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My best friend told her brother that i thought he was cute and that i liked him! (i did think he was really cute) But she was just playing. Then i find out that he likes me.(as my friend says) Well I start to like him. Ok, I usually see him in school only about 2 time, but today i saw him 4 times! He was everywhere I was. I didnt look at him because i was shy, but my friend said that he was looking at me and smiling. My friend also said that her bro dont like shy girls! Well im super shy around guys cause im not that exprienced, and i want him to still like me! How do i not be shy! ( i hate it) (link)
well the best thing you can do is be yourself..just pretend he is your best friend..like just a guy that you are really good friends with and that will help you not be as shy. but if you are a shy person then it is hard to not be shy cause i am the same way. Just be confident in what you do and if u make a mistake...just get over it and move on! it will all be ok! guys always will make you nervous because it is just the nature we have with them. Just be yourself and try not to think about it and you will be fine..but to make yourself less nervous, try talk to other guys before you talk with him just to know how it feels. well Good luck and i hope it all turns out ok! :)
~sealgirl~


its almost 5 months for me and my bf-were both 15. and i think i love him and i want to tell him.but we both take saying "i love you seriously" so we havent said it yet. i really want to but some things he does are keeping me. like it seems like he likes music more then me sometimes-which he says isnt true (because hes a big musican).and we only get to see each other 1 a week cuz he lives 30 mins away. and i feel if were on the phone he'll sing and i feel like hes not listening-i'll even go "right?" and he'll go "right!" and i didnt even ask him anything...but when im with him i want nothing but to be with him, at school i cant stop thinking of him and i just wanna be in his arms..its just on the phone when were not together things are -off.but when im with him.i get that feeling like i wanna tell him i love him really bad.but i dont wanna tell him i love him and him not feel the same way-because i dont kno if he feels the same way-.i dont kno what to do..what do you think i should do? (link)
ok..first off...i would like to say that im sorry taht he is like that! but i mean...if you really feel that way, you should tell him!! i mean, your just going to keep feeling hte same feelings over nad over and they probally aren't goign to change. so just tell him! if he doesn't feel the same way then thats just the chance you have to take but most likely he will because if one person feels it, then the other mostly does too!! musicans are people who also love music and that is probally a way to express there emotions out! that is probally why they do it so much!!! just tell him, that my opinon. most guys mostly any guy doesn't listen all the time too!!! guys just rn't good at that, its the way they are! but we have to live with it! and it hurts somtimes, but its the way life goes. so good luck and i really think you should tell him, but if you do, tell him in person and not over the phone! GOOD LUCK
~sealgirl~


How can i get better at math?I try my hardest but i just cant do it.I get so confused and frustrated about it.Does anybody knnow any math websites that could help me out alot in math.Any advice is acceptable.THANK YOU!!! (link)
i dont' know any websites but it might be a good idea to talk to your teacher maybe you can have like an afterschool session with them so they can help you one on one and it ight be easier or maybe you can just ask them about a tutor. there are a lot of kids in schools that have trouble with math so other kids in hte school are free tutors who meet every so often to help. So talk to you teacher and maybe she can help you figure somthing out!! Good luck!! and hopefully you get better at it :)
~sealgirl~


14/f
alright well i have a guy friend and well i like him alot...and i had it bad for another guy before that really messed me up when he broke it off...but i'm over him...way over :}. but yea well my "friend" acts like he really really likes me...but people in my classes were starting to " carry it on about us liking eachther"...well now he wonders off alot i mean like doesnt act like i'm there..and i think its my fault and heres the story...
we were sitting in class and this girl sent me a note saying it was from the guy i like..it said this is "the guys name" and it said "will you go out with me" but i knew it wasnt from him but from the girl trying to prove that i did like him ALOT. but yeah well she started to ask why i said no and i said because he's a nice guy and he's my friend...and i said that i didnt believe that he really asked that because i knew his hand writing..then all that week and so on his sister said that he "loved me" well i cna tell when she is making stuff up and she was...but it really hurts me to pretend..and another time he was walking me to 7th period and when we saw my friend who is a guy..he said "hey theres your next boyfriend"(the guy that i like said that) and that was like the 10 time he said that for awhile and i said "hey news flash he's not the guy i like!!!" then he smiled and walked away. but i really like him...should i wait until the next chance i have to say i like him...should i tell his sister that i do...or should i just say it the next time my whole class asks if i like him... please help...i know it just sounds like some teen crush...they always do...but i know how i feel.if i dated him i know it wouldnt ruin our friendship...it just couldnt (link)
Its ok to have a teen crush..everyone does. But i don't think you should tell your whole class that you like him because it might be embarassing to say that. I wouldn't tell his sister eaither because you never know what would happen with taht one. i mean if you say taht his sister makes stuff up sometimes, he might think it is made up. so the best way to tell him is to just tell him yourself. it is the best honest way to tel him. easy for him to know to..so good luck and i hope everything works out ok!
~sealgirl~


