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I have a great relationship with my best guy friend. (I am 14/f, he is 15/m) We tell each other everything, hes always there for me and I'm there for him. He's been trying to help me out with this guy I like and it's made me adore him even more, as a friend. But lately I've felt like maybe I like him as more than a friend? I think it may just be lust because I still like this other guy a lot. And I don't want to like my best guy friend. I would never want to lose him as a friend, and I know the best way to lose a friend is to date them. I'm not sure how to go about this. (link)
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it probably is lust.cause i know exactly what your going through and it really depends on how you guys are cause some of the best relationships the couples started out as best friends.but you guys seem close like brother and sister so i say go for the other guy.
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well i have this friend, her name is kaitlyn. and shes been goin out with this kid for about 3 months now. hes pretty cool. me and him are friends but he always is so controlling over kaitlyn. me and her are best friends and we have this really good friend ray that we have been friends with wayy longer then when her and her bf have known each other. she used to have a little crush on ray but she got over it fast cause they were just friends.and it was seriously nothing cause ray never knew and he didnt think of her like that. well her bf gets really mad when he calls her or she calls him. he wont talk to her and he always makes bad comments towards ray. and i think its really stupid cause were all really good friends. he wont go anywhere ray is. and its not just ray.. its EVERY guy that kaitlyn hangs out with. and thats most of our friends. just friends. if me and her go somewhere and are hangin out with one of them then he gets mad and thinks shes cheating on him or something and he keeps hanging up on her which causes her to keep calling him and apoligizing (even though she didnt do anything wrong) and she stays on the phone all night and ignores all of us. and he always seems to throw this one ex up in her face saying that hes goin to hang out with her if kaitlyn is hangin out with guys.
kaitlyn says she loves him and he loves her i guess but i think its stupid how he does that.
what do you think? (link)
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i don't think he love her cause love is trusting someone enough to give them your heart and trusting them not to hurt it or brake it.it seems like he didn't give her his heart and i think you should convince kaitlyn that this guy isn't good for her or since he's your friend talk to him.you should tell kaitlyn that a guy can last for a while but friends will last forever even after heartbreaks.
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we've have been dating for a few months and im a bit confused. we live really far away, around 3 and 1/2 hours away and i always told him that if it became too much, just to let me know and we'll be friends. he always said "no no its fine i love you blah blah" and that was that. ive been trying to fly out a few times but something goes wrong. the last time i broke my rib and i couldn't go see him. he was really angry because he wanted to see me, but i broke something! he always gets pissed off and i dont know what to say. im the one who gets blamed. on vday he said happy vday and thats it. basically he ignored me. i tried talking to him and then he kept asking "why are you in a bad mood". i told him that he was completely ignoring it and he said "well we arent even together so why celebrate it its stupid". i just thought he can at least talk to me or be nice. again, i said well if you have any problems tell me and we wont date but then he goes into no no i dont want that. is he being a jerk or what?? does he just not really like me like he says?? (link)
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yes he's being a jerk i say dump him it seem like he don't wanna break up with you because where he is he has another girl there.alot of guys like to think of themselfs as players or pimps when they have to girlfriends that know nothing of each other.if he wants to be rude not appreciate you then why do he deserve to keep you.if he truly love you as he say he won't let you slip away from his life that easy
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Well, it is my third time, dropping my question since, the answer is not comming deslaying...I feel very hurried for it please let me know my way to choose.
I'm a college student in second year.
