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Hello my name is natalie i am very trustworthly and if you have a question be serious. I will try to help you the best i can ;)

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iv'e liked this guy for like 7 years and i love him .. but he's short im tall,, everyone says he's ugly but he's not.. my friend loves him too.. i never told my mom.... and now is it too late? he doesn't have a g/f yet. what should i do


He doesn't have a girlfriend and you claim you love him. So what is holding you back. You "love" him just ask him out.Who the hell cares what other people think. They're not you and you live with the decisons you make.

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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Ok so my friend asked this guys out for me that I really didn't know. He said "Well I really don't know her so not right now". So is he thinking 'No I won't go out with her or was he thinking what he sayed to her? Plz help! I really like this guy!

You're looking to much into this. It just means he doesn't know you good enough.

Nothing more, no hidden meanings

hope i helped !

x0o natalie

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what is the best kind of straightener?

ive had 2 different brands and both of them have at some point stopped heating up (the light goes on, so i know the power is on)
the first kind i had was a ceramic tools and the second was a vidal sassoon.

any ideas why they keep dying on me? and suggestions for a good ceramic straightener?

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_9/601-4447182-9805751?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B00012FW00

the best kind. i love it. you can get it at target $25.00 it works really good!!

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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Ok im a BOY and 14 years old...i like another girl...she is pretty kind to me and is 16...idk how i shud tell her that i rlly love her...ask her e-mail?go to a movie with her?please help!

ok sorry to say but i dont think you have a chance !

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Hey, there's this guy,...let's call him *Gavin*. Well, i dont know *Gavin* that well. but this is what i do know,...he's a football player, he's not real smart, he friends with alot of people and he's nice and funny, and a little retarded sometimes,...and i think he's shy,...but i kind of like *Gavin* but i dont know him that well,...what should i do to get to know him better? or for him to notice me?

mabey if you see him in the hall then be like hey wanna do somthing and like invite him and a couple friends to the movies or mabey get his number.

hopeed i helped

x0o natalie

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I'm not normal. I never have been, but I used to have friends. When I went to college I stayed in touch with two high school friends for three years, then lost touch with them. I graduated from college six years ago. I have no friends from college. I had a friend where I worked during school, but when I got a new job we lost touch. I even swore to him we wouldn't lose touch, that I wouldn't make that mistake, but it happened anyway. All my acquainances now are co-workers, and I don't hang out with any of them. My brother is three years younger than I am, and we spent two years together in college, where we grew very close and spent a lot of time drinking together. But that was six years ago, and since then he has lived 2 1/2 hours away. We don't drink anymore. We have common interests, such as backpacking, hunting, and skiing, but lately I get the feeling that he does these things with me more out of obligation than anything else. He has a closely knit social network, people he's been friends with for years. It's me. Something's wrong with me. I've rationalized that I didn't need to make new friends because I have my wife and my brother, but now I feel him slipping away. Life at home is business as usual--not an active, close friendship so much as a partnership. Our common interest is our child. I guess I'm feeling lonely and alienated. Yet I aknowledge that I've alienated myself from others, not the other way around. I didn't mind losing touch with my other friends, because maintaining long-distance friendships is a burden to me. But I never thought I'd lose touch (emotionally) with my brother. I'm convinced he enjoys the company of his friends more than my company. He's on his way up to see me for a few days. We're going deer hunting. I thought he'd be staying for the weekend (it's Wednesday), but I spoke to my parents today and he told them he'd be leaving Friday night, because "sitting in the woods for two days is enough." This is what's eating away at me. Is two days with ME long enough? Why didn't he tell me he only wanted to hunt for two days? Why hasn't he considered the possibility of staying the weekend and doing something else with me besides hunting. It's as if he's only coming up here to hunt with me, and only to please me. And once he's fulfilled that obligation, he's going home to be with his real friends. You're all going to tell me I'm reading too much into his comment. But the fact remains that I feel as if we're estranged, and it's really upsetting me. He seems to get irritated with me easily. I feel as if I have to walk on eggshells around him. Obviously, considering the backstory I've given you, I don't blame him for this situation--I blame myself. He's the one with a group of old friends, and I have none. But I'm afraid to tell him what I'm telling you guys because if I'm imagining it all, I'm afraid he's going to be put off. (Eggshells!) OK--what are your reactions to my story?????