15/f
okay so theres this guy. i see him occasionally (we dont go to the same school). anyways, we met like last year (we knew eachother before that when we were like little because our parents were friends but we dont really remember). anyways, i met him last year (freshman year) through my last boyfriend and we all hung out tons. we dont hang out anymore but i see him at like these religious event thingys. we both liked eachother at the beginning of this year. like he stopped liking me a few weeks ago because my guy friends (one of them likes me) were being SO obnoxious to him and telling him they were gonna beat him up and crap. and so hes like judging me by my friends. we dont really talk anymore and we used to talk tons. i really miss him as a friend but i feel like if i try to talk to him im just annoying him. he says hes not mad anymore, but i know deep down he probably is. im married to the guy friend on facebook that likes me. so the other guy told me that while i have a 'thing' with my guy friend he doesnt really wanna talk to me. anyways, im gonna see this guy at a religious thing on wednesday and the last time was really awkward and we didnt talk at all apparently because i was 'giving him mean looks' (which i probably was because i was mad at him for being a huge dick about the whole thing). anyways, the problem is i still like him, but i also like my guy friend. i just want some way to be friends with this guy again! what should i do/ say to him on wednesday? i cant really say anything too personal because theres gonna be other people around i mean i could take him aside i guess. but like how should i act? i guess the reason why im asking this is because im used to him always playing games with my head.. he like plays hard to get and shit but i know that he liked me because we hooked up in like december. and he like told me he likED me a few weeks ago. the problem is he wont tell me at the time because hes like scared to or something. its really confusing. and like so i pretended not to like him either. so like i dont really know how to act on wednesday because i dont want to seem like desperate or whatever and i dont want him to think i have any interest in him as more than a friend. if that makes any sense. or should i show interest in him? AHHHH im confused! HELP! (link)
i say that when you see him that you should tell him the truth. Tell him that you miss being friends with him and you want him back in your life. Don't hint on you likeing him or it might scare him off a little. Just tell him that you want to be his freind. Just be honest with him and try not to give him dirty looks because that might make him angry. To get his attension you can send him kinda flirty looks but don't tell him that you like him. Just be normal and it wo't be a problem. Just tell him you wnat to be his freind and i thin he will understand. Good Luck
~sealgirl~


me and my bf (were both 15) and i trust him completely. he lives 30 mins away from me. we see each other once a week usually. he has alot of female friends.and for valentines day, as a joke 2 of his female friends got him boxers and wrote their names by the top strap and then wrote by the "male part" on the boxers,my name with an S, showing like ownership. and he talks about girls he met at concerts how i should meet them and how cool they are. and his other femal friends he hangs out with them and how hes gonna hang out with him.we've dated 3 months and have a somewhat sexual relationship, but not litterly sex. so i dont know if i am jealous, or i dont really trust him?i dont want to talk to him about it cause i dont want him thinking i dont trust him or i'm jealous..what should i do? am i jealous?do i REALLY trust him? (link)
i think it is a little bit of both. i mean..i think you trust him but not a full trust. and i think you are jealous..i mean..i don't blame you. i would be jealous to. you live half hour away from eachother which will bring suspisions because you can't see waht eachother is doing. so you aren't sure he is doing what he is supposed to but you like him so much you are probally putting it off because you don't wnat to htink like that because you want the relationship to conitnue. so being jealous isn't a bad thing it is ok but if you are really unsure bout what is going on, it is better just to talk to him bout it, and if he doesn't understand it and something ends up going wrong, then you know that he wasn't right for you. Just know that i'm always here for a shoulder to cry on or to help with anything at all!! Good luck and have fun!!
~sealgirl~


(parasol - is that sun protector as opposed to umbrella against rain)? if not, what is? (link)
it is teh shape of an umbrella but it is used for sun protection yes...for women!!

