I've dealt with a lot of stuff. Suicide, abuse, and that girl that's only like 13 and not a virgin. And tons more. I really enjoy getting questions from people, but if you just want to talk for no or any reason, or want a more personal answer, I like it even better when people e-mail me. I'm cool with any topic. I get on my email/ site at least once a week.
P.S: sorry for what looks like bad spelling/ grammar, but really I just have a realllly bad touchscreen. sorry!
E-mail: divergirl123_1@aol.com
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is there a web site that offers free computer trouble shooting of common everyday problens such as computer lockups
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You could try the website of your computer brand, or, you know, advicenators.com. We do have a computer topic section, just saying. ---hope I helped.
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I'm on my period and i was able to get the applicator in but i'm scared to push the tampon out and i'm scared of how bad it'll feel taking it out. what should I do? I have a party on tomorrow and I need a tampon so that I could wear my leggings. (link)
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I know at first it hurts using a tampon, but eventually I'm sure you'll use it every month! You got the applicator in, great. now you just have you make sure it is at LEAST a bit more than half way in, then push in the tampon. It will hurt, taking it out, but only a bit! If you need to, you can ask your mother for lubricant for your tampons, to get them in easily. And never believe the packaging! only leave them in for up to six hours. But try not to leave it in for less than three. Once I left it in for only two hours, and it didn't aborb enough blood, so it was kind of dry and it hurt quite a bit to get out. --good luck-- hope I helpedd!
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OK! I am a 14 year old girl and a Freshman. There is this guy I am close friends with that I finally admitted to myself that i like him he is a 17 year old M/Junior(I have known him for a year and I like him for his personality/ he just happens tp be cute ;D) In your answers please DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT AGE! I am VERY mature for my age, and we both have A LOT in common. But so i ran into him at a music store we both know about and HE broke the touch barrier TWICE by hugging me for the first time. I haven't seen him since then (that was middle july) but we text everyday which is very nice. I will see him soon however (We have a Band fundraiser and Band Camp coming up. BTW both of us have never been in a relationship before) and here's the problem. I really really want him to kiss me, Or at least hug me. It's kind of freaking me out because i have never had this 'wanting' like this before. (I know it is suspected that Older guys go for younger girls for easy sex but i know he wouldn't. He is one of those shy guys that haven't dated yet) SO THE QUESTION: How can I hint for a kiss from a shy guy?? I can do hugs easily. Thank you any advice is appreciated :) (link)
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You two sound like you do have a lot in common! And about the age, it is fine for any highschooler to go out with any other age highschooler. (I think in highschool and above age differences under fives years don't really matter, it's more like a middle-school rule.).And since he broke the touch barrier, I bet it's up to you to beak the personal barrier. Maybe wait until a party, or New Years would be the absolute best time, but it's kind of far away.. Ask around. Do his friends say he likes you? And I don't think he's just using you, seeing as how far back you two are, and that most guys just do it then go. Maybe on a good day, like one that means something to both of you, invite him to the movies, and when you're saying goodbye, hug and give a quick kiss on the cheek.(Then again, I don't know what he's really 'into', so maybe you could give it your own little twist? --good luck-- Hope I helped.
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If my bf jst touch his dick to my frnt hole .... will i b pregnant???? (link)
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If by 'front hole' you mean vagina, then it depends. ( I'm guessing you're a girl, and I don't eeven think you should be having sex if you don't know your own sexual anatomy let alone how to spell 'be'.)
You're boyfriend may have had a white substance on his penis (slang: dick) called ejaculation, I think (or 'cum') and it may have rubbed off and into your vagina. I have no idea. The only way to know is to see if your periods late, or buy a pregnancy test.
--hope I helped.
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If my bf jst touch his dick to my frnt hole .... will i b pregnant???? (link)
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If by 'front hole' you mean vagina, then it depends. ( I'm guessing you're a girl, and I don't eeven think you should be having sex if you don't know your own sexual anatomy let alone how to spell 'be'.)
You're boyfriend may have had a white substance on his penis (slang: dick) called ejaculation, I think (or 'cum') and it may have rubbed off and into your vagina. I have no idea. The only way to know is to see if your periods late, or buy a pregnancy test.
--hope I helped.
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Well I just had sex and I brought two condoms. I used the first one and it didn't break. I took of the first one and put on the second one and I didn't break. I also pulled, so do I have a chamce to get this girl pregnant? I'm so woried its my second time. I don't know what I should do. I need help
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No, you sound safe. But conoms and 'the pull out' method only work 99% of the time, ok? So you should be in the clear. The only way to know absolutly is for her to take a pregnancy test, but she shouldn't have to.--in short: No you probably didn't get her pregnant.--hope I helped.
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what does eating me out mean
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I'm guessing you're a guy and a girl said this to you? well it means she wants you to have oral sex with her, thats all. --hope I helped.
