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what does it mean when you have a dream about a guy that you are going to go out wit really soon. but in your dream you had sex with him? is that a good thing or bad thing? (link)
It doesn't really mean anything except that you are crushing on that guy so badly that you think you want to have sex with him.

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


do they have publixes other than in florida?


i no this is a stupid question. (link)
No offence, but DUH!

Hope I helped!

~Passionate


is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed? (link)
Yeah, it's normal don't worry. You can get your nose unstuffed by on of those things that you put up your nose and sniff or one of the vapor things. The one where you sniff is better though. I'm sorry if you don't know what I mean because I'm not specific, but I forget the actual name.

Anyway, I hope I helped!

~Passionate


how do i get rid of varicose veins? i rate 5's (link)
The only way I can think of is surgery.

I hope I helped!

~passionate


how do people get boyfriends? i cant get one. (link)
I'm sorry but it just happens. A girl and a guy start out liking each other then express that by telling each other. Then you go out together. Usually if you go out more than once your officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

I hope I helped!

~passionate


I just had my first kiss not ot long ago and I was just wondering, how do you french kiss? I dont want to but i just want to know..


Thanks-
Meg (link)
Well, we might be talking about different things but my idea of a french kiss is a kiss with tonge. Like if both your lips part and one of you sends thier tonge into your mouth and down your throat.

I hope I helped!

~passionate


Anyone have any diet tips or special meals to follow. I'm about 15 pounds over weight. Any kind of exersicing that i should consider? I want to look better when i get back to school

thank you so much
-Aleks (link)
Surprisingly jumping rope is a good excercise. It flattens your stomach, but I don't know about losing weight by that. To get good results jump rope 15-20 minutes a day, at least 3 days per week. Then you have to continue to make sure you maintain it. But you see results an hour after you excercise.

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


my boyfriends has been hurt by his ex girlfriend he really loved her and she told him that she loved him too but she went out and had sex with another guy and that tore him up how do i get him to see or convince him that i won't hurt him? i do know what its like 4 your ex to cheat or something so how do i get him to understand that i won't do what she did?
(please help me) (link)
Show that you care and won't hurt him. Comfort, but don't rush, him into things.

I hope I helped!

~passionate


(13/f)Well I really like my friend Jesse....Were like really good friends though, but we go to different schools but I see him a lot. I don't want to tell him I like him but I want him to kind of try to figure it out, like I don't want it to be so obvious. He has a girlfriend but I think shes gonna dump him soon....Well what are some good ways for him to realize that I like him a little. (link)
Well I have a few ideas:

1. Flirt a little more than usual.
2. Talk to him a little more than usual so that he knows you care.
3. Send him sweet looks a lot more than usual.
4. Make eye contact a lot more than usual.
5. Maybe you can get ideas from your friends too.

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


how good is biking riding for excerise. also how long to i need to ride and how many miles to make a good workout. (link)
Well, bike riding makes your legs stronger and your stomach a little stronger. I don't know how many miles would make a good work out though. But either way you should ease into it (one day = one mile , second day = 2 miles , etc.) until you feel challenged. (ex. before the 5th mile you feel tired)

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


my friend just gave me some condoms... like 8 f them i think.. me and this guy are gettin pretty close, but i have to hold the condoms... wheres a good spot to hide em so my parents wont look? my parents look through everything... so i need a good one! thanks!! (link)
Well, maybe you can get a friend to hold them or you can hide them:
1. IN your clothes
2. with your pads or tampons
3. tape them behind a poster (if you have a poster)

Well, those are just a few ideas. I hope I helped!

~passionate


Hey, does anyone know if it's true that brushing your teeth with salt once a month makes them whiter?? (link)
I pretty sure its not salt that whitens your teeth its baking soda. But maybe salt works too.

Hope I helped!

~Passionate


how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
16/f (link)
My rule is: I'm over him and I don't have to worry about what he thinks if I jump back in. So just ask yourself that question: Am I over him so much that I don't care what he thinks if I jump back in? But if you took the "just friends" route out of being his girlfriend and it hurts his feelings just say: I'm sorry, but we are not together anymore and I am not your property, I can make good decisions without you. (Or something like that)

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?

Thanks

I rate 5 for good answers (link)
Well, usually I bring chips and candy for my sugar urges. For nutrition I would bring grapes and carrots, etc. And if you just want something filling buy fast-food.

I hope I helped!

~Passionate


My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom. (link)
If he has a cell phone call him there and you can talk about his devilish mom. Or you can just confront his mom by saying "Boy, your grass sure must grow fast for him to have to mow the grass just about everyday." or someting like that.

I hope it goes well for you and him!

~Passionate


what do guys consider slutty?
no dumb ass answers thnx (link)
This is how you know someone is a slut.

1) They have so little on that it barely covers the private parts. (And they are not going swimming anytime soon.)

2) They go around having sex with every guy that is willing, of course a lot of guys are going to be willing because a slut is cheaper than a stripper or a hooker. A slut is free.