Right from the begining of the college, I got into a relationship with a girl of a boyfriend. Her boyfriend was out of the country...she made it sure that, her boyfriend will not return back to the country any morrre. Before this could happyen she alsoy gave me a hint of her other passed boyfriend during her school whom she loved muchhh from class 7th to 11...then she was brutally jilted by him. When we got into relationship, we did what ever, was beyond our imaginations...we made out 3/4 times a day and with her, car, roaming even out of twon...she used to spend her some nights in my embrace in my lonely abode. Even I used to go to her place at nights and consuming love for each other. For one hour she didn't call me, I used to fight with her....for one day she didn't pick up my phone call...I was terribled...I followed her and finally found out that, despite my dedication to her, she has resumed with her ex-school boyfriend whom she loved much...again I could not see her be out of my life...I accepted her,,, I even noticed a big and cruel love bite in her tie righ near her vulva. Again, I could not resist chucking her out of my life...I seemed adicted to her accompany... what happened, she stopped spending time with me,,,I didn't feel well, and I said everything what I had seen...next time, when I called her, she gave the phone to her resumed boyfriend and he warned me, that, don't bother us...her resumed boyfriend does not know that, I'd had an affair with her for a sufficent and long time. Sometimes, I feel to fight with the boy..now need your advice, whether I should say everything to the guy and fight with him or shall I scandalize the girl??? Or shall I have to commit a suicide??? Waiting for your reply to receive ASAP. (link)
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for starters don't commit suicide.you put this question up because you need help and wanted some ideas on the right thing to do, well the right thing to do will be not to commit suicide.this girl seem like someone that won't feel guilty if you killed yourself she seem like someone that would think that she's so good at what she do that a guy would kill himself without her.don't fight the guy she love so much cause it'll amuse her to see guys fight over her.instead just leave her and her boyfriend alone and find another/better girl.then when he ends up hurting her again she's gonna want to crawl back to you and make things better.but you will not take her back cause no matter what she says she will end up doing it again to you if you take her back.
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Well, one of my guy friends who I actually did like confessed that he liked me. We decided to give going out a try. The thing is, he's more experienced (he's 17, I'm 16). I feel like I'm less experienced for my age, but now I don't know where things should go. He doesn't do much, sometimes we hug, but I'm afraid to do anything. And I don't know if we're technically boyfriend/girlfriend. I feel as if I should know all this, but I don't. What do you think is appropriate for the beggining stages of dating? And how can I be less nervous about it? (link)
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beginning stages of dating apporopiate things are:
1.hugging
2.kisses on the cheek
3.dates
4.gifts
5.hand holding
6.lip kissing
(i did them in the order they should happen but 3-5 can happen at anytime in the relationship)
you can think about how happy you are with him and the things you wanna do with him and let that overpower your nervousness
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over the weekend my best friend and i had the hugest fight we ever had, and weve been friends for 7 years now and i love her to death, but im tired of her taking advantage of me and taking me for granted. if im her BEST friend she should treat me the BEST. and she doesnt, so we made up at school today, but over the phone shes blowing me off again.. how do i get her to understand how selfish she is with out upsetting her *she upsets real easily* (link)
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im sure you get upset when she blow you off and it don't seem like she care how mad you get.jus do the same to her, blow her off and when she get pissed you could tell her "now you know wat it feels like,it feels crappy don't it and you don't like it so don't do it to me"and if that upsets her more jus give her a while to cool off and to think about how right you are
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ok so i just started sleeping with this guy. But there is one problem! He is never able to cum during after ANYTHING! i've tried a couple things to make him cum, but they just don't work. Is there something wrong with what i may or may not be doing or is it all him? (link)
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if he masterbate alot at home then it's all him cause cum is a way for guys to clean their body it's like their period except they only do it when their excited.so no cum + you=he probably masterbate at home or gett excited alot during a day
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Background information: i've been with my b/f for over 6 months, my best friend HATED it cuz she liked him too.. but shes the one who set us up.
Now shes been dating this guy for about 3 months, and hes kind of controlling. She doesn't understand why her friends think this. He got mad at her because she and I went out on a day that she was supposed to be with him.. but she tried calling him for like 2 hours before we left and he never answered or called her back until after we had already left. We offered to meet up with him and hang out (though i dont like him) but he got mad at her and went out with his ex.
I also told her that this really sweet guy she likes also likes her. And she told her boyfriend i was trying to set her up. I NEVER said i wanted her to date the other guy, i told her he liked her.
