I'm 13 female. I like to talk on the phone, aggravate my sister, argue with anyone who's willing to put up with me, i luv to act crazy around my friends, i luv hanging with my cuzin who is like a sister-big shout out smartgirl321.
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Okay so I have a little brother who's only 11 and ever since I started caring about what I wore and shopping and all that stuff like in the beginning of middle school he has too. Like when started shopping at Abercrombie & Hollister he started to also. I think that's cute and all but he cares a little too much because recently every time I get a new piece of clothing whether my parents bought it, I got it w/ my money, a giftcard, or even a garage sale he freaks out and says that I have so many clothes and bla bla bla. The problem is that he has convinced my parents not to get me any more clothes for a long time and I REALLY need them. How can I convince them that I really do need more clothes?? (link)
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start wearing the same thing every so often then talk about how your friends were saying theres asale at .... then ask if you could maybe go and check it out and if your parents say yes then you can go and then find an outfit that looks so good on you that way your mom will say maybe we could get this one outfit or what ever this works on my mom also my dad doesntlive with me so its easy to get money from both to go shopping but maybe you can do little jobs around your house and ask to be paid for them then you can buy your own clothes back to the firts thing i said after wearing the same outfit even tough it gets kinda ewwww..... after a few time you just want to wear something else point this out like saying gee these jeans are starting to get worn out the more comits you make it becomes obvious so only a few every so often and make it about the same clothes like consintrate on one outfit for like 2 days hopefully this works
hope i helped love talktome224
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Alright well there is this boy name Craig and we've been best friends since the middle of 7th grade and now we're going into the 8th grade and i mean i've always kinda liked him and after we becamse good friends he would tell me that he likes me but other days he would say he didnt like anybody but he always flirts with me and stuff and during the last week of school we kissed a few times and he told me how much he liked me but he doesnt want a girlfriend for the summer and i was getting my hopes up for next year (thinking maybe he'd ask me out) but now because its summer we've only seen each other like 3 times and i saw him the other day and we didnt talk to each other and i think it was because we were both really nervous but i dont know if he likes me anymore.. i know that hes a flirt and hes intrested in other girls but it seems like when me and him are alone that we both really like each other a lot and nobody else, things have changed because its summer but i think when school starts again things will be back to the way they used to but im not sure and i dont want to ask him if he still likes me because i dont want to be embarressed if he says no but my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know!.. I'm confused. Please Help! (link)
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sounds like he likes you but i would wait til school starts again that way yall would be spending alot of time togather and you would be able to tell if you both still like each other but for now it sounds like he into you
soooooo..... good luck
hope i helped love talktome224
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
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well you sound like my friend i cant tell you wat to do for sure but my friend one this gurl over from her other dog bf by saying i love and you have to trust me and telling her the way he feels for real he thought she would just blow him off but she thanked him for it and now their dating so....
hope that helped love talktome224
ps if its meant to be itll happen i dont know when but it will
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i went to the doctor to find out if i was pregnant and the nurse came in before hand to ask if i wanted to be or not and i of corce said no and the lady left the room to get the results and then came back to tell me that i wasnt. but that if i didnt start soon to try the test again because i could get a positive later on. i've heard that doctors can tell you that your not so that when you finally do find out its to late to have an abortion. is that true? and does it sound like that's what was going on in this situation? (link)
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i dont know if doctors really do that but their soppused to take an oath saying that they cant lie to their paicents but i would say go with a trusted friend or alone and take a test from like a store or pharmacy that way it cant lie to you but it could be wrong but for now that would be the best thing to do
hope i helped love talktome224
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is it normal for a girl to have an upset stomach during her period? Because my stomach feels naseaus(sp?)and i feel like i wanna puke and my stomach is all bubbly feeling..this is my 3rd time having my period so any suggestions what i can do. i dont have any medicine so that wont help. 14/f....thanks for neone who tries to help. (link)
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well its probaly cramps take a hott water bottleand lay it on your stomach where it hurts make sure its not to hott hope i helped
love talktome224
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i babysit little kids, and i think its really fun, but the ppl i babysit for are moving. and its stinks, i have no business and i really need the money (link)
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well pass out flyers in your neighborhood or even ask if they know anyone they could recommend you for hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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This will probly sound stupid but what finger do you wear a promise ring on?? My boyfriend will probly get me one for our anniversary and I dont know? I appreciate and will rate answers. (link)
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use a your ring finger or your left second from your pinky
hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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So, today, at the camp I work at, I handed out business cards to some moms and one called me to babysit for a 9 yer old girl, 7 year old girl, and 6 year old boy. I have accepted the job at 8 dollars per hour for 4 hours. How can I keep the kids busy. I don't want to color or watch TV, and since the boy is there, I don't know what to do... (link)
