My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
Website: MySpAcE
E-mail: x3candiigurrrl@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Colonie New York
Occupation: Radio Host && Singer/Songwriter
Age: 14
AIM: x3candiigurrrl
Yahoo: x3candiigurrrl
MSN: raexnicolee@hotmail.com
Member Since: October 6, 2005
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okay, so this is just a simple question. but do a majority of girls shave "down there?" like i'm afraid when it comes to when i become intimate with a man that he'll be turned off if its shaved or not? so, what do most girls do? shave, or not? (link)
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Some do, some dont. its your decision. Some guys like it shaved, some dont. Its all about what your comfortable with
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Hey, can you guys help me find Nelly Furtado's song Promiscuous? I just want to listen to it, so an audio version or video version is fine. Thanks so much. (link)
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Yahoo music has it, or if you have limewire you can download it on that.
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I am 20 years old and I am sexually active. About a month ago I was diagnosed with a yeast infection and treated it with a 3-day Monistat treatment. Now I am pretty sure that I have one again with all the same symptoms (white discharge, odor, severe itching, redness, and painful intercourse. I heard that it is uncommon to get repeated yeast infections and that it is possible that my boyfriend had contracted it from me last time I had one, and keeps infecting me with it every time we have sex now. Immediately after we had sex a couple days ago the severe itching started. I'm just wondering if he is going to keep infecting me if that is at all possible and why I might keep getting yeast infections. Thank you! (link)
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Get yourself tested for STDs. Make sure he gets tested to. It might be something more than just a yeast infection. If theres something there don`t have sex anymore and make sure you use as much protection as possible.
If its a yeast infection again just lay off the sex for a little while. Let yourself heal and ask your doctor if he knows a better treatment.
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my friend went to the public pool today
and while she was swimming her purse got stolen
it had her makeup, notes, and her house key.
what should she do since it has her house key
and if they know where she lives they could get it!!
help! (link)
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Uhm she needs to go to the police immediately. They need to know what the purse looks like, EVERYTHING inside, and specific details like that. Make sure she comes up with a time period of when it might have gotten stolen and then anyone that might have been around then.
From now on get a locker or leave your purse with someone else. Theres messed up people out there
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I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet? (link)
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No you shouldnt. Some people just start later then others. If I were you Id just be happy you dont have it yet. Its a bitch and I envy the fact that you dont have to deal with it.
Ps. my b-days in october too =]
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okay so anways to keep acne off your face for good thats not expensive♥ (link)
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Pro active works the best.
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how many shots of alcohol will usually get you drunk and how many beers would get u drunk? (minimum amount) (link)
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Everyones alcohol tolerance level is different. For some people they might get drunk after 2 beers, and 6 shots. Its hard to tell until it happens to you. I suggest taking it slow until you learn how much your body can handle
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Could someone please give me some long distance relationship tips.. he'll be driving in 6 months.. if that helps any.. We love eachother and ahve been together twice and will see eachother in less than aweek.. but yea, idk the next time we will before he gets his licence and i may start dating him soon! please hlep! (link)
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Your question needs some more details like age, how far away you guys live, where you met him.
Long distance relationships almost never work out. Its so hard to get in contact, and you can never be sure if the other one is being faithful or not. Not to mention the fact that you might start liking people in your area. When you date someone you wanna be with them, not have to talk to them on the phone and computer. Trust me im experienced with is.
My tip for you is dont do it. Being friends is cool but theres so much discomfort with long distance.
It takes a strong girl to deal with it. so good luck
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About 6 weeks ago I was dumped over the internet by my long term bf. He did it in a very cowardly and cruel way with no explanation- pretty ignorant for a 3 year relationship. Everyone is telling me I'm better off without him. When I first met him I thought he was mr. right- he was caring, attentive; and charming. But then I saw his true colours. He would yell at me for no reason; get extremely jealous when I talked to his male friends; constantly put me and other women down; was a womanizer and cheated on me; and had a porn addiction. The meanest thing he ever did was stick his face in mine and yell "I"M SO SORRY"! after I told him his friends at a party were making me uncomfortable. I started writing a list of all the crap he did to me to make me feel better. But there is still a part of me that misses him when he was nice. Does anyone have any methods for how I can get over this jerk? And why do I still want him after everything he did? (link)
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When you love someone its hard for you to see all the bad when you WANT to see the good. Keep telling yourself that he was abusive, which is what he is, and that you deserve better. Its natural to take a while for people to get over someone they love especially after they date for a long time. Make sure you spend a lot of times with friends and go out as much as possible. That way youll have so much fun you wont be thinking about him. But try to stay away from places you and him went a lot. Cause then unwanted memories will come back to you. Try dating some new people to, or just flirt with random guys at places you go. Itll make you feel better about yourself, and you might find someone new.
