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Depressed
Well, it is my third time, dropping my question since, the answer is not comming deslaying...I feel very hurried for it please let me know my way to choose.
I'm a college student in second year.
Right from the begining of the college, I got into a relationship with a girl of a boyfriend. Her boyfriend was out of the country...she made it sure that, her boyfriend will not return back to the country any morrre. Before this could happyen she alsoy gave me a hint of her other passed boyfriend during her school whom she loved muchhh from class 7th to 11...then she was brutally jilted by him. When we got into relationship, we did what ever, was beyond our imaginations...we made out 3/4 times a day and with her, car, roaming even out of twon...she used to spend her some nights in my embrace in my lonely abode. Even I used to go to her place at nights and consuming love for each other. For one hour she didn't call me, I used to fight with her....for one day she didn't pick up my phone call...I was terribled...I followed her and finally found out that, despite my dedication to her, she has resumed with her ex-school boyfriend whom she loved much...again I could not see her be out of my life...I accepted her,,, I even noticed a big and cruel love bite in her tie righ near her vulva. Again, I could not resist chucking her out of my life...I seemed adicted to her accompany... what happened, she stopped spending time with me,,,I didn't feel well, and I said everything what I had seen...next time, when I called her, she gave the phone to her resumed boyfriend and he warned me, that, don't bother us...her resumed boyfriend does not know that, I'd had an affair with her for a sufficent and long time. Sometimes, I feel to fight with the boy..now need your advice, whether I should say everything to the guy and fight with him or shall I scandalize the girl??? Or shall I have to commit a suicide??? Waiting for your reply to receive ASAP.
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Well, I totally got your feelings. You will have a life of partenership with its good meanings. You will have your own and beautiful love with your partener one day...that should have been a local girl of yours. Is it not so? It should be. Do one thing. Love yourself and start making more friends among girls and boys. you will be the best.
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for starters don't commit suicide.you put this question up because you need help and wanted some ideas on the right thing to do, well the right thing to do will be not to commit suicide.this girl seem like someone that won't feel guilty if you killed yourself she seem like someone that would think that she's so good at what she do that a guy would kill himself without her.don't fight the guy she love so much cause it'll amuse her to see guys fight over her.instead just leave her and her boyfriend alone and find another/better girl.then when he ends up hurting her again she's gonna want to crawl back to you and make things better.but you will not take her back cause no matter what she says she will end up doing it again to you if you take her back.
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I highly suggest you seek counseling for this. It is not healthy for you to be obsessed with this person or any other. Love is not about possession. You need to back off of this whole situation and do some soul searching. There is an emptiness inside that cannot be filled by another person. You tried to do this. You think that she will end your lonliness. She won't and she can't. This is why you are suicidal, also. Thinking that it is going to be your way or no way at all. You wanted to control her, the whole situation, and now death. It is not your time to die. It is your time to break free from the misery and lonliness by finding someone that will always love you unconditionally and never leave...this person is YOU. I want you to talk to someone, a counselor to help you get in touch with your feelings...the ones you have not talked about and are reluctant to admit. You are not alone, and you will find real love. Love that is about respecting and allowing each other the space to be individuals and still connect. Start today a new journey, toward self healing, and get into the school counselor's office. You will need support and they should be able to provide you with a headstart towards your total well-being.
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If she handed her boyfriend the phone when you called he probably already knows of your relationship with his girlfriend. I don't know that she would risk your maybe telling him otherwise.
You just need to move on. They don't want to be bothered by you, she has made her choice. Sounds like she used you while he was away.
No need to fight him. You may not like him but he didn't do anything to you.
No need to scandalize he because you can't scandalize someone with no morals.
Don't commit suicide either. Life goes on, there is another girl out there for you.
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