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Should I go with him or the other guy?
Recently I had asked a boy from my church if he would like to my bf, and he said he would think about it and and I am still waiting for him answer, but(there's always that but), my ex-bf has just told me his feelings for me despite his current gf who has cheated on him like 3 times. I don't know who to choose. The boy from my church is really the sweet, quiet type. But my ex-bf is the type of guy who will tell me his feelings about a situation and is always telling and showing how he feels (the sensitive type). I have known my ex-bf longer- about 1 year- and I just met the church boy. They both are incredibly sweet guys. It feels like a really hard decision that I hate to make considering that I am a big person who comes to liking guys and they both are sweet. Can someone please help me? This will break my heart if I end up turning down the wrong guy.
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Give the Church boy a chance at proving himself to you. Go out with him a couple of times and see how you feel for him, if it doesn't go well (which i hope it doesn't), then see about your ex.
I'm a great believer in second chances and sometimes people make mistakes, especially about love. We dump somebody because we think we don't love them, but after they date somebody else, all they think about is the last person they dated. This could be what's happening to your boyfriend. Give him a chance and see whether he's changed or not.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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theres deffinetly a reason why your ex is your ex,why you guyz broke up...if its because some things that are bad he used to do to you then i suggest you give the church dude a try instead.If the church kid don reply and tell you his answer bout you bein his gurl then go for ya ex.
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If you asked teh guy from your church to go out with youo and it has been over 2 weeks then that means he isn't interested most likely. You gave him a chance to answer and he didn't then you should forget him. So wait for the 2 week mark and if still nothing then i say go back out with your ex. But my opinion, i think it would be better to go out with they guy from your church because you have already given that guy a chance and it aparentally didn't work out. So i say go out withthe guy from your church but if it has been 2 weeks or more and still hasn't answered you, then that might tell you he isn't interested but who knows. I mean, if you only see him once a week from church then iwould wait a little longer or ask him if he has thought bout what you asked him. I mean i would wnat to know what he would say too. Hopefully this helped make up your mind. Good luck Choosing.
~sealgirl~
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