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this guy...
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okay so theres this guy. i see him occasionally (we dont go to the same school). anyways, we met like last year (we knew eachother before that when we were like little because our parents were friends but we dont really remember). anyways, i met him last year (freshman year) through my last boyfriend and we all hung out tons. we dont hang out anymore but i see him at like these religious event thingys. we both liked eachother at the beginning of this year. like he stopped liking me a few weeks ago because my guy friends (one of them likes me) were being SO obnoxious to him and telling him they were gonna beat him up and crap. and so hes like judging me by my friends. we dont really talk anymore and we used to talk tons. i really miss him as a friend but i feel like if i try to talk to him im just annoying him. he says hes not mad anymore, but i know deep down he probably is. im married to the guy friend on facebook that likes me. so the other guy told me that while i have a 'thing' with my guy friend he doesnt really wanna talk to me. anyways, im gonna see this guy at a religious thing on wednesday and the last time was really awkward and we didnt talk at all apparently because i was 'giving him mean looks' (which i probably was because i was mad at him for being a huge dick about the whole thing). anyways, the problem is i still like him, but i also like my guy friend. i just want some way to be friends with this guy again! what should i do/ say to him on wednesday? i cant really say anything too personal because theres gonna be other people around i mean i could take him aside i guess. but like how should i act? i guess the reason why im asking this is because im used to him always playing games with my head.. he like plays hard to get and shit but i know that he liked me because we hooked up in like december. and he like told me he likED me a few weeks ago. the problem is he wont tell me at the time because hes like scared to or something. its really confusing. and like so i pretended not to like him either. so like i dont really know how to act on wednesday because i dont want to seem like desperate or whatever and i dont want him to think i have any interest in him as more than a friend. if that makes any sense. or should i show interest in him? AHHHH im confused! HELP!
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i say that when you see him that you should tell him the truth. Tell him that you miss being friends with him and you want him back in your life. Don't hint on you likeing him or it might scare him off a little. Just tell him that you want to be his freind. Just be honest with him and try not to give him dirty looks because that might make him angry. To get his attension you can send him kinda flirty looks but don't tell him that you like him. Just be normal and it wo't be a problem. Just tell him you wnat to be his freind and i thin he will understand. Good Luck
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ok... life is confusing expecially as a teenager w/ guys i know i'm one myself. So this guy you were friends with acted like he liked you and then he acts like he doesn't well you should talk to him about whats going on in your life and how you are kinda pissed about the way he's been acting toward you. Then tell him that you only like him as friends and that if he can accept that and stop being a jerk you wouldn't mind hanging w/ him again. And take it from there if you become friends again and find that you being to like him then you should talk to him and let him know.
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