~sealgirl~


Ive tried so hard to find love and whenever i think i find it, it hurts me. Someone please tell me what love is?

My idea of love, You want everything to do with a person, but you dont even have to date them, just need your little moments that make you happy, and if you get a kiss your lucky.

Is this wrong? (link)
well it isn't nessecarily wrong because love is oppinionated. Many people beleive that it is different things. I think that love is just an expresion used to tell someone how much you care for them. If you love someone then you are willing to do anything you possibly can to protect them. If you love someone you love them for who they are inside. Love is an indescribable thing that is locked deep inside every person just waiting to come out. Love is a tingle in you body, that shoots fireworks all around. It is a delecate, fragile, helpless and wonderful all at the same time. Love is so many different things it is hard to explain! but when you think you are in love, you know it is something you have never felt before,, somthing indescribable but wonderful at the same time. Sometimes it could make you sick to your stomach and somtimes it will make you fly high in the sky!! Love is a wonderful feeling that everyone wishes they had. and don't worry..it will happen someday...so don't rush into somthing. You will know it when you feel it so just let it happen naturaly. So don't go serching anymore, if it is love, it will come and find you!! Good luck and just go with the flow of things!!
~sealgirl~


ok im 15 now and i don't know if theres something
wrong with or what because ive only dated people on the internet its like nomatter what i do i can't seem to get a boyfriend . its not like i want to date someone o just be with someone i only want tto date people who care about me and are interested in what i have to say. so my question is why isnt any guy interested in me ?
because im like outgoing and stuff im in the 9th grade now and im gettin worried that i'll never find a guy so if anyone can give me any tips or anything that would be great thankies. (link)
trust me nothings wrong with you. i'm in 10th grade and i haven't had a boyfriend at all. it is ok to like want someone to be your boyfreind and for someone to want to listen to you. You probally think that nobody is interested in you but they might be shy and not want to admitt the fact that they like you. People get scared and they don't wnat to tell the people that they like. So if you see a guy lookin at you or giving you some signals then just go up to him and start a conversation and see waht happens. And trust me, there is a guy out there for everyone, just it happens faster for people then others. Good luck and i hope you find someone soon!!
~sealgirl~


so I'm going to try to make this as short as possible...here it goes:
there are two guys guy #1 and 2...
#1: He is nice to me, incredibly sweet (although none of my friends or family like him and he's not very attractive), but in school (and outside of school) I never see him. So, when we are passing in the hallway or see eachother at lunch it is sooo awkward because we only talk on AIM and text, and we just like don't say anything. Well, he asked me out once, and then told me he liked me another time, and I told him I liked him too (because I do) and then he asked me if I would ever go out with a guy like him...and I said not until things becaome less awkward for us. sooo he dropped the subject and it's been weeks since he brought it up. I flirt with him a lot on text, but he can be a liar. so anyways, he brought up the subject again, but I might be liking another guy now.
#2. He is more attractive than guy #1, I talk to him at lunch (in school and on text) my friends like him, my family does too, but we nver hung out outside of school. He is tall and makes me laugh, and my friends are trying to set me up with him,, telling me how cute we are and everything, but he sends mixed signals. and I don't think he likes me as a gf, just a friend, but I'm not really sure. It's really confusing. We never talked about our relationship and whatnot, so I don't know who to like.
Can anyone help me out? comments and opinions would be greatly appeciated. thanks a bunchh. (link)
ok first off..it shouldn't matter what people look like..as long as they are good people inside..sorry that sounds chessy..but its the truth. and second, it shouldn't matter how others feel about the guy, it is all up to you. But my opinion is that guy 1, you seem like you have nothin to talk about i know itis becaus u said from akwardness but if you get in a relationship with him, it isn't good to not have anything to talk about so i don't think that would be a good pick for you. and as for the second guy, he seems great but if you aren't sure what is going out with his signals then maybe you should talk to him about it or wait it out a little bit longer to see what happenes between the two of you. if you wanted to talk to him bout it then just be normal and talk bout the relationship you have together and if he would like it to change a little bit..but my bet is go for the 2nd guy. it sounds like it would work better because u have talked to the 1st guy a while and teh akwardness hasn't gone away so it probally won't so go for #2. Good luck and i hope everything works out ok!

