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thanks for your advice..im the same girl that is having problems with her bf and i got him a bracelet! but i just called him a little bit ago cause when we were talking on here my computer froze and when i got back on he was off! and i was crying and hes all like its gonna be ok sweetie, i love you sweetie, and ill call you later tonight..just dont give up on me, im not gonna move on, and all this other stuff! i just dont know what to think..it breaks my heart so much! please help me..could this mean n e thing? (link)
oh that was very sweet of him and do you have AIM? because that would be easier to talk to you and faster...so if you do, IM me to

odgloeiv190

or if you cant then email me and i will answer it to you ... and would you mind giving me your email so it will be faster? because my computer is way slow and email is way faster
and i will help you best i can

and i think it can get better... the relationship i mean

so i will be there to help you so keep your head up girl!


this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much! (link)
Hey this must be Tough situation ...

but you have to listen to your heart...

so here are some action that might happen when your guy is cheating on you...


1. spends more time with his "buddies"
2. spends more time online but not with you
3. while on a date with you, his cell rings and he checks his caller ID then doesnt answer his cell
4. he accuses you of cheating out of guilt

and most importantly of all, he you think his not dedicated to you, then you are probbly right and from hearing your story he might be...

so you have to ask him to come over one day and sit down with him in quiet place, then tell him how you feel about all those things goin on. but truth fully ... and if he acts little jerkish about it, then he probably is, but if he really cares about you, he will tell calmly that he isnt and you have to tell him about what made you think that way, so he know what to fix...

and if you have more question, ask away and hope i helped =)


okay well school is almost back and I still have to get some outfits but I have to wear uniforms but I can have desighns on it but I dont know what is cute so if you have any ideas then will you please help me if you have a serious answer then I will give you a good rating
please please help me
p.s. I rate 5's for any answers
and I check EVERY day or maby every second
just please help me (link)
um i dont really know how to help you if you are talking about like school outfit or something but i really love doing fashion things so email me when you can

its

odgloeiv190@aol.com
or AIM its odgloeiv190


I really want to have a party, but the thing is i am kinda afraid of having one. not afraid like afraid of spiders and i am just worried that people might not like it, or think its dumb or whatver i just am too stressed thinkin about it. should i just go ahead with my plan or what? and also, should i have a big party (which was my original plan) or should i just have a small group of my girlfriends and go to a hotel or something? ideas? thanks (link)
Well you should have Hawaiian theme party, it is easy to decorate and easy to get right food for little budget.

and i know how you feel about people might not like it and people might not come, and if you are not real popular then you might also feel what if they talk bad about your party. if you are popular then dont worry about it. but i had same feeling. and that had happened to me. only 2 people came and i wasted bunch of money, of course i felt bad but it wasnt going to stop me from having another party, so i did and next one, my whole class came. so it was fun and so awesome.

so what i am basically trying to say is, invite all the people you want. so what if few people dont come, your friends will be there and you will have fun with them.

and you will never know how many people are willing to come until you actually have a big party so take a risk if you like and dont worry because it will get better later and if you still want to do the hawaiian party theme here it is

good reason why...

1. cool party gifts.
2. easy and under teen budget]
3. since its summer and do it like end of summer party thing


food

1. chips and dips
2. HAWAIIAN fruit Punch, you can get like gallons for good price at winndixie or wal mart.
3. if you are good on budget, get coconut shells and use that as cup... (i dont recommend coconut water, because most people would think its nasty)
4. fruits. like pineapple and stuff. cut out with toothpick stuck to them so it will be like Hour D'vours... (i dont think i spell that right but i think you know what i mean)
5. cup cakes are good. and if you can make them do it like green icing and stuff to match the theme
6. chickens..(no reason, just lots of people loves them =)


Cool decors and gifts...