:`( im so sorry.

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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him?

umm i think it would offent him he might get embarrased

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks

tell him stright up hey i have my period and if her loves you he will understand if you dont tell him he might get affended

x0o natalie

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hey, im 14 5'1" and 111 pounds, i guess not fat but i feel like im getting "chunkier" than i used to be. Cheerleading starts in 6 weeks and i want to be a little lighter becuase im going to be a flyer, i also want to get rid of some tummy fat and the really annoying flab on my inner thighs! Any ideas that dont need equipment?
thankssss

mabey you should start going for runs and do ALOT of crunches and also snap v`s .. good luck with cheerleading.

i hope i helped..

x0o natalie

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i am having a major problem..i cant decide which i guy i like...i mean they all want to date me...i just need to pick one..theres this really nice kid but hes ugly so i dont want to date him..and then theres the funny one..hes okay then theres the hott babe that i want to bang..but dont kno that well..then theres the hott cocky freindly somtimes guy....idm what to do and they have all asked me out...in the last 2 weeks but i dont kno what to say...can you help me please!!!! I WANT A BOYFREIND!! HELP ME!!! ne way love tiffany

well if you dont want to go out with the ugle guy then hes out and the hot one that you want to bang try to get to no him if he has a screenname talk to him online maby you him and some friends can go to the and hey next thing you no ... ;)

good luck i hope i helped..

x0o natalie

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alright well im 14 a freshman in highschool and i really like this guy in my grade he is soo nice to me online but like i think he likes some other girl and like in school i dont even see him so i have no way in trying to talk to him there and i just really wish he would like notice me as a person that likes him .. and it sucks because i dont think he ever will but all my friends are telling me not to give up on him cause it would be sucha '' cute couple '' but still any ideas how i could like talk to him online and just let hint him but not like making it akward .. ya know?? or any other ideas..

pleassee help me =(

be like hey me and some friends are going to the movies wanna come or somthing like that or like be like what are you doin this weekend try to do somthing with him and when you do flirt with him..

hope i helped .. good luck

x0o natalie

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My face skin is really dry and the dry skin starts to like fall off. I think its very nasty. Is there anyway i can get my face skin not to be dry?

go to the docter if you cant do that maby use a diff. fash wash or loation on your face cause the one that you are using you might be allgeritc to.

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okay.
i like these 2 guys. here is some info on both of them ;;
Kyle -- i like him alot..i always find myself thinking about him. but hes a total flirt. he goes from girl to girl. he'll say he likes me and wants to ask me out, but the next day he likes a new person and says the same thing to me. i was over him, until this one football game where he pulled me right back in. hes like the worst guys to like. but i cant help it. and whenever i got out with another guy, he gets mad, sad, and a little jealous.
Neil-- hes one of the nicest guys ever. i've gone out with him before. hes like perfect online and he knows just what to say to make you smile. he is like one of my best friends. but when it comes to going out.. he freezes up and never talks. i like him alot.. but he just istn a good boyfriend. and everyone thinks hes gay.. but he is so not.

those are the two. i think i like kyle more.. hes just hard to trust around other girls. and neil just doesnt seem to know how to be a boyfriend.