~sealgirl~


SO This guy told me he loved me last night but were rely good friends and i dont know if he was just saying that to be cute or if he rely ment it this is so hard btw i love him so much but i'm not sure if he feels the same (link)
well the best thing you could do is to be honest with him and talk to him about it. Just ask what he ment by it or start off saying it back to him first and see how he response. the best way to figure it out is to ask in person and figure out what the deal is. If you think he ment it then he probally did if you feel the same way but i would talk to him bout it just to be sure!!! Good luck
~sealgirl~


hey im 15 and the kid i like is 16. well we have been hookin up and like i really want a boyfriend. i told him i was lookin for one. he has this whole idea that its pointless to label a relationship with bf or gf because then you dont have to go threw a brake up.he also said that is someone asked if i was his girl nd it was at that point he would be like yeah that my girl nd that he only does hookup with me. do i continue to like him nd try nd make it more or move on.
please helpp (link)
i mean..hes right..as long as you are happy i say that you should go with it. if you like him then stay with him..you shouldn't want a boyfriend..i mean..you know he is yours and he is technacally your boyfriend but he just doens't want to be called that..it is no big deal..just stay with him becaus u like him not because of what you wil be called. you don't need a boyfriend but if you are looking for one let him be your boyfriend but you just don't have to call him that..hopefully this makes since..Good luck
~sealgirl~


ok so theres this guy hes so cute but what i dont get is how to start talking to him i dont no how girls do it do i just start talkin to him a little but hes kinda shy so then what i realllllyyy realllyy like him i dont no what to do when i instant message him it kinda seems like im the only one trying to make conversation ahh i dont no what to do!! (link)
just be yourself..if he isn't willing to talk then u know he isn't interested. i mean..he is a guy..all guys are dumb at times. If you feel you are working to hard at if just ask him simple questions so he can get used to the idea of you talking to him. Just try and be yourself and don't push it to much!! Good luck..and keep trying to make him talk to you but not to much!! have fun and good luck!!
~sealgirl~


i have had this crush for a while. hes been my best friend for a really long time...and he likes me, and he knows i USED to like him, but he doesnt know i do now.

we're supposed to go on a double date next saturday to see the eye. but he and i are just going as friends. but the people we are going with are going out. soo yeah. pretty weird.

anyyywwhhoooo....do i tell him i like him? and if i should, when??? like, middle of the movie, when we're waiting for our ride, or what? (link)
ok..well waht i think you should do is be normal and things. but like during the movie like take his hand and hold it or put your head on his shoulder, it just gives him clues that you like him. like when you see him at the movies..when you meet up..give him a big hug but be normal bout it. good luck and have fun!!!
~sealgirl~


ok let me tell you a story about me and this guy
ok im 14/f and hes like 12/mor13/m idk but we have pe together and hes perfect

ok hes just how perfect he is!

1.perfect smile
2.perfect body(not that i have seen it lol)
3.sadly perfectly taken!
4.perfect hair
5.perfect flirter
6.perfect friends
7.perfectly kissable
8.perfectly hot
9.perfectly amazing at sports
10.perfectly easy to talk to!

ok lets get to the story
ok well form the first day i saw him last year i thought he was cute. ok so this year i just happen to be in his pe class and wow!its amazing!he sits there and will smile at me and one time he winked im not one to brag or be so head over heels about a guy but ahh i like him so much!and i think he likes me too but at the time when he was single i was taken but an asshole :] but he was going to ask me out but i didnt know it at the time so . i didnt do any thing but know im not taken and he is and i want ot ask him out his friend says he still likes me but he likes his gf too and his gf is kinda mean to me and she makes him do all kinda a stuff for her:\ and its not fair for him

so should i wait for mr.perfect or should i juts steal her or should i just get over him?
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ok..i definatly don't think you should steal him. that is just sinking low...you dont want to do that. but i think you should wait for him..if it is true, that his friends say taht he still likes you then he will come for you when the time is right. So just relax and wait. If you decid you dont want to wait. then don't. just go with what your heart is telling you. But if i got to tell you what to do, i say wait..if u r head over heals for him!!! GOod luck and i hope things go your way!
~sealgirl~