1. Floral necklaces... ya know the ones that they have them out in wal mart right now.
2. those (hawaiian skirt thing)frilly skirt. they also have them at wal mart..
3. lots of fake flowers and palm trees for decor
4. for table decor, you can decorate it like its wearing that hawiaan skirt, like around the table, just stick those with hot glue gun.


and if you have pool it would be better so i hope i helped~


My question is: My eldest son is in grade 5 and has never had a problem with his school work until this year. We unfortunately had to move to my mothers house because of financial dificulty. In the begining of this year we had to put him in another school closeby sothat my mother can look after him and help him with his schoolwork. But he failed his first trimester. Me and my husband thought we will then put him in a bording school because my son and my mother does not get along very well. We talked to him and explained that it will be better for him and more peacefull. We got his report back today and he failed even worse. What do you sujest we do? How can we help him if we work from 06:00 to 19:30 every day exept saturdays and sundays. (link)
Well i dont know if you want an advice from 14 year old girl but i think i would help at least a little so here i go.

well i have a cousin who was raised by my grandmother and she has gone through similar situation. she was getting bad grades and stuff. and from what i think, that would happen to most kids who just changed their living environment. but i think it would be better for you because she didnt get to spend any time with her mother.

so here is what i think that can make better.

1. during the weekends, talk to your son about school and offer to help him with homework.

2. if you think his lying about the homeworks, like i finished already, i dont have homework today. and trust me , he might. (we all said that)
then talk to his teacher about it and ask them to send the assignment to your email so you can check. he might not like it at first but he will get used to it.

3. have a little parent-son time. go out to mall for ice cream. catch a movie.

Most importantly talking is good. tell him some stories when you were his age so he can relate to you and i hope i helped ~



Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH (link)
Wow that is TOUGH situation. i mean everybody's not perfect right?

so you have to look on con and pro sides.

--CON SIDE--
1. he never calls you
2. Making excuses


--PRO SIDE--
1. comfort
2. fun you are having when you are together



but think abou it, if guy really cares about you, he would call you. and i know some guys are not good in all calling and stuff, so you have to ask him about it. if his not willing to talk about it, maybe there is a "seceret" that his not wanting to let you know. tell him calmly, that you enjoy his company and all the little affection but calling is part of the relationship and returning call! (but seriously, some guys are dead on the phone =)

but remember this, if you ever think its something else on his mind, then you are probably right. so trust your HEART! listen to your HEART!

because some guys can be real good actor. if you know what i mean.

so trust your instinct and your heart and talk it over one day. and if he say he cant come over, say its real important. and if his still not willing to come over then you have to let him in the truth, say its about our (yours and his ) relationship.

that might wake him up a little

hope everything works out for you and i hope i helepd you


well my boyfriends coming to visit me here in pa and i really want to get in shape for him. the rest of my body is fine but my tummy is a problem lol i need a flat tummy! well i wanted to know if there was a way that i didnt have to sacrafice my eating habits and lose this tummy in three weeks! please help thnx! (link)
Do a Crunch (you can get that video special for abs or stomach in stores.)

i bought mine but it was for whole body, i got them at Wal Mart for about ten bucks and i gave up but my mom hadnt and she lost quiet a lot of pounds on that.

and oh yea you should check out those Teen Magazines like Cosmo Girl or Seventeen because they have special work out every issue and if you are lucky, this month's issue's workout can be about toning your stomach.

and last tip to tone. when you are working out for your stomach, you have to suck in the stomach when you are working out(its sooo hard because i forget but you will get used to it...)

hope i helped =)


i have to go to the doctor for a physical and i don't know why but i'm scared! I'm 12 going on 13 soon and i want to know what their going to do to my breasts and vagina and around that area.... pppllleeeaaassseee help me! please!!
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Oh you have to go visit Gynologist? if that is what you mean by Physical.

well to tell you the truth, i never been to one because my family was poor and couldnt afford one but i heard they do a pap wipe or something if your parent want them to, it checks for any infection you have around your vaginal area and some people say it hurts a little and some say it doesnt hurt but feels awkward.

