out with him. If it was a long relationship, I think meeting in person is alot better. But if that idea makes you uneasy, the next best thing is telling him over the phone. This is probably a better option, because if breaking up with someone makes you really nervous, you can write down the main things you are going to say to him, that way when you are breaking up with him over the phone you won't forget what you were going to say. Say something like this, "(His name), this is really hard for me to do. I really care about you and I always will. And I'm hoping after everything we can still be able to talk to eachother and maybe even be friends. But that is all up to you. I've been thinking about this upcoming summer, and the fact that we aren't going to be able to see eachother at all, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that during that time we are going to grow apart and we won't be as close as we used to. And that would really hurt me. I think it would be easier for both of us if we just weren't together." I hope my advice helps you. Just think about what you are going to say ahead of time, that way when you say it you will be calm, and less nervous. Breaking up with someone is really hard, so hopefully it works out okay for you and him. Good luck! ~Sherah
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Tell him exactly what you said up there! Say summers coming up and this is not gona work out for whatever the reason is, is that you wont be able to see him. If it feels right then dont feel thta bad about hurting him, things happen for a reason. Just tell him the truth and dont lie to him. Also try not to start a fight because that would be bad! So just say it straight forward. Good luck
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Tell him exactly that. You should say "heyy I ithnk we need to take a break because I wont see you at alot during the summer and I dont want you to have to worry about me or visa versa.." or something im sure he feels the same way and it'll all work out fr the better. Hope I helped xox mwaa <3 diane
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my firstpiece of advice: do not say 'but i still want to be friends'that just gets them mad and it doesnt help u at all. just let him no the real reason y u want to break up and let him no how YOU feel about it. make sure he knows it's because summer is coming up. hope it goes well for you. i hope my advice helps, i got it form my own expreiences. plez rate me
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hey how bout you just tell him your not gona get to c him
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well...let him know how you feel. Make it seem like its better off for him....say that since you wont see each other that much you dont want to keep him tied up and that u think its best to break up. And tell him that maybe you guys can give it another hooraah when school starts up again
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When you break up with him PLEASE dont say I dont think its working out but I still want to be friends. It never works out that way at all! Honestly. Tell him exacly why you are breaking up with him. You really dont need to make up any exuses. He will defenetly understand. If you guys had a good relationship you will stay friends tho so dont worry about that. When you break up say hi to him still and everything and keep in touch. Good luck babe! L0TS 0F L0V3! ♥
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You can't. You're going to hurt someone's feelings someday.
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Just be upfront and honest about it. Tell him since summer is coming up and that you won't be seeing him that you think a break would be in order and not because you dont like him anymore. Explain that you want to remain friends and that when school starts back up you will re-evalute your feelings.
Good luck
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