Also, the guy she is with was telling us hes been with numerous girls (he doesnt know how many, he was on drugs when he was with most of them)
Am i being over protective of my friend? She can't even hang out with me or her other friends without him. He also comes to see her at lunch and gets mad if she has other things to do and cant spend time with her (we have open campus for lunch)
Am i right in telling her she can do better than this guy? I'm really concerned because when i was in a relationship like that, it turned into an abusive relationship and was really hard to get out of (link)
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your not wrong at all you should try to get your friend out of that relationship as soon as possible before she come to school with a black eye or something and she sounds like someone that when the abuse comes she's not gonna say anything about it she sound like if you question her she'll lie for him.and if she do call it off with him and he get pissed don't leave her alone make sure she always have someone there that can help and/or protect her cause if he's that pissed about her he will get violent
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is it wrong if you watch porn ? if u like watch it on the internet can you like get arrested (i dont think you can but i heard some 1 say you could) thanx (link)
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no it's not wrong if you watch porn and you can't get arrested for it
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I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He also dumped me several times, and cheated on me. So at the end, I felt sexually and emotionally used!
I know I shouldn't be with him, and I don't want to be with him again because he's basically a bum and he can't even support himself. But for some reason, I keep falling for him, and he is begging for me to get back with him. I refuse but I need to get over him!
I totally apoligize for this being so long but thanks so much for reading and trying to help out! (link)
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let him beg let him plead w/e you do don't get back with him.cause if he could barely support himself he can't do anything for you but meet your sexual needs which you can get met if you go to a stripper club.to forget him jus ignore him and remember you can get someone that's MUCH better than that bum.keep your head high your heart in your chest and not on your sleve.and jus find another guy that won't depend on you for money.
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theres this 1 boy who always stares at me & sometimes looks away he stares me in the eyes
and also only talks to me online .. today i first talked to him and i asked him if it was really him online last night he said yeah and like smiled /got all happy type..lol and then i looked back and he put his hand up like come here or something and i kept on walking idk who he ment it to i thought it was one of his friends or something but there was no1 infront of me.. then he was in the same class as me & i came from a different class and i was outside near the lockers he came out and looked and then went back in the room he also has a gf .. but she lives like an hour away from here. the other day (friday) he did that nod thing i asked him online what it meant he said it meant hey .. hes been with his gf since june 05 .. also at lunch time he stands up and looks over at my table he said when he nodded to me i turned my head i didnt realize that he nodded to me.he also seems to follow me around school . alot of kids are acting differnt to me so i dont know why.he talks to his bestfriend in the same class as me and talks about other girls to like get me jealous what could he be trying to do ? and he talks about cars and goes online w/ them and looks at cars and girls . my 2 bestfriends think that he likes me .and in gym class he got out .... he was folding his arms like he was mad & staring at me .. then my friend was trying to take pictures of me & i blocked her cellphone with my hand and yelled no he looked at me .. do you think he like sme?
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he probably do but is to shy to tell you or cause he don't kno if he wants you or his gf.so he's gonna keep doing whats suppose to be normal guy stuff and keep staring at you cause he's probably thinking about the subject while he's staring at you.thinking tons of stuff about you until his girlfriend come in his mind and then the people in his head start arguing.so don't sweat it theres a strong chance that he likes you
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and he feels its about time for us to have sex. i keep telling him that im not ready but to him he just sees it as i dont want to with him. neither of us have done it and we are 18 and 19. i dont know what to do because i want to but 1.im scared of it hurting 2.i dont feel ready and 3.i dont really want him to want it all the time after i do it.
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the first time it always hurt but if you use tampons it don't make it hurt as bad so i heard.if he's pressuring you for sex and you have to constantly tell him your not ready jus leave him.cause if he's not gonna take your feelings into consideration you really shouldn't be with him.you should save your virginity for someone that will take your feelings into consideration that would wait until your ready and not pressure you.
