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Hey! Im Nicole. This is my second advice column. I really ♥ to give advice. I am rated pretty high here too, even though ive only answered about 260 questions. I have pretty much answered every type of question && i can certainly give you some advice. It may not always be what you want to hear, but i'll give you wat you need to hear. Also if your having trouble with finding something on the net, i am really good at that! haha. well please feel free to ask me anything! id be really glad to help you!

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On AIM, what does the world "meh" mean?

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hey..where can i buy wonka bars? the willy wonka chocolate? ... (besides dylans candy bar dont live close to it) thanks

Well i have seen them at movie theaters.. lol yeah, i dont really think i've seen them anywhere else but you could try a candy store maybe?

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heyy =] im trying to find a really cool belt - the ones that are in style now that like have those circle plate things - and i want to try to find it online, and not for a ton of money. does anyone have any idea where i can find one ? ive checked delias, urban outfitters, etc.. and please dont say ask or google =]

I couldve sworn i found one at Old Navy;; but i'm not really sure. You could try that.. Or you could try forever 21 or something like that, cuz i think those places have belts like that. Sorry I am not much help, lol.

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im going to the mall tomorrow to by new clothes and i was wonderin if there are any other stores like hot topic or stores that arent really "preppy"?
thanks in advance!

Well i'm pretty much a preppy shopper but i'd say.. go to pacsun or tillys.. or just window shop. But those places are pretty cool. Oh && Anchor Blue has some clothes that arent that "preppy".

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Okay, I'm 13 and i'm 5'0 (yeah im small!) and i weigh about, lets see 60-70 pounds. And I'm very concerned about it. Do you think I'm TERRIBALLY under-weight, or just little low?

And also, I HATE milk, so I dont drink that.
I eat alot of meat.. probally 3 times a week.
I eat ALOT of junk foods... i'd suspect to be fat by now.
I drink alot of soda, if that helps. And water also.

Last time I had a check-up, I was 12, and I weighed about 58 pounds.
And everyone is jellous for some reason that I'm that weight.

So, can I have your advice on how to gain about 10 pounds? I'm really into your advice, I'll read it thougly, completly untill im 100% okay with it and rate it what it deserves!

Please help :)

xOx Laura

Your pretty underweight, but if you do gain a about 10 more pounds, you will be better off. What i think you should do is excersize more, because muscle weighs more than fat. Also, you probably just have a fast matabolism.

Gaining weight and keeping it on can be as tricky as losing it and keeping it off. Rather than having the occasional extra snack, you need to regularly take in more calories than you burn. Combining this with toning exercises helps too.

Set yourself realistic target weights and aim to gain gradually - say, around 1kg (2.2lb) a month. To do that you'll need to add an extra 300 to 350 calories or so to your daily intake. It's best to do this in a healthy way as part of a balanced diet, rather than simply eating more fried foods or chocolate!

Go to this site for more:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_living/your_weight/reaching_gain.shtml

That should help you out a lot.

♥ nicole

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what does it mean to hook up?

Hooking up is usually kissing or something, but not really being serious or dating. Pretty much just kissing without having any commitment.

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alright i'm 14 and i really like this guy (lets call him joe) and he's 16..i've been hanging out with him ALOT this summer with him, his friend (he's 16 too lets call him matt), and my friend (she's 14 lets call her mary) and we've been hanging out at mary's and matt gives us rides all over and me and joe always have our arms around eachother and i guess we flirt alot and matt and mary, and mary's younger sister always try to hook us up like "are you 2 going out yet" or "you 2 look so cute" (when he's got his arm around me of something) or something like that..and neither of us say anything..and like i'm always sitting on his lap and he's the funniest guy ever and stuff..and i don't know if he likes me..but mary says she thinks he does..but i don't know cause of the ages..i mean so what if we're 2 years apart..but he's like really hot and stuff so i don't know why he wouldn't like girls his age and stuff..lol but from this..would you think he likes me?

I think he likes you. But maybe you should ask him or something? Because if he does all that, it seems to me like he does like you. But you'll never know if you dont ask him.

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ive been wanting a cell phone for so long. and dont think i havent tried getting one. ive had the money and saved it, i even offered to pay for one. i wrote a whole 1 page essay on why i wanted one, how i used it, and if i did something wrong they could take it away. im on computer like 24'7 so i told them it would occupy my time and i wouldnt be on as much. but NOTHING has worked.
is there anything else left to try!?
~hopeless

I think you should make a deal with them. Like for example;; if you get all a's u get a cell phone or ask for it for your birthday && have that be your only present (thats basically what i did.) Come up with some other deals with your parents. Also, how old are you? Because you can say, "I need a cell phone because how will i be able to contact you when i need you?" I did that too. And it worked for me. I really dont know what else to tell you. Good Luck!

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last year i was bad not good but this year i wana be good but i dont want my bad friend to stop liking me so should i be good or bad

If he is making you do things you dont want to, just say no. And if he doesn't like you because of it, then he isnt a real friend. So just be good.

