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breaking up...
Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!?
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I can unstand what your saying and you wouldn't want to hurt him.But all i can say is watch how to lose a guy in 10 days it might work!
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You've gotta dump him. I know you think it's impossible, but it's the polite thing to do. Just get up some courage, look him in the eye, and say, "I don't think this is working out." and that's the end of it. If you try to drive him away he won't dump you, he'll just be really freaking confused and later tell all his friends that you're one of "those girls" who plays HEAD GAMES... there's almost nothing worse that can be said about you.
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Okay, if you're having this much trouble dumping him is it because you don't wanna hurt him or you still have feelings for him? One thing that i have to mention here is that i really don't like it when people dump their boyfriends/girlfriends because of one problem they are having in their relationship. I would have some thinking time, if you really wanna dump him tell him that you need your space and need some time to think. During that time think about how it would be with out him and what you really would like to do. I hope i helped. If you would like more advice then please leave a message in my inbox and i would be happy to help :D.
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i say just talk to him and break up with him, don't somehow get him to dump you.
but you have to be nice about it and say that you definitely still want to stay close friends, but you just don't see him as a boyfriend anymore...and you don't know why, but just figure you should break up with him before you do something stupid and cheat on him or something...where he would end up getting hurt MORE.
make him understand that he didn't do anything wrong, its just that you don't see your relationship going anywhere...
hope i helped.
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the way to get him to dump you is to not act yourself like be ugly and HORABLE but you could also get a friend to dump him for you.
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i would tell your boy friend about this gilr and say i dont wonna feel like im using you becaue of what she said so can we just be friends and if your boy friend cares he'll stop this girl because thats just stupid!!! shes telling u to use him!
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Be honest with him. Don't go make him dump you. Then you might lose a chance of friendship after the breakup you could have had. If I were in your situation, I would tell him face to face that it's just not working. But DON'T make him dump you. That's playing with his mind, and it's not fair to him. So be truthful, and, as I always say, go with your gut. :)
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tell him the truth because if he finds out that you wanna break up from some one else, he'll be really hurt. so just tell him whats going on, he'll get it.
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Just dump him.
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