but even it might be embarrasing and weird, you will eventually have to go visit there, for your own health and when you are over with, you dont have to see them for long time =)

so try to talk to your mom about it if you need more encouraging and if you have more question, and if you cant because it might be embarrasing to ask then just go to YAHOO and try looking there

hope i helped =)


okay. so, i have this problem.. this is going to be kinda long but i really need help! i get REALLY embarrassed really easily. people could just look at me the wrong way and my face turns BRIGHT red! and it takes a while for it to go completely away (not like 10 minutes..but like 20 seconds) but when you are embarrassed it feels like FOREVER!! but the thing is, i don't know if this is normal or not, because of how extreme it is. i mean, i can't even look people in the eyes without turning red. i always feel that i am being judged, and i am so insecure! but i hate it so much, it holds me back soo much! i can't even be myself around anyone because of my face turning red. it makes me feel like such an idiot! i need help. like how can i stop it? do you think i have a problem where i would need to take medicine or something to make it go away!? because EVERYTHING embarrasses me! i even get embarrassed when i am talking on the phone and i say something and the other person laughs. even when people are laughing WITH me and not AT me i get embarrassed, so needless to say when people laugh AT me i am totally humiliated!! HELP!!!!!!!! (link)
Its normal because i have a friend who is Irish and she turns Red a lot, especially around cute boys. but it can be little less noticable if you put on some foundation. i am not saying it will be completly unnoticable because it WILL be noticable but try to laugh at your self for embarrasing moments and take it as a joke so it will be easier to get it off your mind. and try to think of something you really love when you want to try to get your mind off and Trust me, i wish I can BLUSH... i never can so boys never know i am flirting with them most of the times.

unless i go overboard..which i dont really like

=)


Ok i've bin out with this boy 12 times I really love him and he told me that he wanted kids with me and that he loves me but recently his ex got jealous i bbroke up with him because me and his ex had an argument this caursed all my other mates to fall out with me now he's going back out with his other ex and has recently started being nasty to me I still really love him and can't stop thinking about him also i'm going out with someone else and he's threatened to beat them up if they don't dump me he thinks he can have as many people as he likes but just won't get off my case when I try so the question I want to ask is if you were me what would you do about this boy??? thankyou if you help i'll rate you high if not I won't rate you at all (link)
um its clear that you are older then me and you might not want to hear what 14 year old girl say but anyways i will try to help anyways.

(oh by the way i will pretend this is like high school things because these happens more in high school and i can relate to)

First, you should try to get over him because its clear that you love him a lot but He doesnt. so it will only end in bad situation. and its for your own good if you do, then you will meet a new guy who loves you and cares for you.

one who doesnt THREATEN you and such...

second, if he keeps threatening to BEAT up your current, and if HE DOES, then you have EVERY right to go to police about it. and he will go behind the bars and serves him right.

and i am not saying all this will be walk in a park or not hurtful ending, because it might.

but its for your future when you are over that meanie person, then you will meet a sweet guy who loves you and will be head over hills for you.

Sounds good doesnt it?

and another reason, if his violence now, think about how he will be when you guys EVER somehow got together.

so please think about your self and do what is best for you and your future.

and hope i helped


im a teenage girl who truly hates her parents to death. They've both cheated on each other, and not just once. They dont think or care about me or my careless little 9 year old brother. They have me in the middle hoping i'll pick or protect one of them, and they've said no matter who i pick, i'll still lose one of them and wont get to see them ever again, but their both literally whores. Worst thing is, i suffer from severe depression, and i cut myself, sometimes to much and sometimes to deep, i've taken 2 overdoses, but have ended up getting the pills pumped out, i might as well kill myself, but i've decided to go 2 my home country, the Dominican Republic, to do high school over there, i no i shouldn't be trying to escape my problems, but it's better than commiting suicide, wat else can i do? Can someone please help? I dont think im a freak, just misunderstood. Please write back (link)
First, you have to tell one of your trustworthy adult. it can be a teacher to your best friends parents. because if they are doing that, they seriously need counseling, and i know what it feels like to go your self and cut because i have done it my self, but it doesnt do anything and it leaves scar. some scars last forever and it will reminds you of the horrible times you had.

