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I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

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Dear Advicenators-

This year one of my best friends, let's call her amanda, went into highschool. See, I was always more popular and had more friends then her. (I'm in 8th grade now)And when she was in middle school, let's say she wasn't the coolest of the bunch. We were best friends until I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th. See, then I started hanging out with my friends from school on the weekends; and me and amanda's sleepovers every friday and saturday turned into once or twice hour hang outs once a month. Yet, sure enough, when school was out, we became close again, adn real tight. Now she went into highschool and started to make new friends, when i was still in middle school. She got a new boyfriend, got a new best friend, with a new life. Ever since school started we hardly ever hang out. And now, 5 months later, she straight up tells me she doesn't want to be that close anymore and really doesn't want to be friends. Now, at first I understood she was frustrated, I didn't think she was serious. But now i really now she is dead serious. AND IT KILLS ME! I want to cry so much and pour out tears, and to know it doesn't effect her at all, and she can let go such a great friendship like that, just crushes me. Like, think of your of that one friend were you feel %100 completely comfortable wiht adn can tell anything. WE were tight, when the two of us got together we had so much fun. And now she wants to blwo it all away, and means it! But i don't know what it is! Is it her getting back at me from when I started hanging out with my school friends more, or does she just want to move on with her life and forget me. Like rigth now, we had this huge fight adn she acted liek she did't even care about me, and afterwards her away message was "hanging wiht Bridget watchign American Pie, haha"(her new best friend. When i thik over all are memories I want to cry out my heart knowing that I can never have them again with her. i don't know what to do. Should I make the first step and start trying to be friends with her again. the thing is she really meant when she said she doesn't want us to talk anymore or hang out, or even become friends again! What should I do, I'm devistaited!Thank-you :(

If you two have been friends that long and she suddenly wants to throw it all away .. she`s not worth your tears ! I understand that you care for her very much as a friend, but you can`t change her ming about being friends with you.
Try making new friends .. keep yourself busy so you won`t have to think about her. Eventually she will realize that she had made a mistake by ditching you, but that will be her own problem. Just cheer up and remember that she`s the one making a big mistake.
♥ Allie.

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I just had a volleyball tournament recently. Well, I got a few injures. I can't extend my left leg without my knee hurting ((Could y'all tell me what's up with that? I skinned it pretty bad)) and I think I cracked my tailbone. And my muscles are real stiff. Can y'all tell me what I can do to relive this pain?

Try putting a heating pad on your stiff muscles, your knee, tailbone, etc. .. Keep on moving your knee and slowly it should start to feel better. Taking warm baths should help too. Ice will just make your muscles and knee more stiff, so only use it if you are swollen anywhere. If you are still feeling pretty bad after a few weeks, go see your doctor.
♥ Allie.

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

Nope, it`s impossible. The sperm would die within a few seconds. You have nothing to worry about !
♥ Allie.

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i like this guy. its just every time we talk on the phone i get sooo nervous and i cant be myself, so i dont know what to talk about without sounding like a complete loser. so what can i talk about on the phone? help.

First, you need to take a deep breath and relax ! Okay, start a conversation about: What happend at school that day, Music, Sports, etc .. Once you get the conversation started, it`ll be easy. Just remember that he`s probably just as nervous as you !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !

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Hello, I've looked up Limewire and everything I've read says it's legal. But I still can't help but wonder...
So does anyone know if it really is legal? Because I want to download it, I just don't know if I'll get in trouble for it.

Well, Limewire is legal .. until you download or upload music with it then it`s illegal, because you`re not paying for it. But the thing is .. millions of people use it everyday, so you won`t get in trouble. I`ve had it for quite awhile. So go ahead and download it !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !

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ok i was thinking of getting a ipod shuffle about how much songs does it hold how much does it cost and is it worth the money.
thanks

It cost between $90 and $100. It can hold up to 120 songs, or more depending on how big your songs are .. !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped!

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okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude?

If you`ve had to repeat yourself more than a couple times, and he`s still not getting a clue .. you`re going to have to be rude. Don`t be extremly rude though because you don`t want to hurt him, just be firm enough so he`ll take a hint. If you don`t assert yourself he`s going to keep on asking .. and that could get really annoying ! lol.
♥ Allie

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okay so i went to the doctor and i have a problem with my knee and have to wear this huge ugly brace over my pants, its big ugly and soo bulky looking. i want to know if people will like point and stare? and will people think its ugly? and is it stupid to be like nervous to wear it in front of people?

If your doctor told you to wear it, it`s probably best to wear it. I had to wear a knee brace for awhile too and nobody really pointed and stared .. people did ask stuff like "Oh what happend" but just tell them the truth. It`s nothing to be nervous about !
♥ Hope I helped !

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My sister-in-law is getting married and moving away at the end of the month. I've only known her for a year now, and we've just started to bond. I'm really upset and depressed that she's moving and I want to do something for her. The problem is, I don't have a lot of money, or any idea what I should do or what I should get her.

