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i like me friend!!and i need help!


Question Posted Tuesday March 4 2008, 4:33 pm

14/f
alright well i have a guy friend and well i like him alot...and i had it bad for another guy before that really messed me up when he broke it off...but i'm over him...way over :}. but yea well my "friend" acts like he really really likes me...but people in my classes were starting to " carry it on about us liking eachther"...well now he wonders off alot i mean like doesnt act like i'm there..and i think its my fault and heres the story...
we were sitting in class and this girl sent me a note saying it was from the guy i like..it said this is "the guys name" and it said "will you go out with me" but i knew it wasnt from him but from the girl trying to prove that i did like him ALOT. but yeah well she started to ask why i said no and i said because he's a nice guy and he's my friend...and i said that i didnt believe that he really asked that because i knew his hand writing..then all that week and so on his sister said that he "loved me" well i cna tell when she is making stuff up and she was...but it really hurts me to pretend..and another time he was walking me to 7th period and when we saw my friend who is a guy..he said "hey theres your next boyfriend"(the guy that i like said that) and that was like the 10 time he said that for awhile and i said "hey news flash he's not the guy i like!!!" then he smiled and walked away. but i really like him...should i wait until the next chance i have to say i like him...should i tell his sister that i do...or should i just say it the next time my whole class asks if i like him... please help...i know it just sounds like some teen crush...they always do...but i know how i feel.if i dated him i know it wouldnt ruin our friendship...it just couldnt


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kiran answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 6:53 pm:
Ok in my opinion I don't think you should tell someone in your class that asks. And if you tell his sister you never know what could happen. So I don't think that one would be a good idea either. I think you should tell him personally. Then he may or may not tell you how he feels. But if you know it won't ruin your friendship then I think it wouldn't be very bad. So good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

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sealgirl07 answered Tuesday March 4 2008, 5:19 pm:
Its ok to have a teen crush..everyone does. But i don't think you should tell your whole class that you like him because it might be embarassing to say that. I wouldn't tell his sister eaither because you never know what would happen with taht one. i mean if you say taht his sister makes stuff up sometimes, he might think it is made up. so the best way to tell him is to just tell him yourself. it is the best honest way to tel him. easy for him to know to..so good luck and i hope everything works out ok!
~sealgirl~

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