Recently I had asked a boy from my church if he would like to my bf, and he said he would think about it and and I am still waiting for him answer, but(there's always that but), my ex-bf has just told me his feelings for me despite his current gf who has cheated on him like 3 times. I don't know who to choose. The boy from my church is really the sweet, quiet type. But my ex-bf is the type of guy who will tell me his feelings about a situation and is always telling and showing how he feels (the sensitive type). I have known my ex-bf longer- about 1 year- and I just met the church boy. They both are incredibly sweet guys. It feels like a really hard decision that I hate to make considering that I am a big person who comes to liking guys and they both are sweet. Can someone please help me? This will break my heart if I end up turning down the wrong guy. (link)
If you asked teh guy from your church to go out with youo and it has been over 2 weeks then that means he isn't interested most likely. You gave him a chance to answer and he didn't then you should forget him. So wait for the 2 week mark and if still nothing then i say go back out with your ex. But my opinion, i think it would be better to go out with they guy from your church because you have already given that guy a chance and it aparentally didn't work out. So i say go out withthe guy from your church but if it has been 2 weeks or more and still hasn't answered you, then that might tell you he isn't interested but who knows. I mean, if you only see him once a week from church then iwould wait a little longer or ask him if he has thought bout what you asked him. I mean i would wnat to know what he would say too. Hopefully this helped make up your mind. Good luck Choosing.
~sealgirl~


yea i don't eat that much since not alot food here, yea i been there, having headace for not eatting enough food...thank....is that true put ice on my head will make my headace go away? (link)
um...i think heat helps it more but i really don't know. If like my mom has a bad headache...she puts heat on it. so i am guessing heat is better then ice. But it isn't good to not eat. You need to find away to get more food because it isn't good for you. I know you probally knwo that but hearing it from somone else might help. I knwo i don't know you, but i don't want somthing bad to happen to you. So if at all possible try and get some more food for you to eat even if it is junk food, any food is better then not any at all!! hope the heat helps, Good Luck
~sealgirl~


i know i just asked this... Ok. I have liked my best friend for about 18 months. I had asked her out once and she said she wanted to stay friends. So i let it go. its been about a year since then and whenever we are together, we are either holding hands or hugging or whatever. We had gone on a school field trip and we were together the whole time and we were constantly holding hands or hugging as i mentioned and she gave me kisses on the cheek. She had even fallen asleep on me on the way back. I really don't know if we should stay best friends, or if she likes me and i should ask her out again. please help. any advice is appreciated.

If i decide to tell her i like her, how do i do it because she is always surrounded by friends and it makes it difficut and im not shy around her but when it comes to telling her i like her, i don't really want to make her feel awkward. i had read this poem and i think you guys should read it. i just feel like my self around her all the time and she makes me feel like i have never felt before.but then again, i dont want to ruin the relationship we have now. ive already asked her out once a year ago and she said she just wanted to be friends. but idk if tht means i shouldn't g for it again and how to go about it. my best guy friend says i shouldn't tell her but i want to try and do it without making the friendship awkward. here is the poem:

10th grade **********

As I sat there in English class,

I stared at the girl next to me.

She was my so called 'best friend'.

I stared at her long, silky hair,

and wished she was mine.

But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.

after class, she walked up to me

and asked me for the notes

she had missed the day before.

I handed them to her.

She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know that

I dont want to be just friends,

I love her

but I'm just too shy,

and I dont know why.



11th grade **********



The phone rang.

On the other end,

it was her.

She was in tears,

mumbling on and on about how

her love had broke her heart.

She asked me to come over

because she didn't want to be alone,

so I did.

As I sat next to her on the sofa,

I stared at her soft eyes,

wishing she was mine.

After 2 hours,

one Drew Barrymore movie,

and three bags of chips,

she decided to go to sleep.

She looked at me,

said 'thanks'

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I don't want to be just friends,

I love her

but I'm just too shy,

and I dont know why.

Senior year ***********

The day before prom

she walked to my locker.

"My date is sick" she said, "he's not gonna go"

well, I didn't have a date,

and in 7th grade, we made a promise

that if neither of us had dates,

we would go together just as 'best friends'.

So we did.

Prom night, after everything was over,

I was standing at her front door step.

I stared at her as she smiled at me

and stared at me with her crystal eyes.