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play some games but hide and seek is a bad idea remeber you want to be able to find these kids play like whatever board games thses kidds have and even ask what they want to play and a little tv would be ok i mean you have four hours so spread everything out
good luck love talktome 224 and hope i helped
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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well just tell him that are ok with it but you only want it if he does and i think he likes you and he only wants to do what you do so hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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Ok. I'm going on vacation to Brazil in less than a week and I'm gonna pierce my belly button there. I heard that salt water is good for the piercing. But I also heard that it's not good to go swimming ANYWHERE b/c it might get infected. I need to know if I could go swimming in the ocean while I'm Brazil (since the ocean is salt water you know)? Please answer! So important for me to know. I'll rate good! (link)
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my sister just got hers done and she went on vaca to florida right after and she went swimming like everyday in salt water and in a pool and it didnt get infected
hope i helped good luck p.s let me know if it hurts though im getting mine done on my 14th b day so just send it on feedback thnx
good luck
love talktome224
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hey, im a girl, and i shave my armpits, but there is always this grayish area left. like i dunno how to make it look like just skin, like the rest of the girls do. i mean, it doesnt get mistaken for like not shaving but it still bugs me! please dont leave me mean answers. i really try and i dont want to hear anything you have to say if yur gonna be mean. (link)
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well i guess you can try like dove conditioning underarm care line like deoderant and shave creme with lotion and stuff in it
hope i helped
love talktome224
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well you chould just say something like wanna know something funny and then say do you remeber that day you said we would hang out and then tell hm a funny story then just wait for a reaction then say b/c im leaving soon so...
just wait for a reaction
hope i helped love talktome224
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I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers?? (link)
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flyers in your neighborhood if youknow anyone in your neighborhood that has small children then you can just tell there parents
hope i helped love talktome224
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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tell her but for the the sake of seeing your boyfriend and because if she finds out before you move out it would suck but any way tell her and explain twhy you are a wiccan vs a christian like instead of and hopefully shel understand
hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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ok i'm almost 13, i havent gotten my period yet and all my other friends have. should i be worried? i mean im 53 and 120 lbs what should i do? (link)
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no my friend didnt get hers til she was 15 i wouldnt worry about it i got mine on my 13th birthday exacly some birthday presant ha well you should be happy most girls bragg about it but trust me it kinda holds you back from stuff like swiming and well whatever but on the plus side you shouldnt worry
hope i helped love talktome224
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13/m when i was like 5 me and my freind looked at each others dick and then when i was 7 this happened again i dont like boys at all i only like girls and there the only gender i want to have sex with does this mean iam gay or bi or none we were young i dont think it meant anything but lately ive been starting to think about it. (link)
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no almost all children expirement when their little but if it happens again like now there might be a problem but if it doesnt i wouldnt worry bout it just keep your mind off it
hope i helped love talktome224
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I'm thinking about getting side swept bangs. All of you that have them, are there disadvantages? Does it get in your face, and will it take quite a long time to grow out? I also do track, so will it annoy me when I'm running? THanks (link)
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no it doesnt take long and pin them back no big deal and yes everyone has them
hope i helped love talktome224
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My friend knows I like this guy and that i hooked up with (she too hooked up with another boy) but the other night she was flirting with the boy I like and have hooked up with! Isnt this against girl code or something? She was standing on a table while he was laying face first on the table trying to act like a stripper..then she started to smack his ass..my other friend who knows i like the boy also joined in..what do i make out of this? do i talk to her or let it go? we never fight really.. (link)
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well differnt gurls have differnt gurl code see me and my friends have you can talk but not for longer than 15 minutes at a time and definetly no touching so look in the past and see if your friends ever brought up gurl code but to me seems like you should be mad at your friends but thats based on my gurl code though
hope it helped love talktome224
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ok there is this guy that i really like and i kno he likes me too but he is kinda mad at me right now....that or he hates me...and i dont know why....i would do anytng for this guy and i think he knows it ! but i dont know why he is mad so i dont know what to do....please help...what should i do whjen the guy i love is mad at me and i donrtknow why?
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ask him why tell him that you honestly dont know why and if he really likes then hel explain it and it will work out
good luck hope it helped
love talktoe224
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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something. (link)
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well just break it to them easy and let them no that your still their little gurl and you are still the same person nothing has changed except for you like gurls but at the same time you love them and they should love you for you and not for who you love but at the same time it could be alot worse like drugs or something much worse than whats going on right now and that you still love them and want them to show thier love by trusting you and showing their trust
good luck and love talktome224
hope it helped
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