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Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blind-folded fear.
-Thomas Jefferson

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my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13

To cheer up all you have to do is realize that you are a 13 year old girl. You're young, you have a lot of time to make opportunites for other crushes. This always feels bad the first time. It just takes a while to get over it. Another guy will come up and it'll be better. Good luck. :)

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This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love.

That sounds like a great thing to say, it seems honest and doesn't sound mean. Good luck. :)

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there is a song..the words are 'cuz im into deep and i'm tryin to keep up a palm in my head instead of going under' i dunno the name but if you do please send me the code so the song will play in my myspace NO VIDEOS!!!

Also, does anyone know any sites to get premade myspace layouts instead of making my own?

In Too Deep by Sum 41

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What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples?

-Stressing out
-Passes from parents

Food is said not to help

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Lately i have been sad all the time im never happy anymore im always mad and sreaming or sad aand crying.. why im i like this all of a sudden..

Sounds like you are depressed. It happens to a lot of people and there is medicine for it. You should tell your parents (if you're a kid) and see a doctor to get consulted.

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lets call the kids jack and jill.

so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.

what should i do?

Just tell her you can't. It's not like she can run youtr life.

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okay so my hair is black and i wanted to die it brown but whichever product i tried didnt work out.. only my roots turned out medium brown and then once it gets towards my tips.. it starts to fade into black. but what am i doing wrong?

Your hair might be too dark for the color you picked. Sometimes hair needs to be bleached before it's actually changed to a lighter color.

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I have alot of friends at school/church/cheer. But no one invites me to do stuff with them on the weekends! I spend my time on the computer cus no one invites me over, what should I do?

You should take action and invite one of them over instead. Maybe they feel the same way about you.

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When should girls start to wear tampons?

When they feel like they want to. There is no certain time. Some girls go straight to tampons when they first get their periods, while other girls just wear pads or go from pads to tampons.

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okay so my me ad my boyfriend were gonna make plans for this weekend and i just found out that he might be goin to this other chics party that i wasnt invited to! and i really want him to be with me this weekend. how can i get him to hang out with me and not them?

Just tell him, or go to the party with him.

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I have a problem...I'm 15 and I weigh 100 pounds...good right??? Yeah I know! But there's always a downside...My stomach looks like it's 6 months pregnant! It's sooo fat and I always have to suck in but it still shows! Why do you think this is...and How can I deflate it??

You might have worms or some other sickness, maybe you should see a doctor. There is underwear made to flatten tummies. You should check out good stores for them, they really work.

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Dudes

How can I get my mom to let me get my ears pierced? She says I have to wait until I'm fsxking 16! I just turned 15 two days ago!!! She says people would say I look like a sissy. Ok. Well, only the shallow asshats would actually say that out loud, and even then I don't care. They can bite me. But she says I have to wait until the age even SHE got them! 1) I am not a woman 2) I am not my mother.

M/15. I'm just /curious/ as to how I would look in them! If I dont like them I could just let it cover up. I seriously don't see her logic in this other than the usual parent crap 'I want you to be just like me and grow up the same way.'

You need to tell her to catch up with the times. In today's society ear piercings don't make a guy look like a 'sissy,' most people find it stylish, characteristic, and hot. Remind her that you're 15, an age that should make you responsible for your own actions. Begging helps too.

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whats summer school like? i think i might have to go this year, it'll be my first, no duh. im in 8th grade. and its probably diffrent throughout the country/world, but any one answer please. and if your from georgia and specifically north fulton county then answer my question cause thats where i am.

I didn't go to summer school in Georgia... But for me it was really fun. I had to go for this extra credit and I thought it would be lame to go... But it turned out great. The class was easy and I made great friends.

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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!?

If he's old enough to be illegal, he shouldn't be listening to his mother. You should go out with him. It's only wrong if you guys have sex since you're a minor.

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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.

It's not wrong for the girl to call everytime. Whoever said guys have to call was sexist. You're not being pushy, just outgoing and independent with guys. You should just talk to him about it. Later. :)

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i got this pink dress for my semi [[ more liek 3 shades of pink, light lighter and dark,it has sparkles and diamonds and its a halter ]]..and i dont know whether to wear black shoes or silver (more like light gray..) and i dont know what kind of jewelery to wear.. since its a halter i dont know if i should wear a necklace or anything..please help! x0ox

I'd go with the silver shoes to match the shiny stuff. Diamonds on your dress? That's uber expensive. Maybe you meant rhinestones. :) I wouldn't wear a necklace if I were you, they don't look too great with halters. Try bracelets, maybe pearls or bangles. If people can see you legs, wear a thin silver anklet. :)

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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?

Clubs and sports are the easiest way to make friends at school. Also be friendly and outgoing. Being shy will get you nowhere. Remember that in order to stop feeling lonely you must take action and not feel sorry for yourself or sad when someone rejects your friendship. :)

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

I find nothing wrong with anything having to do with different races falling in love or getting married. Racism is stupid. It's a big risk to fall in love or marry someone from a different race because there will always be people to hate you for it, but sometimes it's just worth it. :)

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Makeup/tips for lookin good for a:
Any tips/ suggestions for a girl that is 13 dark skin, black hair, brown eyes and tall[5 10/11]?[not heavy makeup]suggestions

If you don't want to go with heavy makeup than try some black or blue eyeliner and black mascara. Then use some slightly bright lip gloss. :)

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My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I

If I were you I'd go to the friend's birthday party. Friends are way more important than sports.

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