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im going to lose it in february. i told my boyfriend i wouldn't do it with him till we were together for a year, that do i need to know? are there any ways i can make it more comfortable, or make myself look good for this, should I buy lingerie? tell me what i should know? we have a gentle relationship so im not planning on crazy sex or anything ! (link)
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Honestly, you dont sound extremely ready. Don't just have sex because 'its part of a plan'. But.. if you say so.. Ok. Guys like langerie, and, of course, wait until Valentine's Day. You could set the mood by inviting him over and having a nice dinner and then say, 'Do you mind if I go freshen up? thanks.' and wink. tell him he can wait in your room while your getting ready. And make sure you both say I Love You. It's like a rule. Sex is about love, not 'Doing it'.--- hope I helped.
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Hey, um I'm a girl obviously, but I have been thinking lately. Why am I still single? I mingle and everything but is there something wrong with me?
Short description of me:
I have realist standards for guys, not expecting some 10 or perfect romeo or even a 8inch. I'm looking for someone who I am reasonably compatible with, and has the same morals. Is decent, clean and is just into me. I am decent looking, though many of my friends (including strangers and men) have said I am beautiful, though I really am just decent and normal. I'm not uptight and sometimes my beer does get the best of me, but I don't smoke nor am I a heavy drinker unless I am at a rave. I'm 25 fresh out of college, but put together and I am in med school. I want to finish school before I am marry and I do want to have kids, but then again I'm not sure.
Is there something wrong with me? Am I actually too uptight or too, I don't know, do I have high standards? I'd just like a man who has his assets together and can provide. I am just lost by society and it's love honestly. (link)
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I told my friend once, 'Just use common sense'. He replied,'But common sense isn't that common anymore'.
Thats the porblem here. You sound mature, intelligent, and good-looking! But maybe guys are just to shy. Who wants to be turned down by the pretty girl in medical school? Guys aare too busy not using thier sense on the smart girl. They're 'picking the rotten apples on the ground'. Don't lower your personal standards, though! That's even worse! Maybe try to make the first move, ask the guy you really like out to a baseball game, or a concert, or... you get my drift. Good luck!-- hope I helped.
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im going back school shopping this year (10th grade) and id like to save some money wile getting something thats not complete crap as far as quality. i need the normal stuff pencils note books etc, also i really like to buy pencils in bulk (like 25 to 100 pencils per pack lol). so what store is best to shop at? target or walmart and why? (link)
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Target. I mainly shop there because where I'm from they have a MUCH bigger selection. And, usually higher quality items. And if you are getting clothes, I also suggest target (bigger selection, more brands).
--hope I helped.
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I have to be honest with you in order to get a full answer to my question. I am a 28 year old guy from the UK and I am a convicted sex offender, having been convicted of historic offences when I myself was a child. The offences only came to light when I walked into a police station and handed myself in without warrant for my arrest. The judge, when sentencing me, said that, had I not handed myself in, the offences would probably never have come to light. He also said that I should look at rebuilding my life and return to University, which I was unable to complete because of the case. Probation officers working with me repeat that and often tell me not to be as hard on myself as I am being. I am going through a behavioral course for sex offenders to encourage me not to reoffend and I am serving a community based sentence.
What I don't understand is WHY do many people believe that, after the torment and destruction I have caused to my victims (plural) when offending and to bring it back up and hurt even more people in the process, obliterating more lives, that I deserve another chance? In my eyes, I should have been put to death, but we abolished the death penalty before I was born. Do I really deserve another chance at life when I have destroyed the lives of my victims? Or am I right and I should never see the light of day again? (link)
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I am going at this with God at my side, just as a heads up. You were right to turn yourself in. But you are wrong to want to die. According to the Lord, every man and woman deserves another chance. No matter how many chances that takes. And God will never hate you, as you may seem to hate yourself, but he may be a bit disappointed in you. Yes, what you did once was wrong, and you must never, ever do it again, but noone has ever learnt without making mistakes first. You do deserve another chance, maybe not in the eyes of everybody, but in the eyes of God, and somewhat in my own. You may not be faithful to him, or even believe in him, but he will always be faithful and believe in you. Best of luck. --in short: Yes, you do deserve another chance-- hope I helped.
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Ever since my period ended (started July 22), I've been having the weirdest symptoms. I did have unprotected sex with my husband. But it was only a few days after my period ended in the "safe zone", cycle day 7. I don't ovulate until next week (or so they say - 30 day cycles). But I've been having ovary pains, very light cramping, no discharge! (which is bizarre for me), headaches, slight stomach aches, armpit pain, and sore breasts. I feel like my hormones are out of wack. Could unprotected sex cause this? I don't know what else it would be. I don't get my period until Aug 19. (link)
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Yeah,pregnancy it one of them. Buy a pregnancy test for sure, but go to your doctor and ask about these symptoms you are experiencing. From my (very small) knowlage of this kind of thing, those are all pregnancy symptoms. congratulations! --hope I helped.
