about

Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.


I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.


We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.


We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.


This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".


I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.


I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.



I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.


I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.


If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.


My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.


I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]


My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.


I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]


I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.


And that's about all you need to know about me.


I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

advice

you should post a picture of you and your boyfriend. I think everyone is interested in your ordeal with him. its pretty awesome how your handling it. yes, i'm a fan of your bloggg!

Thanks. :]

To be honest with you most of the pictures I have of us together are not the best in the world. But I will try to find one to put up.

Oh, & because of all the negativity on my old blog, I recently made a new one. www.xanga.com/candycoatedskulls

Thanks again! :]

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i LOVE the destroyed jeans you have in your xanga picture, where are they from?

Thanks. :]

I actually have had those about a year or so, and they have basically been through hell. A majority of the holes came from me. I got them from Rue21 though.

Thanks again. :]

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I have a 2 month old puppy and I was really hesitant to put her in our huge pool - but my dad decided to throw her in anyways! I freaked out but suprisingly enough she just paddled her way back to the steps. I coulden't believe it. My question is - Do dogs have the natural ability to swim? Even at 2 months old and 1 1/2 lbs? It was crazy.

Hey.

I asked my vet this one time.
& yes, dogs are pretty much born knowing how to swim. Even being so small and young.

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is just using a condom & pulling out effective enough? what is the chance youll get pregnant with that? we check the condom every time afterwards by filling it up with water

Hey.

Like the other person said, a condom is only effective when used properly. When the instructions that come with condoms and follow them very closely.

The pull out method isn't a very good one. It is highly uneffective, and I don't recommend it. Usually there is pre-cum which contains little sperm, but still there is always a chance.

And checking everytime the way you do is a very good thing to do.

I feel really hypocritical answering this question, because I am pregnant. So, I guess always use a condom, every single time. No matter what.

Be Safe. :]

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okay the whole having him lay down and me get on him, it doesn't work because my legs are too short. the only length i have in my body is my torso. i'm 5'2" and my boyfriend is taller but he's got a 7 1/2" penis, and since my legs are itty bitty, i can't seem to get up and down fast enough. he gets either bored watching me try to do something impossible for my size, or he starts to get turned off. and both are not good. :[ we do this thing where i am turned away from him and he wraps his legs around my hips and it seems to work better, but not much. ahh its bugging me. i'm leaving in 8 days for five months, and i want to leave him wanting a lot more.... :[[

help?
thank you to the people that answered the last one, but i need a little more.

Hey.

I have sorta the same problem. I'm 4'8" and my guy has 8 1/2. I've figured that the easiest way to "ride" him to sit, then I sit facing him with my legs wrapped around his hips. It seems to work pretty good.

Like the other guy said, try different positions. We love doggy, but thats just us.

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Okay I just uploaded pics on my Ipod Nano, but there's no category on the main screen called "Photos." Where are the pictures??

Hey.

That other person in wrong, you can put photos onto an ipod nano. I know, I have over 100 on mine.

Anyways, when you plug your ipod in, and your i tunes pops up. Go to where all your ipod folders are. Check on Photos. That should make all the photos upload onto your ipod.

Good Luck.

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What age do you think is appropriate to get your nose pierced? Thank you!

Hi.

I have over 20 piercings, and personally I don't think kids should get piercings until they are at least 15. Which kinda makes me feel hypocritical since I started getting mine around 13.

Anyways, for a nose piercing. I'd say 15.

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I need help looking for jeans. I want skinny jeans, but not the ones that stick to your skin. Kind of like the baggy skinny jeans, if that makes sense. I've checked Kohl's, Old Navy, Walmart, and Target.

17/male

Hey.

Try Rue21.
I went there today with my fiance, and they had a lot of the type you are talking about.
& they were priced really reasonable.
like 20 bucks actually.

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So, I got my period yesterday (it's not my first one) and my periods last like 2 weeks and here's the problem. I'm leaving tomorrow to go to my neighbor's lake house for 6 days and 6 nights. My period will probably be going through the WHOLE time I'm there. The house is a little cottage and the only fun things to do are wakeboard & tube in the water. I haven't been able to wakeboard in 3 weeks because I've been busy and I was so excited and now I probably can't go. I'm thinking about wearing a pad on my bathing suit shorts and some crappy shorts from old navy over them & I'll wakeboard like that. I don't wear tampons, I'm not ready. Is there anything I can eat/do to make my period stop or go by quicker?! If not, what do I wear in the water while I'm tubing besides a tampon?? Ugh, this is such a lousy situation. Please help me. =]

Hey.

Your period stops in water, so really I wouldn't worry about it. I have the same problem but I usually only wear my bathing suit, jump in the water, and I'm fine. So don't worry.

But if you really are worried, wear a pad in your bathing suit.

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ok i have only stuck my pointer finger in my vagina and i use super plus tampons and i was wondering, is my cherry popped? it was a long time ago so i dont remember if i bled or not. my finger is about 3 to 3 1/2 inches long.

thanks.

Hey.

That other person is wrong.
Just because something is in your vagina, doesn't mean your cherry is popped. [example; i used tampons 2 years, and my cherry didn't pop until the first time i had sex]

There really isn't a way to find out if your cherry is popped. Usually you bleed when you pop it. Either way, regardless of it being popped or not, you are still a virgin until you have sex for the first time.