and if they seriously do that and doesnt get any better then Screw them. Dont let them Effect your life. It is at one point where they should take care of you, but if you are older then 16 then you should be able to decide what you want to do. and if you can get a job and become successful then go for it. but do not quoat me when things get bad... because its only my OPINION.

anyways... most important thing is DO NOT LET THEM MAKE YOU FEEL BAD.

and if you do drugs and injure your self and let them see that you are hurting, you are giving them what they wanted.

so dont let them win and try to talk things first before you take in to action and if you are seriously in need of getting away from them, then try to talk to your school counselor about a program where kids are taken under one of the teachers, when the student's parents are not in position to take care of after kid.

and my school does that and probably your school will too so try that and for your brother too.

his young. he cant do as much as you can so you should probably get him a place to stay.

and hope i helped


Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!) (link)
Ok this might sounds mean and stuff but if he ignores you, then his not worth it because you are so much better than that and you DESERVE much better than that.

so try this. get with him in some quiet private place where you 2 can talk. tell him calmly that you really loved him as friend and as boyfriend but you liked the person that you knew before who was sweet and loving, not the person you see now who is ignorant and bad. and if he really cares then he change in next week and if he doesnt than you are moving on...

this might be hard for you but you have to move on if he keeps on like this, because you deserve better than that. and if you let go then you will meet a new guy who loves you and cares for you and never ever ever ignore you.

because most important thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION.

and hope i helped and hope it works out =)~!


All my life-I was known as the "stick."


Now I'm gaining weight-and fast. I am on birth control and that could be one of the reasons-but I'm also not in as many sports as i once was.

I'm not fat-but I feel as if i am overweight. I am 5'9 and i weigh 130.


Psycologically-I want to stop eating. I eat something fattening-and then I decide not to eat for the rest of the day.



I can't shake this-and I really just want to lose weight. I run every day-but it soon ended-I just couldn't do it anymore. I have horrible back problems. I try and eat heathy-but i still feel fat.


Sorry.


Please help.. (link)
wow, you are five nine and one thirty. you should not feel you are overweight.

you may feel that way because you were really skinny and now you are gaining weight fast. but that is perfect weight, or moreless underweight. but you should do a exercise that gains muscle so you would look healthy and in shape.



OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do? (link)
well it all depends on if how your relation with him is.

1. just know because you see at shcool
2. talked few times (a year)
3. he sit close to you so he talks you occasionaly
4. he talks to you frequently
5. you guys are acquaintence
6. you guys are good acquaintence
7. you guys are friend
8. you guys are good friend

anyways, if you are lower then 3 then you should at least try to get to know him and talk to him but if you are higher then 6 then you should try watch what happens for few day or even few weeks

becaus he might like that new girl his making out with(probably he DOES like her since he makes out with her, unless his a kiss and run type of guy which i doubt)

and when they seem like they are hitting off, then you have missed out but if your heart says you must tell him now then

you should tell him that you've liked him for long time but never had a courage to tell him and now you see him with a new girl that you thought this would be your last chance and you must tell him that you really like him.

but most importantly about the timing is, listen to your heart. and go with your instinct.

hope i helped =)


yeah im 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.. but i dont look it..i ook like i weigh about 110..but i still dont like the fact of weighing that much13 years old...how can i drop 10 pounds bby the time school starts...if it helps..i want to lose most weight in my upper legs!! i rate 5 on best answer!

