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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!!
This girl is probably insecure. She probably doesn't think she has the "best body" or that she's "gorgeous." She probably does this because she knows most people will tell her that she's pretty whether they think it or not. if that makes sense lol. If it gets worse when she says something like this again confront her one-on-one and say something like "you don't need to ask everyone if they think your pretty because you are." or something like that and she might stop. If not you may have to say something different...but you'll lose her as a friend...if you don't mind losing a friend then drop one in my inbox and i'll give you a few suggestions :o)
Good Luck!
I am from South Africa and we are entering a new Angling faset; Match Angling (Pole angling) I love to do the sport but I need as mutch info and study material on the sport as I could, this will help me to buy the correct equipment and set the basics right. Please advice and send me info
Regards
Pierre
I reallt don't know much about this...but when I looked up match angling i found this website
http://www.coarsefishing.ws/pole.htm
I hope this is what you're talking about :o)
Good Luck!
alright well I think my friend is going anerxic but I'm not sure..like shes eating alil bit but not as much as before..does anyone know like some signs of it? or like anything she might be eating instead of her regular food..? like she would never make herself throw up because she has braces and an expander and when she threw up when she was sick she thought it was the nastiest thing because it was all like stuck up in it..so if you know anything about it like signs or symptons please help!
If your friends is becoming anorexic then she will eventually not eay anything. She might also get grouchy (from low blood sugar) really tired, and her grades may drop. Watch her (not staring lol) and just see what kinda stuff she eats. If at all possible make sure she is eating three healthy meals every day. Good Luck!
ok, i have been going out with this guy for maybe 2 and a half weeks. then i keep seeing him talking to this other girl that already has a bf. so i didn't think about it but now he is writing stuff on his hand saing stuff like i love then someones name but he won't let me or my friends c. then his friend said he wrote i love then then the girls name who he was talking 2, but he said he wrote my name....who do i believe and how do i know if i am going to get dumped? HELP ASAP!
Break up with him...if he won't let you see it then it's obviously not you, and besides guys who write "i love _____" on their hands are really immature. Good Luck!
Do diet pills really work? I know there not healthy or anything. But i was thinking that if I went to my doctor they could perscribe me some healthy diet pills. Has anyone ever took them or a family/friend? And did it actually work. And yes I DO need to lose weight. Not a little about 100 pounds or so by next september or december. --And im also talking about the diet pills you can by in the stores. Thanks!
If you go to a doctor they probably won't even think of recommending diet pills for weight loss. Just excercise, limit your amount of servings, and stay away from saturated fat and sugar. Good Luck!
14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys?
Talk to girls one-on-one. It's a little daunting at first but they'll definitely notice you more. One thing girls love is complements! Something appropriate like, "Your hair looks really nice today," or "Those shoes are really awesome," would be good to start with. And don't worry about her being out of your league, there's no such thing :o)
Good Luck!
Hi ! well tomorrow at school is like a big day sorta because my schools football team is undefeated and so is the other team they are undefeated to and tomorrow during 5th period is a pep rally and then the state football game and like tomorrow i want to wear like crazy clothes and stuff to show my school spirit! any ideas? our colors are black and grey! please help!
Here's what i think would go over well. (I hope you're a girl) Wear black tights with grey athletic shorts, a black t-shirt, silver beads, get comb-in or spray on hair color in silver, and paint little black and grey war paint streaks on your face. I don't know how far people go with this spirit stuff at your school but that's how we roll in my school :o)
Good Luck!
ok, i have this guy that i really like, and i think he likes me. im not sure though. When i first met him, he didnt say much, but as i got to know him, he was really sweet. But then he just stopped talking to me. He would totally ignore me! And then he woould walk up to me and start talkting to me again a few days later. It has been going off and on like that for weeks, and then last week he started talking to me again. So i thought that maybe he was angry at me for something i unintetionally did. but through the whole time, i was super crushing on him. When he started talking to me again, i had just got a camera phone and went to take a pic of a friend. he wanted me to take a pic of him, and i was so happy! and then today, he told me that he got a new digital camera. he was all sweet and was like can i take a couple of pictures of you tommorrow? please? and of course, i said yes. But what the heck- why was he ignoring me? dies he like me? if not why does he want a pic of me? he said he wanted to put it on his webpage. but he didnt say it to anyone else, just to me. I am so confused. Any ideas, ppl saying f u, he likes u, dur- anything will help! please and than you!