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okay so i'm 14 years old and i am really in need of a job this summer. i've applied at 3 mcdonalds that said they weren't in need of help so macdonalds is a no. i have an oppurtunity to babysit too but i really don't want too, so if you could help give me ideas of places that hire 14 year olds or a good job search website it'd help me tons :]

oh please don't say cutting grass or anything like that please

thanks
-hannah-

Hey.

Try places like Dairy Queen & ColdStone. They usually hire around 14-15. Also, places that wash cars, like Auto Bell. Dippin' Dots. Sonic. Good Will & The Salvation Army.

Try those, cause around here I'm pretty sure they would hire you.

Good Luck.

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why is it that when you love something you let it go? what the hell

Hey.

If you love something, let it go. & if it was real love it will come back.

Tryed & True.

Its just saying not to be scared to let go of the one you love, because the one you love will come back.

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how do you have phone sex with a guy? like what do you do? thanks.

Hey.

Basically two people talk dirty to each other. Which they masturbate. Pretty Simple.

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im getting soooo sick of the top friends thing. people are always begging to be on my top friends, or asking to be moved higher, or whining cuz they arent high enough. its so stupid. has anyone found a solution to this? besides taking off the top friends altogether? (i'd really like to do that, but my bf is my top friend and its really important to him that i have it like that, which is silly, but i love him and want to keep him happy). is there some code that will make your top friends rotate around or something? or is there a nice way to tell people to quit bugging me about it? thanks for any ideas! =]

Hey.

I just had an idea.
Hide you're friends section.
Then in your about me, add a section for friends.
Then have a marquee (scrolly thingy) and have there pictures on it, linked to there myspace.
Or just have your really important guy friend.

I kinda liked the idea..

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how old were you when you 1st had sex ?
I know I can ask you because you are in love and such !
I want to also know what other things have been done ?
Fingering,eating out,blow jobs etc ... well do they hurt in any way?

Hey.

I was 13 when I had sex the first time.
I had been with Tommy for a year at that time.
It was very special. :]

Well, I have done all those that you listed.
The only one that really hurt was when I lost my virginity, and when he fingered me the first time. It wasn't a bad pain, it went away quickly though.

Have a good weekend. :]

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16/f .. if that matters.

My CD player in my car is being weird. I just got it recently and it worked for a while, but then I let my dad use my car and something happened with the CD player I guess and so now it doesn't work.

I have a MP861OBT Jensen Mosfet 72 Watts [or something] Radio. It has Bluetooth and everything. The instruction manuel doesn't have a thing to tell you how to play a CD, it just tells you to put the CD in and it should automatically play, but that doesn't work for me. I've tried taking out CDs and trying different ones but it just won't work.

=\
Any ideas?

Hey.

Have you tryed seeing if any of the plugs or cords have came loose? Try reconnecting [reinstalling] everything. That should work.

If not, try cleaning it. You can buy CDs that you just pop in, and will clean the lenses.

If those don't work, then its probably still under warranty and you may want to exchange it for one that works.

Good Luck.

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Here's the situation. I lost "it" to my first boyfriend [[*we'll call him michael*]]back about 7 months ago. we ended up breaking up and my parents found out all about our relationship and it started a huge family feud and no trust with me and my new boyfriend (who was actually a good friend of mine for 2 years and now we're together and we'll call him Scott). well we worked it out and everything is fine. Scott assured me he wasn't like that and in fact he's a virgin and wanted to wait till marriage because he wanted it to be something special and with the one he knew he was going to marry. well, with our previous history, and we've been together a few months, tonight we were home at his house alone and things just got really hot and heavy and to make a long story short we ended up having sex and weren't protected cuz we weren't expecting it and he doesn't have condoms on hand since he wasn't expecting to ever need them.

now i'm scared to death that i might get pregnant. with michael, i actually was pregnant at one point, but i had a miscarriage [[*not an abortion*]]. and i swore i would change after me and him broke up, but me and Scott just got caught in the moment and didn't realize till it was too late. i feel awful about it and now i'm terrified. is there anyway i can do something to ensure i don't get pregnant?! we're not gunna do that again and. . .if i get pregnant again, i'm no way in heck going to have an abortion, but i just don't know what we'd do! we're both financially unstable right now AND i just patched everything with my parents. i really need advice ya'll!!!

i'm 17 and he's 18

Hey.

As has been said, there really isn't a way to tell for sure that you are pregnant. & I'm sure you realize that it is a possibility. I think the best solution for you is to get the morning after pill. You can get those over the counter here, I'm not sure about where you live. I really think that will be your best bet right now.

Hope everything works out with you.
God Bless.

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did you really get diagnosed with breats cancer =O ??

Hey.

Yes, I really was. I would never lie about anything like that. I've had a lot of stuff like that happen to me.

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Hey, So i was checking out your column, your 14...and your getting engaged?

And...you were 11 when you started going out with this guy?

just wondering...

Hey.

Basically...yes.
I think, I'm not really sure to be honest with you, but if the math says it then yeah.

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On hannah montana, on the episode "I am hannah hear me croak", where hannah loses her voice..and stuff, when she's in her room, i REALLY LOVE HER BEDDING. It's orange and it's really cute. Does anyone know where to get that? Or anything similar? Please don't say like..look on macys.com, or look at jcpenny, i want a link. I really love it! Even on ebay or anything. PLEASE

thanks!

xoxo

Hey.

WWW.PBTEEN.COM

I'm pretty sure they have the exact one, or one similar.

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