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hmm well it sounds like you are average but i know what you mean. (kinda) because i weigh around 160 but people ALWAYS think i weigh around 140... but i guess it depends on your height too. anyways if your family is financially ok then you should consider buying mini-stepper or treadmill

and work out on those for 30 min (with no stopping for break or any water)

while listeing to Music or watching Tube or whatever to make time go fast.

and i said do not stop because once you get past the first 5-7 minute, it will be a breeze. well it wont hurt as much. but if you feel like passing out then you can =)

and no water during or right after the exercise, you have to wait at least 30 min before drinking water.

i mean you can drink like a sip or something but not chugging half a cup like that =)

and try to eat 500 calories less everyday and try not to eat before 1 hour before sleep and try to not drink any soda and drink lot of water(except for right after exercise =)

hope i helped and trust me, this works because i've lost 10 pounds already in like couple months.


i just ned advioce on everyt thing i have a lot (link)
well i think that i answered your question before , well thats me assuming but i dont know which question i answered and i dont know what you need advice on because it doesnt tell who you are when you are asking a question so if you dont mind can you tell me who you are and be more specific about it because i dont mind answering questions, trust me i like answering questions even if they are 100s of them.

so be glad to open up and let me know what you need advice on.

1. relationship?
2. school?
3. family?
4. fashion?(thats what i am really good at most)
5. anything i cant think of but you can =)

so ask whenever . and i dont mind asnwering thousands of questions.


I know i'm a dumb ass cause I don't do anything about it really... and this moral thing seems like an excuse. LIke everyone else I carry on with my life ignoring these things. These things i'm talking about are the people constantly dying around the world. Mainly all the bastards killing people, rapists... pedophiles, robbers, thieves, molestors, child-killers... parents who beat their child for no reason, people who harm other people for no reason... ugh these people, I want them all dead and I also ask why God would allow such an evil to exist as this kind. My answer to this is what i've heard before, God does not interfere in our lives, he cannot perform miracles all the time and just come down and slay all those people. So therefor God created everything and merely watches us, and when we die, we return to him. So I continue to thank my blessings and all the good thigns and good people in the world, but i've stopped really believing if I pray to God for good things or to help the O-zone layer or enlighten people it will happen. What's the point, he cannot interfere in our lives, he chooses not to and its understandable considering he's God. Anyways-- my morals are breaking. I find myself going crazy especially those bastards that make my life miserable. In my high school and grade school there were these people that constantly tormented me for no reason, even made me snap and start getting violent in grade school... then burst out in tears on my first day in a new school, new city. I'm believing to not give a shit about whether what I do is wrong or not, i'm tired of this fuckign bullshit about jail or w/e i'll kill the cops then myself for all I care as long as I take down my enemies and as much of those wretched bastards in the world. I know i'm possibly not capable of such a thing as this mass murder, i'm not that strong, but seriously i'm going crazy with all this shit and all these social problems, friends backstabbing, relationships gone wrong, physical illness is consuming my life as well now and possibly cancer, but that's an uncertainty. I don't want to die with a frown, and hating the world which has destroyed me. My family knows nothing because everyday im smiling and happy, my true friends know nothing because im always smiling and happy. Im the energetic bastard that runs around like he is on crack, willing to try new things and cracking up jokes 24/7 yet it hurts so fucking much especailly the fact that i'm unable to truly trust people. This girl.. I can't get into a relationship with her, I want to, but everytime I think about it I always feel wrong. My dreams, if involve her, I remembre them all they usually involve us being together and her cheating on me, or something happening of that sort. I cannot rest in peace and it would be best if I had no exist because this is just killing me so much, it hurts, it hurts so. Yet I cannot kill myself, for one reason and one reason only, not only have I not made up to my family whom I love and cherish as my treasure. I haven't done so well in school, of lack of motivation and sheer laziness but that's changing slwoly. I want to impress my family, live up to their kindness and efforts to raise a good successful child, and make them proud and happy before they meet their end. To make money and settle any fees they have and just make their lives good, to have children and hope they do not share the same wretched fate as me. Oh woes me, I am wretched in the inside, my mind? It dreams of death and perverted incidents with some of my friends whom I care about and want to be with yet I cannot bring myself to admit my liking to them. Destroy me, free me, yet if that is so I will never be able to repay my family for being the only people who I can assure trust in. If they were to fail me as well.. I don't know what I'd do. (link)
wow... even though i am only 14 but i think i totally get you. yea because i've had backstabbers, and i was the crack of the joke because people were racist in my school bus, i am asian by the way, anyways and i didnt really believe in God before, and i hated how people are being like that, you know whole world domination thing and racist and abusive people, murderers. and i am not saying you wont run in to those weirdo freaks, because our lives are well, werid it self! but you cant hide those feelings forever. and they are not HELPING you because they DONT KNOW! so you have to sit down with people you love and tell them calmly about what is going on with you. or it will not get better, and i am not saying by doing this the world will be in peace, but what you WILL get is an inner peace. most important peace of all, inner peace that is inside your heart. with people who loves you and care for you. so please think about it.