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Its sunday night and my mom found out I cut and says I can't do my modeling fashion show if they not gone by wednesday because I have fittings and the lady wouldn't let me model with marks all over me. Anyway I wanted to know how to get the cuts to go away by then? I've tried lemon juice. Any other sugeestions? (link)
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Depends on what you cut yourself with. I had a similar problem- I had to wear a bikini, but I had about 3-4 months. Aloe Vera kinda works over a really long time, and you could try to tan, but it doesn't really work. you could buy scar treatment creams at most pharmacies, too. If they ar deep scars, they may never go away. but if they are thin, light sacars, they will eventually.I used to have very many on my leg, but they went away after a long time. My only question is,why is your mother freaking over some scars at a fashion show, and not the fact that you cut? Wasn't she pityful, or at least a little?
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She feels like vomiting everyday, constant headaches, dizziness and more headaches.
This happens every single day for a couple of hours.
About her:
She's 15 , under weight by a couple of kilos, not a virjin, but she's not pregnant, she does sex every week once with her boyfriend. She eats good food, so it's probably not a food disease or something like that. She cries a lot sometimes though, I think this must be some sort of stress.
If you could PLEASE find out in any way WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER!
High FIVE to all.
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Go to the doctor. if it's once a month, I believe it is period symptoms. otherwise, what kind of birth control is she on (since you say she's not pregnant) ? Because I've heard some kinds can mess up your horomones and Make you sick. Who knows? Is there anything in your regular diet she might be allergic to? You wont know until you go to a doctor.
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his ex is so disrespectful she always wants to know what is happening between he and i. anyone else having this problem? she is 53yrs old (link)
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I believe it's OK for him to keep in contact with his ex, and maybe don't tell her about your everyday life, but I'm sure she would like to know if you became married, etc. If you want to stop all contact, however, that responsibility would be your boyfriend's. --hope I helped.
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OK! So I have gotten really close to a guy I have known for a year now. He's a little older than me (Junior boy-Freshman girl) and I think he likes me! I'm at the point where I kind of want to start flirting. Physically and verbally. Like breaking the touch barrier a little more (he already broke it) we both are shy for a heads up (he's kind of shy and awkward- its adorable) but he has told me- I am beautiful (twice!) that he doesn't look forward to graduating because he'll be leaving some friends behind, especially me. Also we talk everyday after 5 o'clock (he has a summer job working for his dad) and we have a lot in common (dark music, Egypt-related stuff, writing/ reading and Marching/Concert Band) SO I would love some advice on how to flirt with him (physically/touching him and talking) and I also have one more question. Why is it that when a guy texts/calls you everyday at the same time is a 'sign' that he likes you?? I'm confused/curious about that... Thank you a lot. I have band camp coming up and he says he can't wait to see me! So yeah please help me with flirting advice... I need help! (link)
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Maybe you could wait until Sadie Hawkin's? (if you have that dance) And then ask him! you both sound totally into eachother. Ask around! OK, I don't even have a boyfriend, but I have that feeling. The feeling you two would be a good couple :) hope I helped. :)
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I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing. (link)
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I THINK I know what you mean. You 'want the trip but none of the baggage'. And we all know, teenagers can be pressured to do stuff. but if you really want to have sex, please wait until your wedding night. Then you'll be ready. (or at the very least until you find the right guy. One you're positive is a keeper)
--hope I helped.
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I'm Sabryn Alstatt and I'm 14 years old. I would love to talk to you. You seem like an inspiring young female. (link)
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divergirl123_1@aol.com :) thank you. Please do, I love to meet nice people. I am SO sorry. wrong e-mail. its diver girl, not just diver. :/
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Can you go swimming on your period WITHOUT a tampon. (link)
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So I'm assuming you're a girl, and I'm guessing you might not like tampons. Honestly, I hate them. But hey, I do diving with out anything in when I'm on my period. Some girls say it stops when you get in the water, but really it just depends on the flow (light-you might be safe, heavy-wear a tampon!!). If you don't like putting in tampons, ask your mom to take you to really ANY store and get special 'personal lotion' for your tampons. It makes it much easier to put them in. Also, if you're small, or 'petite', try 'Tampax Pearl'- 'lites'. They are literally the smallest, skinniest tampons I can find anywhere. Hope I helped.
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I'm a 17 year old teenanger one day when i was with my my boyfriend he put his penis maybe 4 or 5 minut and i told him that it hate and he remove it and then he put his finger and the thing is i never bleed and i want to know if i'm still a vargin or not (link)
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I'm sorry, but you're not a virgin- yes, vIrgin. not vargin. -justkidding. not trying to be rude. Sex is considered the act of putting a , you know. penis into the vagina, no matter how long or how deep. So in short, no you are not a virgin. Hope I helped.
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