I want her to be mine,

but she isn't think of me like that,

and I know it.

Then she said- "I had the best time,thanks!"

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know that

I dont want to be just friends,

I love her but

I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

A day passed, then a week,then a month.

Before I could blink, it was graduation day.

I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel

up on stage to get her diploma.

I wanted her to be mine-

but she didn't notice me like that,

and I knew it.

Before everyone went home,

she came to me in her smock and hat,

and cried as I hugged her.

Then she lifted her head

from my shoulder and said-

'you're my best friend,thanks'

and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I dont want to be just friends,

I love her but I'm just too shy,

and I don't know why.

Now I sit in the pews of the church.

That girl is getting married now.

I watched her say 'I do'

and drive off to her new life,

married to another man.

I wanted her to be mine,

but she didn't see me like that,

and I knew it.

But before she drove away,

she came to me and said 'you came!'.

She said 'thanks'

and kissed me on the cheek.

I want to tell her,

I want her to know

that I dont want to be just friends,

I love her

but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Years passed,

I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.

At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school

years.

This is what it read:

"I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like

that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't

want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know

why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!"

'I wish I did too...' I thought to myself, and I cried.

Do yourself a favor, tell her/him you love them. They won't be

there forever.



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wow...i love the poem..i write poems myself..but that one is amazing. i love it. My opinion is that you should tell her you like her. The poem even says that, i mean..if you were the guy in the poem, how would you feel if that happened. you got to go for it. i mean, the worst she could say is ...i jsut want to be friends but at least you know that she will always be there for you and be your friend if that happens. You have to tell her, you really do. You don't wnat to live your life thinking what would have happened if i asked her out and it actuall worked. So take the chance and if she doesn't want to, you are no better off then you were. But ther is a 50% chance that she would say yes and you would jump with joy and it could be you that she actually says i do to!!! Well i think you should give her the poem too. The poem is a wonderful poem and expresses feelings very well. It is amazing. Go for it and give her all you got. Good luck and i hope this helps!!!
~sealgirl~


i don't understand why i always got headace, how can i get rid of it beside medcaine? please help me, is it becuase sleeping too much? what is cause having headace? so i can aviod it. (link)
it could be from stress. My sister got headaches from stress. Try and relax and lower your stress. that might help a lot. it also might be that you are used to drinking caffine and you aren't anymore. So try drinking pop or somthing. Or it might be from not eating a lot or being hot. Sometimes i get headaches from not eating. So try taht. Hopefully this helps..Good luck..and i hope they go away soon.
~sealgirl~


Ok, first of all I'm 16 and a girl and I'm going to try to make this as short as possible (sorry if its long) So I've been dating this guy...we'll call him "Ben"....Well "Ben" and I dated the first time for about 8 months then broke up and got back together about a month later. Now we've been dating for about two months. I'm much happier with him this time and I really love him. The first time we dated I didnt realize how much I loved him. Anyways. A few days ago "Ben" had a party at his house and we went outside by the fire. His mom came out and yelled at him telling him that no one was suppose to pair of (He didnt tell me this before we went outside) but she let us stay out there. Well I was standing in between his legs because he was sitting down but we werent doing anything just sitting there talking. Anyways...Monday we didnt have school and he was suppose to come over but his mom told him he couldnt. So he got mad at her (Im guessing) and they got into an argument and he's grounded. Well today at school he said something to one of my friends (who has lied to me about stuff like this before) and she said that he told her that he got into a fight with his mom because of me. The thing is, his mom still isnt talking to him (almost a week later) and I know they've been fighting alot recently. So I dont know if they fight most of the time because of me or if it was just that one time. But my friend told me that his mom doesnt like us dating. I really love "Ben" but I dont want to cause problems with him and his mom. So I really dont know what to do and would appreciate the help! Please and Thank you!!! (link)
well you might want to talk to "ben" about this and get the truthful answer to waht is going on, and if it is fighting between you jsut ask ben if you should break it up for a little while so he can get back to gether with his mom. But tell him taht ou like him a lot and when things are gong better we can get backtogether. But tel lhim taht you do't wnat to cause problems between him and his mom. If he says that it is ok and that you don't have to leave me..i can fix this then take his word. Just don't talk to ben and see how he feels bout it. Good Luck!!
~sealgirl~




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