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bf ready for it but im not
my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and he feels its about time for us to have sex. i keep telling him that im not ready but to him he just sees it as i dont want to with him. neither of us have done it and we are 18 and 19. i dont know what to do because i want to but 1.im scared of it hurting 2.i dont feel ready and 3.i dont really want him to want it all the time after i do it.
help!
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the first time it always hurt but if you use tampons it don't make it hurt as bad so i heard.if he's pressuring you for sex and you have to constantly tell him your not ready jus leave him.cause if he's not gonna take your feelings into consideration you really shouldn't be with him.you should save your virginity for someone that will take your feelings into consideration that would wait until your ready and not pressure you.
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If you are not ready, just don't. There is a good chance it will hurt like hell. But really that is irrelevant since you do not feel ready.
Just stick to fooling around.
I hope it works out.
-AAG
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If your not ready, then your not ready. If he forces you to have sex, its considered rape. Don't fall for any cheesy lines like "If you REALLY love me, you'll do it." If he keeps pressuring you,(not to sound mean or anything) i would drop him like a stone. If you don't want to do that,then find SOMEWAY to let him KNOW you are serious and you WILL NOT change your mind. I'm really sorry if i didn't help.
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