Does anyone have any ideas of something special we could do together before she leaves, or something I could give to her? I really want whatever I do to make an impression, and I'm going to miss her a lot.

I'll leave more information if anyone needs it.

I know exactly how you`re feeling. My brother is moving away soon and we just started to bond also. Anyways, make something for her. I don`t really have any ideas on what you should make her, but just remember that it`s the thought that counts!
♥ Hope I helped !

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what is this song?

let the rain fall,
i dont care,
im yours and suddenly youre mine,
its brighter than sunshine



please help :]

It`s called 'Brighter than Sunshine' by AquaLung.
♥ Hope this helped !

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Well, I took a midol at school, and I didn't have anything to wash it down with (my schools water is actually toxic..we've done tests)so I used saliva..well it didn't work to well, and I knew it was residing somewhere near the bottom of my throat. I figured it would go down eventually and didn't worry about it. Well 5 minutes later I started getting a very uncomfortable burning feeling in the lower part of my throat. The pain shot all the way down into my upper back. It went away after an hour (mostly) and I went on with my day. Well today during lunch I realized that everytime I swallowed (food, drink, air) my throat began burning alot, and it feels alot like the time I had broncitis and developed a lot of scar tissue in my throat...uncomfortable. Or the time I vomited 6 times in a row. I know it was the midol, but my question is, "What did it do to me? And should I tell someone or see if it stops...?"

Ouch ! Well I say if the pain doesn`t go away soon .. visit a doctor as soon as possible. It might not be anything serious, but it would still be a good idea to get things checked out. Definatly tell one of your parents or guardians.
Hope this helped !

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Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..

This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this??

Doctors can tell if you are still a virgin or not. Plus, some STD's show no signs or symtoms at all, so you could have one and not even know it.

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I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What?

Sounds to me like you two could be more then 'just friends'.

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okay well there is this guy that asked me out last year && i saw no. but now i regret it..because i guess i like him now..but now he is going out with my friend && everybody is like saying they are PERFECT for each other..&& i heard that he brought her a ring from jared`s && now i can`t stop thinking that it could have been me. but i`m not sure if i tell him he likes me he might reject me && me && my friend may not like me anymore..

If your friendship between you and you and your friend is really important, I would try to back off the boy. No friendship is worth ruining over a boy! I don't mean to sound harsh, but you missed your opportunity with that boy and it's time to move on. Hope this helped!

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alright yesterday i was at this park with a bunch of my friends and this kid that i started to like started flirting with me and i was freezing so he was like.. come down here we can cuddle and keep each other warm im like alright so i moved down and he put his jacket on me and was rubbing my tummy and stuff and then he started going up my shirt im like alright oh well nothing big really and then they had to leave and so did i so when we were walking up the path thing to get to the road he stopped me turned me around and started kissing me yeah sounds cute and shit i know i thought so too and then im friends with the kid that is living in his house now and was talking to him on the phone and stuff and then he was telling me how the kid was saying he didnt know if he liked me and that if he stuck with this other chick that was at a party we were at early he probably would've gotten more shit from her and then this morning i talked to that kid thats living with him again and he said that the other kid wouldnt wanna hang out with that other girl and stuff and would wanna hang out with me and i was like well .. then why did he say that last night hes like i dont know he was being stupid he doesnt wanna show his feelings or whatever and now i dont know what to believe.. please help .

x3 brooke

sorry soo long

He sounds like a jerk to me. Just try to forget him, because if he's taking this long to decide if he wants to 'be with you' he's not worth your time. ♥ Hope this helped !!

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There's this guy I like.. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's got a girlfriend but he'll say I'm cute and pretty and everything. He'll even slap my butt and put his hands on my waist. When I talk to him I don't really know what to say. What are some things that I can say to him that are really flirty and sort of get the point to him that I like him?

Well first of all if this guy already has a GF he should'nt be acting like that with you. Anyways, if you are letting him do this stuff to you he should already get the point that you like him. If you not shy, try just straight out saying that you like him

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well I wanna download music so i got bear share i downloaded a couple of songs but then I heard that it gives viruses easy so i uninstalled it. Is that true?? Should I leave it that way or install it again. Or should I get limewire is that good?? or should I just not do either and get over it..??

5's for anything.

Yes, Bearshare is known to give viruses. So my suggestion is to get something else. I have Limewire and I haven't had any problems with it yet ! ♥ Hope this helped !!

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What age do purbity starts for a boy.

Puberty can happen anywhere between 11 and 15 for boys.

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ok the other day me and my guy friend kissed but it was open mouth ... people are asking me if i made out with him but i dont no what to say.. like did me and him make out or just french kiss?

its the same thing

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ok i keep geting boners and their annoying right? even when im not thinkikng of sex but their only annoying when im at school because u know some times i have to stand up... and then ppl stare so yea is their any way to not have them as often?

ummmm?...you cant stop them from happening bud.

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