HELP! what one is better? or should i move on completly?
thanks! =]

i no what you mean kyle is one of those man whores and neil is one of thoes friends but not boyfriends so i say you try to find someone else because if you cant trust kyle then you need someone you can trust but when it comes to neil i say you two are better off being freinds because you like to talk to him and when your going out you wont talk if i was you i would try to find someone else i no it is tough i guess there are always gonna be man whores and best friends not boysfriends .. sorry its not the best. i hoped it helped.

x0o natalie

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13/m
There is this kid at my school who annoys me and I can hardly focus on my work in the classes we have in common. I told the adults about the sitiuation and they said I had to deal with it.
Im usualy a calm person but sometimes I get pissed. Can any1 help? fives go out to the best answers.Oh, and by the way, he's still 12.

i say you talk to him and be like hey dude you cant talk to me in class i have to get my work done i mean and like if not talk to the teacher about maby moving your seat so you can get to work ! hope my advice helped

x0o natalie

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okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx!

ok you should just like say hey how much homework do you have so far at school and like have a friend go up to him and be like do you like _____ have your friend start a convo with him about you .. if not text him and be like i like you do you like me and if he says yes keep texting if he says no just dont text back pretend you fell alsleep and the next day act like you never asked.

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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Alright, here's the deal. I need to shed off quite a few pounds, I have until the end of November to do it.

Now I know the best way to get rid of weight is to exercise. I work two jobs, I don't have the energy to really work out when I have to work and on if I do get a day off from one job or another I just want to relax. Occassionally I take a few walks or jogs around the block. It hasn't been often though lately.

As much as I'm on the go and doing something I have a very slow metabolism. It's hard to lose weight for me. Anyone know how to jumpstart it?

I am trying to watch what I eat as well. Are there any kinds of food that are great for burning off fat? Or any kind of liquids?

I know that diet pills are not healthy, but they seem to be 'quick' so if anyone has had an expierence with a diet pill that has worked please let me know.

So I need quick and easy diet tips for shedding the pounds. I will rate 5 for all answers.

umm dont skip meals cause then your body doesnt no the next time you are going to eat so it starts to store up fat. drink alot of water and dont eat befour you go to bed.

i wish you luck .. hope i helped

x0o natalie

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how can you loose wight without taking a pill..and it is easy and it is kinda short but you do it a lot and it works goood.. ok im 13 and my wight is 195 and im 5'6 and i lift wights and stuff but the doc says that muscle ways more than fat but i wanna no how to loose me belly fat and leg fat quick and fun... sooo plzz help me with wat kind of exersises and suggestings that you have to tell me..thank you

i will rank high if you help me out here :)

you have to eat all 3 meals because if you miss one then your body thinks you have to store fat cause they wont no when the next time you might eat. and start going running do alot of sit ups and wall sits also do supermans you might want to find a friend to work out with i find that more fun. make it a friend that is determan and that will push you and wont let you get side tracked

hope i helped !! good luck

x0o natalie

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ok im 13, about 145 pounds and im 5'7"
im not fat but i want a flatter stomach
what can help to make my stomach flatter FAST!?

1) watch you weight
2) eat healthy
3) go running
4) do alot of sit-up

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My friend got mono a couple of weeks ago and she came to school for the first time since today. She said she's not really supposed to be back-doctors orders- but she wanted to come. But I don't really want to be like near her bc i don't want mono! Can mono go through the air? Obviosly I won't drink after her or anything... what should I do and can someone give me info on mono?
Thnks!

ok umm you should be fine if you dont like makeout with her. and i have dont share drinks like you said and try to avoid useing her lip-gloss or letting her use yours.

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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Hey!
I can never, ever find trousers (that aren't baggy or combats) to fit me and it really kinda sucks. I have normal size hips and a huge ass but a tiny waist so my trousers will fit in certain places but not others lol, so they end up wrinkling up and making me look fat or falling down to my hips, or there is a huge gap between my waist and the trousers.
I need to find some trousers that fit me for a drama performance in March. I have one pair of trousers that would fit me if I lost a couple of pounds, only they are a little short. They're really flared though; it looks kinda OK barefoot but with shoes they look silly! I have tried turning them up but because they are so flared they look a bit like buckets at the end of the trousers lol. Has anyone got any suggestions of what I could do to these if I can't find black trousers? I'm not allowed to wear a skirt :(
Also, is there a particular style of trousers that might fit me better? Most seem straight-legged I think...any good shops in England for lots of different styles of trousers?

i no they have them at target and kohls

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