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alright so theres this guy that i kinda have a thing for. there are some signs he gives me that says he might like me too, but theres also signs that say he doesnt.
the ones that say he does are:
he asked for my number, and i asked for his. but right after he asked for mine, he asked for another girls' also, but she didnt give it to him.
we joke around all the time, and always make eachother laugh.
when we talk in class, and i whisper, he always asks me to repeat what i said, and i say "nevermind" and he says "you always say nevermind. what did you say?" (and normal people would just drop it..ya know?)
sometimes in class i put my head down and then i turn my head to look at him and hes looking at me, and then he'll look away.
one time we both put our heads down, while facing eachother, and he smiled at me and then sat up.
he remembers little things we've talked about in 7th grade, like the movie "Meet the Fockers."
but some things that say he doesnt like me:
he doesnt really say hi in the halls when MY friends are around, but when they're not around he says hi.
he has this friend and when the seat next to his friend is empty (when that kid is absent,) he'll sit there with his friend, but still says bye to me and sometimes randomly turns around and gives me head nodds lol.
weve never talked on the phone, but we just started being friends again this year (because we havent talked in a while)
so my question is, do you think he likes me or is he just being nice? anything helps. thanks. (link)
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he definetly likes you.if he don't i wish all guys were that nice generally.he don't say hi to you when your friends are around because he probably knows what your friends are going to think about you and him and he don't want that to happen cause they just might aend up questioning him.and he sit with his friend when the other kid is absent cause he don't want his friend to think he's ignoring him for you cause that will get his friend thinking that he likes you to and he might not want that if he's shy
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i've been going to my new school for about a week now. and i'm quite literally, the only girl in my class.
i want a perspecitve, on a boy thing. i'm thirteen, and i'm a girl, but i'd bet that's no surprise.
basically, on my first day of school, this boy was very helpful to me and since, then he's been talking to me and playing around with me in gym. more specifically:
apparently this boy used to fall asleep for a while every morning, and since i've been there, he hasn't.
he's asked me constantly how i think my new school is, and told me pretty in depth what he wants to be when he grows up. like a heart to heart thing.
Multiple classmates (and even a teacher) give him crap about how he's pretended he's had balls, in their words, since i've come to school.
By the way he reacts to everything the class says, he either hates that everyone think he likes me, or he really really does like me. I think he's really sweet, i just can't tell what he wants, or why he seems to like me so much. Or if he even likes me at all. (link)
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he probably likes you or he don't want you to make friends with any of the other guys in your class.perhaps he likes you for your looks or cause he see something special something different in you that he hasn't seen in any1 b4
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so i'm looking for fun things to do with my boyfriend. no sex or oral because were not ready for that yet. are there any really fun make out positions? i think just stradling would be really fun but does the guy really enjoy that? i dunno if all the grinding on his u kno what would be good for him when clothes are actually on. haha you know?
let me know what you think. the more responses and ideas the better!
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well all guys like things concerning stuff like grinding cause guys have a much higher sex interest level than girls.so you could try makin out upsides down,backwards,while sittin on him,in a pool(dependin on where you live i don't know the temperature there now)and there's always the most common starting to make out with him by takin something out of his mouth(ex.,candy,gum,etc.)if you have any questions on any of the suggestions i gave you just ask me privately.
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my birthday is this friday.. do you think its wrong to give out invitations like.. on thursday if the party is on friday night? its at the movies. or should I move it to like saturday?
also, my family doesnt have alot of money now, so we cant really afford to have a big party. I'm turning thirteen. I wanted to invite 10 people.. but thats kinda expensive to go see a movie, so should i reduce it to five (thats kinda hard since i have alot of good friends) or just make the party at home (then i'd have to decorate and stuff..). i cant have sleepovers too.. cuz my parents dont like those. but im okay at making cookies though they take like 1-2 hours to make. ughhh this sucks badly. i have money in the bank, but what are some other ways to get some extra cash? I cant do them next week, but maybe later so my money can be balanced in the future.
otherwise, what are some other VERY inexpensive (I can only spend 50 dollars (or less) on this party!! I dont want my whole bank account to run dry!) and like.. very fun! i dont want the party to be a drag.. and im only inviting my closest friends, since its funner that way. and what should i make my invitations out of? or should i just buy it.. i dont want them to be lame.. but at the same time, not too pricey.
or should i just move my whole party to some other day? and would it be lame on my bday to wear those tiaras that say like "birthday girl" or something to school? heh.. thanks for answering my huge question! (link)
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make the party saturday no one likes goin to party on fridays(tired from work or school). bring 5-7 friends and tell them to bring there own money.make invitations out of construction paper and decorate it with different stuff to make it interesting.for extra cash in the future offer to babysit,do extra work around the house,extra work around your neighbors houses,or try makin cool things that nobody have and sell them.to make the party a bit interestin you can plan a day of jus goin different places for fun or causing trouble(that's always fun)only wear a tiara to school if it makes your outfit look awesome and you like a princess.