3) They like to get drunk so that they have more courage to have sex with unwilling men and rape them. Maybe even molest some children, even more than they did when they were not drunk.

4) They wear a lot of make-up because they are so hung over and ugly. So much make-up that the blindest person could see it, and it looks like she has a mask on - literally.

5) They have too many kids to count or keep track of because each and every one of them has a different father they are staying with.

... there are many more answers, but I think you get the idea.

Anyway, those are various examples of a slut, I am not sure guys would consider that is a slut because I happen to be a girl.

I really do hope I helped.

~Passionate


Ok, I never knew my parents I guess my mom was a druggie and my dad was a pimp so they didn't really want a kid around. Well because of that I've been in "the system" for my whole life. I've been in and out of foster families and only 2 of them have ever considered adoption. Well I've been staying with this family for 2 years now. It's really great I absolutely love it they're so nice and they really make me feel like I'm their child. Well my mom (foster mother) was considering adopting me, she sent away for the papers and she was really thinking about doing it. But then my mother (birth mother) showed up. She said that she's cleaned up and that she wants to be able to raise and spend time with her daughter. I've never met my mother before and I don't know if I should go with her. I mean I have a really good thing going now these are the nicest people I've ever met and they want to adopt me. I'm afraid that if I go and get to know my mother and it doesn't work out I will blow my chances with this family. I really want to be a part of this family. I love these people but I've always wanted to meet and spend time with my real mother. I have so many questions that I know only she can answer. I talked to my foster mom and she said that I could talk to her and that I can get to know her and still be a part of this family but my mother said that she's leaving to another state so I have to make a choice. I don't know what to do. Please help me what should I do? (link)
I wouldn't go with your birth mom because she abandoned you once, who says she isn't going to do it again. And how do you know its your real birth mom anyway, she may have papers but they might as well be fake. I personally wouldn't go with someone that I haven't learned to love. Well, I hope I helped!

~Passionate


ok say you go get tested and they say you have herpes, how will they know if the herpes was from giving someone head or if it was from air borne herpes(which is when u can get it just by breathing in the air) or if it was from switching saliva. like by sharing drinks.. whats the difference.. and if u go get tested and you have herpes how can they tell which one you have..???? (link)
Well, I don't know about Herpes, but I know about Genital Herpes. What they told me is that Genital Herpes is a sexually transmitted disease and that it could only be transmitted through blood, semen, breast milk, and vaginal fluids. But either way I hoped I helped!


can you please help. me and my boyfriend were in a 3 year relationship but he was really nasty to me he hit me and i use to sell drugs for him i know im stupid but i was so scared of him any way i sucked up the courage to break up with him and i did but now he rings me and follows me i told him i was gona ring the police and he sed he would tell them i used to sel drugs unless i go back to him should i go back i dont want no trouble with the police and also ive already bin in trouble with them once because of it. (link)
Well, obviously you can't call the police and you can't go back to him.
The way I see it these are your options:
1. Move (to another state/province)
2. Go undercover and disguise yourself
3. Always travel in groups so that maybe you don't think about him stalking you.

I think 3 is the best thing to do, but if that doesn't work then I suggest 1 and 2.


Well it all started a few months ago when I started liking this guy "D". We'd be friends for the first semester, but the second semester brought us closer because we were in the same Algebra class. Yes, this guy had a reputation back in jr high for being a player and relieving his stress through violence, but it didn't seem to bother me. And so yeah, somehow all these people found out about my feelings towards him and he then found out as well, but he wouldn't confront me about it. He told my friend "Nik" that he didn't wanna play guessing games though, and wanted me to just come out and say it to him. But I don't know, that seemed desperate to me. But eventually, I did. I know, sad. He didn't act any differently towards me, nor did I towards him. Well at a party, he and my friend "Sar" hooked up. (they only made out, really) That left a mark on my ego, that a friend would do that to me, but what's done is done. I talked to her about it, it's over, she doesn't like him anymore, it was a one night thing. Well now he likes my other friend, "Care". And she likes him a little bit, but loves her ex-boyfriend, which she still has a shot with. Okay, finally getting to the issue::: the other day, during lunch, she was being all touchy and clingy towards him, right in front of me. And so after, I talk to her about it. Apparently, he kissed her while I wasn't around. And I'm not saying that just because I like him, that he shouldn't have other girls, but I expect more of my friends, yah know? I am happy that she talked to me about it and told me about the whole thing, but, it still hurt.. And yeah, my main question is what is there for me to do? This guy is definately worth it in the long run, but I don't know if I want to wait that long. Everyone says that he'll come around to see what he's missing with me, but I'm sick of waiting. Honestly, what is there for me to do???

-Mixed Emotions =/ (link)
Well, tell your friend about how you feel towards him (maybe she can put in a good word or two to him) and how you feel about him kissing her. She might understand and try to stop it from happening often or happening at all. But in the meantime maybe you could be a little more flirtatious towards him so that he knows that you are genuinely telling the truth about how you like him.

I hope I helped!

~Passionate




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