If all else fails. Get sum Ben and Jerrys =]
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If you want to move to another country, would you find a house and a job in the area, or a job and a house in the area? Why?
Thank you. (link)
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You should do it at the same time. Look for a house while your finding a job. And if you find one before the other, don`t make any deals until you find the other.
Caus if you find a job, but no house. Then the jobs worthless cuz u wont live there to go to work. same thing with the house. And if you find one and cant find the other then you can always back out of the deal till you find both =]
Some jobs will help you find places in a new coutry if you ask them to.
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So I'm interviewing this guy tomorrow. It's a half an hour interview. I saw his band at a local pub and really liked them. And since I'm part a community TV station, I asked if I could interview him.
But now I find out he's REALLY famous here and everyone I speak to knows who he is! He's been the host of a popular music show for a couple of years which I didn't know about.
I'm really nervous now about the interview and worse case scenarios kept running through my mind. I'm afraid I'm going to look like such a fool or have a mental blank or something. It's a half an hour interview that's being filmed and I have no idea how I'm going to fill up that time.
How can I relax a bit, and what are some good things to ask him? The fact that he interviews people constantly and gets interviewed himself means he probably has been asked the "usual" questions several times and I don't want him to be bored! I'm really panicking. How should I act? Help please? thanks. (link)
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Well I have my own radio show, and I`m trying to prepare for interviews too. I know it`s scary but just try to remember, this guy is an interviewer too. So he knows how hard it is to be interviewing someone.
Make sure you do TONS of research on him. From when he was little to know. Start off asking him about what hes doing know, what he plans on doing. Based on his answers you can ask followup questions too. Then start asking him about why he started doing what hes doing, how him and his band met, any crazy concert stories stuff likee that. It lets people see the normal side and makes the interview more fun. Talk about things you wanna do and if he has any advice for people getting into that type of business.
Trust me 30 minutes can go by really fast. I recently interviewed Marianela from FUSE (( Daily Download )) and she told us how Eminem humped her on stage, and that shes obsessed with food. Next thing I knew it was an hour into it and she had to go lol. Youll do fine trust me. =]
if you wanna talk to me or anything
AIM- loca1 x cel3b
the radio show- teentalknetwork.com/audience.htm
and e-mail: rae_nicolee@yahoo.com
good luck!
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hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell? (link)
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Wear anti-perspirent deodorant and lots of it. Then sprits yourself with strong perfume, or body spray. Then use nice smelling lotion in the morning on your arms and legs. Spritz sum of the spray in your hair, so when people talk to you they`ll smell it. Take a shower everyday, either in the morning or at night. Change your sheets often. Make sure your clothes are clean. Brush your teeth, chew gum, spray your sneakers. Stuff like that. Basically hiding the smell.
I use tons of sprays and lotions from Bath and Body works... they smell SOOO good.
To make them stop picking on you just ignore them. When they realize it`s not hurting you anymore they`ll stop. Get up every morning and look in the mirror and come up with one positive thing about yourself. Then you`ll go to school with a great aditude and killer smile. If they keep doing it talk to an adult. They`ll make sure they leave you alone.
Much Love babe
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okay so i am about 107 . i got a little fat in the stomach area . i`m not embarased of it at all . i just want to get more flat stomach . any excersises? that would do it in a short time . thanks ♥ (link)
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Pick up a copy of Seventeen magazine. They have tons of different excersizes to get flatter stomachs. Or go to a local gym and ask them if they have any ideas. They can customize your excersises based on height, weight, and what you want done.