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my bf is going off to college. he's a senior and im a few years younger. i thought i would be happy about it and glad that he was going and getting accepted into good schools but im not. i feel bad about it but im just not happy about it. do you think its because all of the stories about how they leave you when they go to college? we have been dating for around 5 years. any ideas or tips? (link)
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if you guys are really serious then a couple of miles won't tear yall apart.just don't think about him leaving think about him coming back to see you on his breaks.
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Thanks for your Advice Toni and believe me it had helped. For most people they think he is ugly but there is something about him that makes him cute. The only bad thing about him is that he like to get high with Mary Jane. I dont know i just want to forget about him but like i said i cant beacuse i see him every day i school. Maybe you are right and he didnt say hi beacuse he tought i was mad or something. I just dont no what to do they have told me that he is a player but i dont know.I just want to get him outof my mind. Oh by the way my name is Josie (link)
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well josie if he likes getting high with mary jane it's his business cause he's gonna end up doing things without control when he's high.some top advice is don't date guys on drugs i know from experience my ex did coke and he forgot all the feelings he had for ma and started hitting me when i didn't wanna do what he wanted.no one deserves for something like that to happen to them.too get him out of your mind i suggest you find another/better guy or you can take a pause on guys right now and focus on other things until you feel ready to focus on them.just cause you see someone everyday in school it don't mean that you have to pay atttention to them sure thoughts will come to your mind but push them out of your mind with other things.
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i cant ask him out because he likes this girl named STACY so i think. and 2 of all i cant flirt with other guys beacuse i think i am not a very attracted person and i dont know how to flirt. Also i am a very shy person. Look today i have not talk to him all day at school i saw him and i passed right in front of him he didnt even say HI but i saw him with the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. I dont know i i like him or what. how do i realize if i like or if its just a fake cruch. Plz help me
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everyone is attractive maybe not to the entire world but someone in the world don't think your attractive they think your the most beautiful person in the world the only thing you gotta do is be yourself and be willing to take a chance.this chance is called dating if you keep being shy your not gonna find the person that thinks your amazing and if you do find him you'll be too shy to let him into your life.and the best thing about flirting is that it's like being partically nice to someone real special.he probably didn't say hi cause you didn't and prrobably think your mad at him or something.right now it's really sounding like a crush but most times a crush turn into a like and a like turn into a love.the only way i can tell you if it's a fake crush or not is if you started liking him cause your either in competion with another girl or you like him for like physical reasons and no nothing about him.for example if you only like him cause he has muscles or a six pack.if you like him for like his eyes or something that's another story.like imma sucker for guys with hazel eyes cause ithink hazel eyes are pretty on some boys.hope i helped and keep me posted.my name is toni by the way.
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16/F
alright so im 16 and i have yet to have my first kiss, or first real boyfriend, and its not like im ugly or anything, as a matter of fact, im really kinda pritty. (not to over confident of myself though) anyways, i like this guy, and he lives down the street from me. we've talked a couple of times, and he's a grade older than me, any suggestions on how i can maybe get him to like me, with out major flirting,
(im not real good at that)also im really bubbly around my friends but i get kinda shy around him. any suggestions of how to get him to like me? (link)
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first things first you can't force anyone to like you thats like forcin someone to love someone they don't.but what you can do is have him change his perspective on you that in a way he'll like and then end up liking you for you unforcfully (maybe).im not telling you to flirt majorly im tellin you to let him see the you beyond the shy girl up the street.let him see who YOU really are.with no acting like someone else or different around him jus you.(alot of guys like girls for who they are other than how they look.)
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