and hope i helped. and trust me i totally get your drift. i was like that for once but now i think about it, God does watch over us and try the best. i mean his God and all but there are more than billion of us down here and all those little miracles are his sign of him watching us and besies, if he didnt watch us over, there wont be any good people, like you, who actually care about it. if it wasnt for God, there wont be people who cares for animal, like peta. and people who helps kids who are living in war, like war child. and so much more for cancer victims so think about that too and hope i helped =)

and hiding those wonderful smile of yours isnt going to solve the problem, because they are not psychic and cant read your mind. so please talk about it.


you give the best advice please check me out and give me some advice. (link)
first of all thanks for the comment =)
and second of all (sorry if i am slow) but i have no idea who you are... because it doesnt show your nick name on the advicenators so i have no way of checking you out sorrry again because i am slow but i have no idea to what to give advice on so if you dont mind can you email me or write it more specifically?

and thanks again =)


Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
aww i am sorry to hear that and if this makes you feel better i will be your pen pal and try to help you get through it. although i am only 14 girl but i hope i can help you.

and yea i never had a boyfriend in my whole life. when all of my other friend is going out with their bfs i was stuck home doing nothing but surfin net.

anyways...i dont really know why they dont like you but are you mean? rude? unsanitary? a major geek? delinquent? rebel? foulmouthed? which i highly doubt but just in case(because some people do not realize they are annoying or some what)

and here is what you can do, since you sound like you are going off to colleage soon then there is a whole new chapter you can start. Join a club you like, and start a conversation first which in subject you like, so you would meet a true friend. and if you would email me about why you think they dont like you and what did you do those years? any significant events>? and more about your self and i will help you best i can
and i know what you mean for feeling left out. because i have decent amount of friends but on my bus i get picked on and made fun of constantly because i am Asian. well people who makes fun of me is African American and they keep calling me chinese er whatever when i am not even chinese and such... and i do not mean no disrespect to African American because one of my best friend is African American but in my bus, we go to neighborhood, all which are Black people, and my neighborhood, mostly white, and few Hispanic and one Asian (me of course) so few of us who lives in our neighborhood get picked on by them. well me and this other boy. so it really hurts me that they are racist...and oh sorry i wrote so much i get carried on when i talk...

anyways hope i can help you


okay well my friends birthday is coming up... shes turnin 16... but her birthdays a a suprise! so i really need ideas for what to get her... her parents are gonna buy her a car i kno... and her bff is buying her a really really expensive jacket... so what are some ideas!! please help! thanks... ill rate (link)
Buy some cool decors for her new car!

like fuzzy dice in her fave color and stearing wheel cover in her fave color, and car freshner and beads and stuff for her car.

also, you can go in traditional route.

awesome jewelry from clairs or if you are big in cash, Dior, or Chanel, and such.

and oh yea if you are going with accesory gifts you should consider Sunglasses, because you know those big lensed sunglasses that celebs are wearing these days are TIGHT!

so i hope i helped and it would probably be good to give your friend car stuff and a shirt and a skirt to match her present from her bf so if you are doing that then ask him before or even better, ask him to show you before then you would really know how to match!

hope i helped =)




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