Sit ups are the easiest way. 200 a night should do the trick fast =] And eating healthy of course
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i have a lacrosse camp coming up, and so i need some shorts that are easy to exceersize in. rite now, i only have soffes pretty much, and i want some of those mesh ones, or the ones with words on the butt.
so i would like to know where i can buy them, and im willing to buy them online:
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THNXXX SO MUCH
LaX=SeX ♥♥ (link)
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http://www.teamcheerleadinguniforms.com/cheerleadinguniforms/sub/cheerleadingshorts
they have great ones and you can customize it to say whatever you want.
Also, if you go to a Limited Too they have tons of shorts like that. Targets athletic department, foot locker they all have shorts like that. Just look and ask around =]
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Every morning I wake up with deadly breath and a killer taste in my mouth. Even after I brush my teeth, it's still nasty. I don't know what else to do. Even when I brush my teeth before bed I have this problem. Any ideas on how to fight morning breath? (I had no idea what catagory to put this in!) (link)
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Try chewing gum during the day and after every meal. Brushing your teeth after every meal is good too. Drink water before bed, nothing else. And don`t brush your teeth before breakfast, because then it`s not doing it`s job.
If none of that works try gargalling (sp?) with listerine for a full minute every morning when you wake up, and before bed. And make sure your using good toothpaste like Colgate or Crest. I think one of them even has a morning breath toothoaste but im not sure =]
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okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice, (link)
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First off, age is nothing but a number sweetie. You`re never too young to be in love. Some people just find love sooner than others.
I can tell this guy is telling the truth based on what you said. Guys don`t usually open up as much and it sounds like you have a great guy. But if you aren`t in love with him then you should break it off. I know you like him a lot but if he loves you, and you don`t love him then maybe it`s better to end it before you really hurt him.
Trust me when you fall in love you`ll know it. And from the sound of it you don`t. Let him know you like him a lot but you don`t feel the same about him as he does with you. And that you think it`s best to end it before it gets to serious so no1 gets hurt. If he truely loves you he`ll find it in his heart to forgive you.
Good Luck Babe!
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Okay, well i need something to do around my house so i can get money. I really want a new iPod, because i dont like the one i have now. Any ideas, for around my house work?! (link)
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babysit, mow the lawn, rake leaves if you have left over ones, wash the car, clean the pool if you have onee, dishes, set the table, vacume, dust, wash windows, plant flowers, pull weeds, walk the dog if you have onee, clean the liter box if you have a cat, organize recipes or something, wash any pets if you have them, cook dinner, bake things, theres a gazillion little things im sure you could come up with =]
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Right now I have the sunsilk shampoo, the dark blue one that's for when your hair gets poofy when it dries. That's not a major problem for me, so I don't want to get it next time. I want to get the purple one, that straightens "unwanted kinks or waves" (lol thats what it said) So I was wondering if anyone has that and if it workd good because my hair isn't actually wavy, but it kind of is. idk I don't know how to explain it. It's just retarted. I guess you could call them kinks, wtv that is lol. Sooo does it work good?
thanks (link)
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haha my hair sounds like yours. Its not exactly wavy... but its not straight haha. I use garnie frutis of however you spell it. It makes your hair sleek. Then when you get out of the shower Use a big square brush and brush your hair while you blow dry it, or just use a flat iron. The con air brush is like the best way for straight hair.
No shampoo gets rid of curls and stuff completely, you always need something else... and it sucks lol
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okay, i have red dots on my boobs going on i dont know if it is zits or not:s it might be cause of the weather but do you know what i can use to make it go away?
or hwta should i do everyday?
please help. i dont want it, i dont like it
I'm 13, girl lol..live in Cananda.. (link)
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Red bumps on your boobs are common. A lot of people get them. Just make sure you shower at least every other day. But it doesnt matter if they`re there or not cuz yoo shudnt be showing them to anyone anyway haha. =]
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is there a quick, easy way to get rid of bug bites quickly? i have about 10 little bug bites all over my face and they look like zits. im going to a party tomorrow and i really dont want them! (please dont tell me to cover them up, i just want them gone) (link)
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Theres this thing called Itch-X... its like this little marker looking thing and if you put it on your bites they go away fast, and the itching stops. Problem is, I dont think theyll go away by tomorrow.
If they arent gone by tomorrow put witchhazel on them, and then use coverup. That way no1 will see them and the witchhazel will work while your at the party. Fastest thing I can think of.
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