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Stalker
can you please help. me and my boyfriend were in a 3 year relationship but he was really nasty to me he hit me and i use to sell drugs for him i know im stupid but i was so scared of him any way i sucked up the courage to break up with him and i did but now he rings me and follows me i told him i was gona ring the police and he sed he would tell them i used to sel drugs unless i go back to him should i go back i dont want no trouble with the police and also ive already bin in trouble with them once because of it.
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Well, obviously you can't call the police and you can't go back to him.
The way I see it these are your options:
1. Move (to another state/province)
2. Go undercover and disguise yourself
3. Always travel in groups so that maybe you don't think about him stalking you.
I think 3 is the best thing to do, but if that doesn't work then I suggest 1 and 2.
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Eyy you..Ma friend had da same exact problem n she told Da Police da whole story. She said dat she used 2 sell drugs for da guy because she was soo scared of him and he was soo demanding and dat she neva wanted to deal with da drugs n shit but it was her guy dat she was scared he'd kill her or somthin..so da police understood her so now da guy is neva to be seen wit her or nething. So i hoped diz helped ya lotz.Luv ya mucho $hereen!
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no dont go back to him that will make him think hes won and hes in control of your life you need to find the corrage again and say no you need to proove to him that he cant rule you and he doesnt own you tell him its up 2 you what you do and your not going to be black mailed or forced anymore you need to show him that hes lost if he rings the police tell them the truth that you were forced into selling them say you were terrified of loosing your life and you just want to be rid of this man explain to them that he used to beat you so you got out of the relationship but he was stalking you and black mailing you tel them you no you need the wrong thing by selling the drugs but you thought at the time it was the only way you can stay alive explain you were terrified of him but now all you want to see is him paying for what he did to you im sure they will understand hope ive help good luck jess xx
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even though you've been in trouble, stalking is a very serious crime. You have the right to get yourself straight, regardless of your past, and I commend you on that. If there is an adult that you can confide in, that is where I would start, and have them approach the police with you. Keeping a journal of when he calls and when he is following you, also of threats being made will help your case. No one should have to live in fear. ...
From someone who's been stalked herself...
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Jesus.... Definitely *DO NOT* go back to him! He's *obviously* a complete waste of a life!!! I doubt he could even get you in tRouble with the police anyhow. He'd pRettie much have to *pRove* you WERE indeed SELLING the dRugs.... And him being the little immatuRe snot mongeR that he is... the police will pick up on his ways IMMEDIATELY.. fRom just his body language and vocabulaRy; the authoRity is NOT stupid... and they see that kind of cRap alllllll the time. If you feel youR life is tRuly in dangeR, you definitely need to have a RestRaining oRdeR place on this fucktaRd... I wish you alllll the best of luck!! I hope eveRything woRks out!! Take caRe and know that you can *always* come back to me if you eveR need a second opinion. =D
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