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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing...

I some what think you should be upset .Becasue the way hes treating you ..and yes your right when guys keep cussing all the time it just makes them look stupier.

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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!?

I can unstand what your saying and you wouldn't want to hurt him.But all i can say is watch how to lose a guy in 10 days it might work!

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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!!

Wow uour brother must be really strong for an 8 year old to choke your boyfriend lol.Give him money to go away it might just work.In a little kids mind two dollars tends to be alot.

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Well this morning i woke up and my boob was hurting. what could this mean?? 14/f. thanks

maybe ther getting bigger lol i'm not sure

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My best friend just passed away :-[. she was only 13 and she died of cystic fybrosis. i miss her soo much! we have been best friends since the day we met .. when we were 3! every night i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so much! She passed away last week. PLEASE HELP ME! what can i do to keep her with me and what can i do to make me get over the fact that im never gonna see her again!? thanks a lot ..

o i'm so sorry to here, my friend passed away last night from an overdose.just remember all the fun times you had together it was gets me threw the day.

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I was wondering, is it bad to eat cough drops even when you don't have a cough? In what ways?
Because I have a cough now, but when it's done and I don't actually need to use the cough drops, I still like to eat them. So my main question is, Could this hurt me and if so how?

Haha i'm the same way with night quel who ever you spell it.I take it becasue it makes me fall alseep but have stoped now becaue its bad for you when you do it.No they shouldn't hurt you at all, they must be really good.

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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?

I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!

Thanx!!!

how close are you to 14 from what i know you can maybe get a job at mcdonalds at 14 at least were i live you can

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k, don't ask....this is a really random question, but.... where would you move to if you had a choice? Just say one place... i am not going to rate you if you say a place i don't like.

back to detrotie ,michigan i miss my nana ..i don't care about living in the "ghetto" in other peoples words as long as i'm with someone i love !

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OMG. I know this girl who smokes weed and I try to tell her to stop but she totally keeps on doing it. The only reason she does it though is to be cool but when I try to tell her that it's not cool, she hits me with a soda can! HELP!!

hiter back ...with you back hand she;ll lose her balance..she;ll walk werid for a day or to and i'm sure she won't mes with u anymore.and tell her if she does it again u will kill her ..it worked for me

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ok well i really want my hair chemically straighted but all ym friends say it is really really bad for you. i kno its kinda true but i hate my hair! like whatever i do it wont get straight. becasue i have really wavy hair its not curly its just like wavy and i hate it! i have a really good straigtner but it still dosnt get my hair straight. so i was wondering how chemically straigtning works.

like how much does it cost?
will it hurt?
how long will it last?
and like other things like that so help me please and thankyou!!

when i got my hair done it took forever but i also have every every curly hair.It took so long ,and it depends on how much hair to have mine coast noting the first time. Because i know someone who can do it and they did it for free she said.It would of coasted 300 for me ,but i just got touch ups for 75 $ it didn't hurt.If u have colored hair it might from what she told me it might might be bad for your hair but .i love it now , my hair right now looks like this http://www.myspace.com/bitme125

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A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?

mmm the mall !

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Whenever I put eyeliner on, there's no affect. It just looks like I have black stuff all over my eye. Does anyone have any tips to put it on better? Thanks!

u can put the liquild on ur eye lid ..it might work better

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I recentley bought an iPod.
I only have 44 songs on it, and I can't think of any more songs to add! Mostly all the songs I have on there are emo/rock. Im looking for some good songs that are in the Indie and Techno genre. Thanks!

simlie empty soul- bottom of a bottle
modest mouse- float on
atreyu - right side of the bed
atreyu - the crimson
sliknot - the heretic anthem
the used - i'm a fake
my chemical romance - i'm not okay (i promise)
slipknot-The Blister Exists
slipknot - Scream
slipknot - Circle

thoses are just songs that are good ...i like heavy metal so maybe u will like some of them

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I really want to move and so my parents are thinking about moving to Arizona - Im kind of bummed about going THERE, does anyone live there or been there? Is it like totally DESERT? do people have southern accents or what? Tell me EVERYTHING PLEASE PLEASE PLEASe!! ill rate u a 5 && feedback, anything lol! I need to knoww any/everything. Im going there sophmore year maybe sooo ..?? help! ANy other good suggestions of places to move to??

no lol i live in arizona ........i live in gilbert arizona ......no southern accents that i know of .....if u move to arizona move to mesa or scottdale or gilbert like me ...there alot of punk rockers here and hott skater preppy guys ( there all hott )

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I want to gain more muscle and tone up my body. Already, i'm 5'3'', weigh 100 pounds and i am 13. I want to do exercises that will tone up my body in my areas of my arms, stomach(abs), butt, thighs and calves. I want to notice an extreme improvment in the next 5 weeks. I want an exercise that will tighten my butt and thighs extremly with out making them larger or look to musculer. For the stomach and arms, i want an exercise that tones my stomach fast and quick, along with my arms that won't decrease and burn off the fat on my breast. I'm also up for sertain healthy foods that will help!! Also, are there any foods out there, or herbs, that will make my breast larger? I'm only a 32AA. Thank-you for the help

mm u could do sideway crunches

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Hey, I have been trying to lose weight for idk how long now and it hasnt worked. I've been playing lacrosse to, so its not like i dont have any exercise.. but it sucks because I've lost weight before, and i want to lose it again to look good this summer when i go back to california to visit friends and family. I always tell myself, 'okay today im going to not eat fatty foods and work 29835 times harder in practice and run when i get home' but i never pull through with it. I need some will power or something that will help me actually LOSE THE WEIGHT, because i hate feeling like im FAT. I want to wear a size 3 in pants again, i wear a 5 and sometimes a 7 depends on the pants, and i want to look good in a bikini.. can someone please help me to get some will power to actually go through with losing weight and what should i eat? sorry it's sooooo long..

its up to you to go throught with it and how bad you want to lose it. I told my self i was fat over and over ,and it pushed me and pushed me or i remembered when someone called me fat and i just kept thinking i want to be thiner then her and well she who gets the last laugh .So idk if it will work for you.

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hi i'm a 13/f and im in the 7th grade. and we got our 4 and a half week progress reports today and i got a 67 in science. the teacher only took a few grades and mine jumped from a B to an F. i usually get all A's and B's and very few C's. i don't know how to tell my parents because they have really high expectations of me! Help!?

i know wat u feel like i got 4 d's ! never happens i told my mom its geting harder in scgool because of testing and stuff

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my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help

be rude back give them attuide

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Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f.

aww how sweet mm QUCK WASTING HER TIME ASK HER OUT before she leaves

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i take showers every day..i wash myself very good..im very clean and i have pimple/zit things on my butt..i dont kno wat they r and i dont kno how to get rid of them! IM ONLY 13 and im embarressed by themmm!! How do i get rid offf themmmmmmmmmm.THANK u so much

sorry but thats funny that maded my day ...wat does it matter i mean u do wear clothes to school ....no ones gonna see ur butt

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