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what do you think about white nail polish? is it cute, ugly, trashy, anything!! and please hurry!!! easy 5's for fast answers!

I like white nail polish! But i like french tips better, cuz it looks better. But i personally think its cute.

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im going out to a party tonight. i have hair down to my shoulders and side bangs. im need a cute hairstyle. i usually just straighten it but im getting bored of it. any tips or ideas? or websites with details would help. thanks!

check out this:: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v612/LuvinMichaelPhelpsx3/142940028_l.jpg. my friend did that hairstyle and its pretty cute.

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my hair is a strawberry blonde with hair 2 inches down my back and its layered. I want a cute hairstyle. Do you know any websites I can look at hair styles?

I rate high!

-http://www.hairstylesite.com/
-http://www.ushairstyles.com/hairstyles/
-http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/sarah-jessica-parker-hairstyles.html
-http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/paris-hilton-hairstyles.html
-http://www.makeoversolutions.com/gallery/viewAlbums.jsp
-http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/haircut-styles.html
-http://www.thehairstyler.com/?OVRAW=cute%20girl%20hairstyles&OVKEY=hair%20style&OVMTC=advanced
-http://www.bpsd.k12.pa.us/IMS/Tech_Ed/8th%20Grade/Webpages_02-03/4th-9wks/bove.laura/short_hairstyles.htm
-http://www.bpsd.k12.pa.us/IMS/Tech_Ed/8th%20Grade/Webpages_02-03/4th-9wks/bove.laura/medium_hairstyles.htm
-http://www.lalooks.com/

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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

I think 15-17 is a good age. Personally i think you are a little young and your parents are right. Thats just my thoughts about it. I'm not really sure what you could do to convince them. You could make a deal with them and say you'll do it when you 15 or 16 instead, or something like that.

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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people?

SPORTS! thats a great way. Try going to a lot of party like things and the movies stuff like that. You can get to know your neighbors and people like that. The best way to meet people, would be through other people. So let your friends introduce you to new people. You honestly can meet people everywhere: the supermarket, bank, dry cleaners, the park, the doctor's office, the coffee shop, your school, etc. Just talk to someone. Find someone that is a bit like you. Someone who shares the same interests. When you find someone like that, then you share those interests.

check this site out::

http://mnmn.essortment.com/meetingpeople_rdbg.htm

that may help you out a little bit.

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I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!

Watch a movie, call your friends, listen to music, xanga, draw, paint, excersize, take a survey - always cured my boredum, umm go to gurl.com, read celebrity gossip, read a magazine, cook some food, make a layout/icon, read a book, email someone, write a letter, search for something random on the internet, go outside, go to your favorite celebrity's website, take pictures, do a makeover, play a sport, & um i cant think of anything else.

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I use the words: incredible, awesome, beautiful and amazing all the time. I was wondering if you knew any words that mean basically the same thing, but are different?

breathtaking, impressive, stunning, gorgeous, thrilling, extraordinary, special, legendary, super, superb, terrific, astonishing, astounding, wonderful, remarkable, sensational, fabulous, improbable, marvellous, groovy, lovely, hot, peaceful, attractive, ravishing, breathtaking, & precious

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ok im looking on oldnavy.com and i want to get a turquoise cord blazer ..im wondering what kind of pants to wear with it?

http://www.oldnavy.com/asp/product.asp?:=l&wpid=325098&wdid=2000055

Wear blue jeans with it. =)

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I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted?

Well obviously you dont mean to make him feel this way. I think you should probably ask him how you make him feel unwanted. Maybe he will explain to you & you can try to fix it. Atleast you let him know how much he means to you. But i guess actions speak louder than words. Atleast he was honest to you about it. Now all you have to do is make him feel more wanted. Talk to him on the phone more, hang out with him a lot, and spend time with just him and you. And when you are in groups, pay attention to him a lot. I dont know what else you can do. He is probably just making a big deal of nothing about it. I know a guy who does somewhat of the same thing. Even though he is wanted, he says he isnt. So it could be the same sort of thing. Just try to express your feelings for him, in more than just words.

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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

Well american eagle has some really cute stuff. And just buy stuff from aeropostale, and you can layer stuff too. Also, anchor blue has some cute stuff. And papaya does too, and its real cheap. I also like Red Eye & forever 21. So those are a couple of stores you might like. But as for purses, im not really sure. I like anchor blues purses though. And guess purses, but those are a lil pricey.

♥ nicole

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how do you get a guy's attention? I'm also really shy .. so any tips on not being.....so shy? haha. Thanks much!

Well i found some sites for you that may help. check them out.

*http://www.shynesshelp.com/

*http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/shyness/index.asp

*http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/downloads/self_improvement/article/get-over-shyness.html

*http://www.adulthoodwonderful.com/Flirting/keys_to_flirting.htm

*http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/Tips.HTM

oh and your not alone. a lot of people are shy like you, check this out.

http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/shypeople.htm

well all these sites pretty much tell you everything. good luck. just try to act confident. and its not a bad thing if you let the person know you are shy.

♥ nicole

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