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o yea, we both go to the same high school and i usually sit with him at lunch but then i moved when he was ignoring me. we are 15.
If he starts ignoring you again just walk up to him and say, "hi." This way he'll know that you wanna be at least friends and it will bring the communication level up! Make sure you look cute for those pics ;o)
Good Luck!!!
Ok, don't think I am crazy or anything, I just DO NOT like scary movies. I end up thinking about them long after I have watched them. Now, I know the best idea is not to watch them, but unfortunatly I don't always have that choice. Any good techniques besides the simple "Remember that it is fake?" Thanks
Well, I know this won't work for all movies, but if you watch the "Scary Movie" version before seeing the real one it will probably help. I saw "scary Movie 3" before I saw "The Ring" and I didn't think "The Ring" was scary at all! If you also can recognize the actors, that helps...because you can't picture them anywhere other than their music video or crying while accepting an oscar lol! Good Luck!
Ok, I have 2 years to lose 100 pounds or so! I need help though lol. What is the best diet south beach,atkins, ect. Like what should I do. And do you think it would take 2 years or shorter? And what should i NOT eat. Thanks if you can help me!
Just cut the stuff high in saturated fat or sugar. If you start running or walking you'll shed pounds very quickly. One of my friends lost 70 pounds over the summer because he started a physical activity!!! Good Luck!
Ok this is gonna be long- ish, but I hope at least a few ppl at least read it. Here goes...
Alright, the boy I like, Nick and me were like friends-ish last year. Like we would talk and joke around after classes and stuff and I was majorly crushing him. Hes adorable and funny and REALLY smart and nice and has this laid-back, sarcastic kind of sense of humor. But he hangs out with the nerds, kind of, so it felt like he was within my league.
So we come back to school this year, and he isnt in any of my classes except band, and he plays another instrument so i have no reason to talk to him or anything. I have told myself to just stop likeing him, its useless, etc. But I CANT STOP! I havent spoken a word to him since last year, but I cant get him off my mind. I am pretty sure he knows i like him, since i check him out alot (:-D)and he catches me. BUt I figure if he hasnt done anything about it, he doesnt like me back. So whats the point? But yet, sometimes I see him looking at me. Its really weird. I cant get up the nerve to ask him out :( i was thinking maybe I should slip a note in his locker?? BUT IM TOO FRUCKING NERVOUS! I think that his kind of humor, around his friends, would make it SO easy to make fun of me if he thought I was stalker-ish or whatever. I need help... I need help... :(
Don't slip a note....that's a little immature :o/
Just try to talk to him again, start really casual and then you guys will probably be friends again. If you're looking at him and he's looking too, but just not talking to you, then he's probably just as nervous to talk to you as are to him! just play it cool and casual. If you guys were good friends then there should be no problem. Good Luck!
dear advicenators i have a friend who cuts herself i havent known her for a long time bcz i just moved here but she does it and she cant stop !!! i would like some advice on how to help her stop ...
thanx
Tell her parents!!!! They can get her a counselor or something. Don't try anything on your own, you may make it worse.
