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we've have been dating for a few months and im a bit confused. we live really far away, around 3 and 1/2 hours away and i always told him that if it became too much, just to let me know and we'll be friends. he always said "no no its fine i love you blah blah" and that was that. ive been trying to fly out a few times but something goes wrong. the last time i broke my rib and i couldn't go see him. he was really angry because he wanted to see me, but i broke something! he always gets pissed off and i dont know what to say. im the one who gets blamed. on vday he said happy vday and thats it. basically he ignored me. i tried talking to him and then he kept asking "why are you in a bad mood". i told him that he was completely ignoring it and he said "well we arent even together so why celebrate it its stupid". i just thought he can at least talk to me or be nice. again, i said well if you have any problems tell me and we wont date but then he goes into no no i dont want that. is he being a jerk or what?? does he just not really like me like he says??
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It sounds like he's being mean to you. What are you getting out of the relationship? If he doesn't respect you or treat you right, then why put up with him and stick around just because he says so?
I think you should talk to him about it. Tell him that you didn't like the way he treats you or that he gets upset with you too often - even when it isn't your fault. I can see why he might be upset, but he shouldn't be mad at you. Ask him if its OK to come and see you for a change.
I'm not sure if he does like you. He might be keeping you just for the sake of having a girl friend, which wouldn't be right. The fact that he didn't want to acknowledge Valentines Day and that he made that comment about you is a little too much. Ask him that: why are you even dating if you aren't even together. I don't know if you meant together in person or together in dating or in the future or what. Ask him to listen to you and how you feel and that you really just need the truth from him. If he keeps getting frustrated and mad at you, then let him go - it wouldn't be worth it. Just make sure you're open and honest. Hope that helped and good luck.
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yes he's being a jerk i say dump him it seem like he don't wanna break up with you because where he is he has another girl there.alot of guys like to think of themselfs as players or pimps when they have to girlfriends that know nothing of each other.if he wants to be rude not appreciate you then why do he deserve to keep you.if he truly love you as he say he won't let you slip away from his life that easy
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First of all if he wants to see you that bad he should get on a plane and come see you especially when you had a broken bone. He should have came to see you. Honey he is childish he just doesn't understand plain logic. You should break up with him maybe not because of how he feels about you but becasue he iosn't man enough to deal with a long distance relationship. He could have sent you roses, and candy or whatever. What kind of bull**** is that why celebrate it since we're not together he could have came to you and you'l could have been together on his part if he was a G. That relationship is too stressful unecesarily why be in a realationship that is long distance if you are always arguing and you basically don't have good realtionship communication. It is not worth it all that negative energy could be going into a new man close to home. You deserve better You should tell him to change his ways or it is over.
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