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WHY SO SHY?
My best friend told her brother that i thought he was cute and that i liked him! (i did think he was really cute) But she was just playing. Then i find out that he likes me.(as my friend says) Well I start to like him. Ok, I usually see him in school only about 2 time, but today i saw him 4 times! He was everywhere I was. I didnt look at him because i was shy, but my friend said that he was looking at me and smiling. My friend also said that her bro dont like shy girls! Well im super shy around guys cause im not that exprienced, and i want him to still like me! How do i not be shy! ( i hate it)
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Repeated acts of courage are a sure way to overcome your fear.
The best way to not be shy is to be honest, forward and scared to death. If you are nervous, tell him, "I am so nervous talking to you right now." Then tell him what you like about him.
The other advice is right, get to know him. Go have a movie and popcorn, pizza and video games or meet in a study group. The point is, the more you communicate the easier it gets to talk to poeple without being scared to death.
If you are too shy to approach him, that my be telling him that you are afraid not nervous. you like him, just swallow your fear, let courage take you to him and say "hello, how is day so far?"
He will tell you about it, and you will listen.
Do you think that skydivers don't need to be nudged out of the plane the first jump?
Just jump! The worst that could happen is you fall in love with him and he breaks your heart. You live, you learn from it and you get back out there and do it again. Above all, be honest.
-- Stay Honest
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Well, the first thing I would like to say is that if he really liked you, it wouldn't matter if you are shy or not. Moving right along, there are a few poeple that I like, and I am usually very shy around these people. I find it extremely helpful to get to know them better. Also, hang out with him around friends. I am usually a lot more comfortable around the people I like when I have some of my friends with me. You sound like you really like him, so the first thing I suggest you do is to actually ask him out. I know it isn't traditional for the girl to ask the guy, but that's how I got my first girlfriend. Knowing he likes you says that he will probably say yes, which would be a huge self-esteem booster and cause you to be less afraid around him. Let me know how things turn out. Hope this helps
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well the best thing you can do is be yourself..just pretend he is your best friend..like just a guy that you are really good friends with and that will help you not be as shy. but if you are a shy person then it is hard to not be shy cause i am the same way. Just be confident in what you do and if u make a mistake...just get over it and move on! it will all be ok! guys always will make you nervous because it is just the nature we have with them. Just be yourself and try not to think about it and you will be fine..but to make yourself less nervous, try talk to other guys before you talk with him just to know how it feels. well Good luck and i hope it all turns out ok! :)
~sealgirl~
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