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Steps to get out of the Friend Zone?
OK! So I have gotten really close to a guy I have known for a year now. He's a little older than me (Junior boy-Freshman girl) and I think he likes me! I'm at the point where I kind of want to start flirting. Physically and verbally. Like breaking the touch barrier a little more (he already broke it) we both are shy for a heads up (he's kind of shy and awkward- its adorable) but he has told me- I am beautiful (twice!) that he doesn't look forward to graduating because he'll be leaving some friends behind, especially me. Also we talk everyday after 5 o'clock (he has a summer job working for his dad) and we have a lot in common (dark music, Egypt-related stuff, writing/ reading and Marching/Concert Band) SO I would love some advice on how to flirt with him (physically/touching him and talking) and I also have one more question. Why is it that when a guy texts/calls you everyday at the same time is a 'sign' that he likes you?? I'm confused/curious about that... Thank you a lot. I have band camp coming up and he says he can't wait to see me! So yeah please help me with flirting advice... I need help!
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Maybe you could wait until Sadie Hawkin's? (if you have that dance) And then ask him! you both sound totally into eachother. Ask around! OK, I don't even have a boyfriend, but I have that feeling. The feeling you two would be a good couple :) hope I helped. :)
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Here's a website that I saved because it's great. It gives idea's on different ways to touch a guy to flirt. Even gives examples and also how to pretend and create the situation.
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You have so much in common, that it's already easy to talk to him. Guys like to know that a girl appreciates what he says or does for her. So if he pays you a compliment, tell him how wonderful it makes you feel and that he can tell you that kind of stuff over and over, you'll never get tired of it. Thats a way of flirting that ensures you get more flirting in the future too. Next time he calls tell him how your heart does a flip when ever 5 pm rolls around and the cell rings because you know it's him, he always calls that time. Ask if thats when he gets home. Tell him you enjoy your conversation and that he is one of the best at communicating. Lots of guys dont call regularly or you have to drag conversation out of them. Tell him he has a sexy voice on the phone. A guy loves his ego stroked a bit but your appreciation is a big one. Pay him compliment and you'll do fine
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Ok, considering that he compliments you, you talk everyday and are excited about seeing eachother, it shouldn't be hard to flirt with him. Since he is abit shy, I would start by complimenting him - 'I like your ___ you're wearing today' 'your ___ is sexy' 'I would love to cuddle with you right now', things like that. Physically: touch his leg if you're sitting next to him, walk over and hug him when you catch him looking at you, run your fingers through his hair, hold his hand if you're comfortable with that, offer to give eachother back massages then do it and if he accepts all that I just mentioned, you can then lean in and kiss him.. it's a pleasant surprise for a guy. I personally think cuddling is the best flirtation though (: Ask him if he wants to watch a movie at your place one night or learn to play a new song together - find something you both enjoy and use it as flirting/getting to know eachother more time.
When a guy texts you a lot in general, its usually a sign he likes you. Why? Well, why would a guy want to talk to you so often if he doesn't like you? An if he does it at the same time everyday, that tells me that this guy is making/saving time for you - cuz you're special to him. Everytime you see him, smile and give him a hug. This is a guaranteed way to get you out of the friendzone! :) After a while flirting will just become natural to you. Find out what he likes and you'll be on your way to becoming more than friends. .. (:
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