*anyone that reads this should know that cutting yourself will not solve any of your problems! if you know someone who cuts themselves tell their parents or someone who can get help for them!*
ok is there a way u can get ur arms like..more strong like more shape cuz mine have fat that needs to go..like wut helps? dont say pull ups..lol cant do those ..but if neone knows ne work out ways like explain it ..um that would help thx
Using free weights works great! But you need to start very small. Start out by doing one set of lateral raises with a can (soup, veggies, whatever you have) in each hand. Do this every other day. If this is too light for you to start with (meaning you feel no soreness whatsoever) then use 2 or 3 pound weights. Do your raises every other day until you don't feel sore at all. then you can move up your weights one pound.
Good Luck!
**in case you don't know what a lateral raise is: lay your arms down flat at your sides, then lift them straight up until they are parallel to the floor**
ok i was woundering doesnt the live strong thingz come in different colorz besides yellow ? cuz i saw dis guy in my class had a purple nd red. nd they have them anything nike ? thanks
THe kid in your class must have colored his or something because all the Livestrong bracelets are yellow. i'm not sure what your saying about nike one's? But the Livestrong bracelets are yellow because that is the cancer research color. They're made by the Lance-Armstrong Foundation for cancer research and cures because Lance Armstrong survived his cancer. Just in case you didn't know...
Good Luck!
Okay...long story short...i need an afro by halloween! i was going to get my hair braided then leave it in and just take it down on Halloween nite but ive missed that stop so now i need to know how to make my hair a huge afro. dont tell me wigs or anything because if all else fails thats what ill do but right now i wanna try my real hair??? any suggestions anyone??? no smart ass comments from jackasses this time thnkx
whoa...with hair that long giving yourself a 'fro may be tough. I'm not sure if this will work but after you wash your hair (don't put any products in it) blow dry it. Then use a wide tooth comb to tease it (this meaning combing up instead of down). After you tease it take LOADS of hairspray and put it all over your hair, maybe even some wax-spray for extra hold. Again, i'm not sure if this will work...your hair may not be curly but it will be 'fro-ish.
Good Luck!
Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!
I think a really dark blonde would be the best place to start. Just don't dye your hair more than two shades farther what it already is!!!
Good Luck!
someone told me that if water is cold it fastens up your metabolism more then warm water would, is that true? also what other things speed up your metabolisn..thank you
it only speeds up your metabolism a little....one thing that will def. give you a faster metabolism is running (especially in cold weather, although it may hurt your throat). as far as food goes there really isn't anything that makes it faster....except for weird "witch doctor" stuff, which is NOT recommened!!!!
i have STARIGHT eyelashes..and i use a eyelash curler everyday and then use hella mascara and then i have to curl them again jus to make em pretty...anyone have any easier techniques? whatdo other gurls do with super straight eyelashes? and mascara that works great for this?
I don't think I know of an easier way....most girls comb, curl, apply, and curl again like you...i think we're just stuck with it :o/
what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?
If you are seeing someone you just go on dates with them. A boyfriend is someone who is like your best friend, but in a romantic way :o)
` ok im startin a diet tomorrow and my goal is to lose 100 pounds by next school year! how long would it take if i do all this..and do u think its a good idea/goal and what else can i do.
30 sit ups
30 squats
i jog and play football in gym and we do warm ups
i take walks after dinner
(( i do 30 sit ups and squats after each meal ))
- i dont eat pasta/noodles
what else can i do that might help me??
oh and i dont eat lunch and i drink diet pop and water.
With your squats, sit-ups, and PE regime I think it will work fine! Just make sure that your walks after dinner are at least half an hour.
As for dieting just make sure you eat a little bit of everything. If this isn't structured enough here's what you can do: Eat 4 servings of grains, 2 of fruit, 2 of vegetables, 2 dairy, and 2 protein. (For example, you could have cereal w/ milk and a piece of fruit for breakfast; a sandwich with cold cuts and carrots for lunch; and for dinner you could have some kind of meat with a roll, salad, a glass of milk and fruit for desert). Drink lots of water and try to stay away from candy, chips, cookies, and especially soda. Taking soda out of your diet will help you get in shape soooooo much faster! One last thing: don't skip any meals!!!!! This actually makes you gain weight.