okay, this week i got invited to 6 parties and so far they've all been really fun. but at the one i just got back from, i got thrown into the pool a lot! but most of the people who threw me in were good guy friends. but i don't know, i really want a close relationship with someone. i was kind of sad because all the girls that got thrown in by their boyfriends, they were cold when they got out so they went and snuggled with their guy and i kind of got jelous. this one guy (that a lot of ppl don't like because they think he's mean) is so sweet around me and is just one of the nicest, funniest people i've ever meet. i really like him and hope we could be more than friends. is there anything that guys like or something that i could do to get him to like me? (nothing slutty, i'm not that kind of girl thank you very much) and please don't say be yourself because that's not exactly helpful. i'm about to go into highschool also, so i kind of want to know how to get guys intrested in me. it's not like i'm not pretty or anything, people tell me i'm gorgeous and that i'm a really cool person, it's just that i've never been really able to hit it off with a guy, they see me more as just a friend. help? i rate high
MummuM answered Sunday May 29 2005, 3:20 pm: First of all, it sounds like this guy could be already interested in you. He's sweet and nice to you, when he's not like that with other people. This shows that he could be crushing on you. Just because he's his self when he is with you. When he's around, make a lot of eye contact when you talk to him, this will show that you're interested in what he has to say. Ask him sometime if he would like to do something with you, like go to the movies, hangout at home, go to the park or shopping, etc. Also make a lot of jokes with him and be yourself. You don't want him falling for someone you aren't. When you are talking with him, flirt a little. Maybe put your hand on his shoulder, or hug him once in awhile. And finally, always be there for him. When he's down, always be there for him to talk to and comfort him. I'm sure he'll get the point after doing this that you do have a crush on him.
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xFeelinLucky answered Sunday May 29 2005, 11:31 am: ok haha thats good that you dont wanna act slutty. ummm since its almost highschool maybe you could try a whole new look, like a sexy look not slutty. and maybe you could have someone find out if he likes you (one of ur guy friends) and he could hook you guys up. well i hope i helped you out even a little. good luck with the mystery man!♥
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naimee answered Saturday May 28 2005, 3:47 pm: if you want him to notice you give him your number and let him call you and smile at him and flirt with him see if he will flirt back i think that should get his atention but if it doesnt then look for another guy there are plenty but he would be a big fool if he did not accept you ~Alejandro~ [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Saturday May 28 2005, 11:51 am: tonyroxursox is absolutly right! you should always be flirting or giggling and joking guys love that..eye contact is key too. And if you ever have an aqward molment dont get nervous cuz it means its working haha. Plus you should tell someone that you like him cuz it seems like he likes you and if someone tells him it'll probably give him the courage to ask you out. hope I helped if not sry + even if I did or didnt i want feedback on what happens<33always diane<3 good luck! [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
tonyroxursox answered Saturday May 28 2005, 10:21 am: First of all I think you should flirt with him at all times. Try to make eye contact. Ask him to go hangout with you somewhere. Talk to him a bunch. Just try to be around him a lot! If he isn't interested I say go join some place or club and find a guy there! I hope I helped you! Form ToNy! [ tonyroxursox's advice column | Ask tonyroxursox A Question ]
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