Heyy guys..wuts up? I'm Tara and i thought these advice columns were cute so i got one..pretty cool, right? hah ask me anything, i'll give you completely honest answers.
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Okay look...me and this guy are going out but my x-friend likes him. I really don't know what to do because this gurl gets what she wants and if she doesnt...OH-NO! And me and tha guy are just getting to a good start we went out before but it just wasn turning out good. Now it is and i think it is gonna get ruined! I luv this guy to death but i might loose him...=( (link)
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stick with him! tell that other girl to BACK OFF. what does he want? does he wanna be with you or her? b.c if he wants 2b w. u then he should tell her that its not gonna happen too. lemme know how it goes.
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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!? (link)
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tell him the truth because if he finds out that you wanna break up from some one else, he'll be really hurt. so just tell him whats going on, he'll get it.
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form my upcoming birthday me and a bunch of close friends are goin camping .. we have 3 sites booked and i know the pools will be open cuz they are after memorial day. but i was jsut wondering if anyone knows anything else we could do there for fun. most the poeple going have never been camping, and i want my party to be fun!...please help ...ill rate high! (link)
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play frisbee, bring volleyballs, plan a scavenger hunt, wow those are fun haha. go take a walk, swim, at night hang out around the fire, roast marshmellows, etc!
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ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!! (link)
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tell it to him like it is. if he really liked you, he'd act like it. he should call you and wanna spend a lot of time with you, and if he doesn't, theres someone else out there who does.
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ok im around 5'7 or 5'8 and i weigh 135 and wear size 4 and 6 pants depends on the store do you think thats fat?! i mean im also very athletic and play vball and softball and run a lot and stuff to stay in shape but i still think im fat what do you think? (link)
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u are NOT fat! you're in shape and really healthy!
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how much do you weigh? you are so pretty! (link)
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i'm around 11o or 115! and i'm almost 5'4"
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how far have you gone with a guy? (link)
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me n my boyfriend have gone all the way.:o)
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Okay here i go theres this guy i like but he said he like this other gurl right? and then one of my friends asked him do u like ..... my name and then he said idk and i dont no what it really means does it mean he like me or doesnt??? (link)
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okay honestly, saying i don't know is a cover up, either for the fact that he does like you or that he doesn't. does he flirt? cus if he does, he prolly does like you! :o)
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Okay so I met this guy… and we hit it off… spent like 10 hours together… he was totally flirting… holding hands… cuddling… and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave he just left no good bye… what does that mean? What happened? (link)
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he prolly wanted to say bye and couldn't! do u guys still talk @ all, cus then you can ask him! if not, don't take the "no-goodbye" very seriously, he liked you or he wouldn't have done all that!
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hey, ok well i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. see he will talk to me on the bus, and give me a lil hand shake thingy b4 i get off. wat does this mean??? (link)
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either it means that he thinks ur awesome and wants 2b friends with you but to me it sounds like he likes ya! oo la la
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how do u know when i guy likes u? (link)
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he'll flirt, talk to you a lot, glance @ you, talk about you to his friends, etc!
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im a lil shy. how can i open up and get to know guys a lil more. likle how can i get them to like me? (link)
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remember some guys like shy girls! but if you wanna open up a lil more, just try to talk to them. the worst thing that can happen is they can be like wow, she's never talked to me before, try it out, get to know the boy!
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Hey, okay i have heard ur advice is good so i want some advice..lol!!! At skool everyone hates me. I will be walking in tha hall and then someone will say "I hate you" just out of tha blue. I mean i am not a nerd or whatever but, evr since a couple of my friends arent my friends anymore everyones been treating me like a piece of crap. I mean i don't wanna be treated like a princess or watever but still. I think the reason that they are so rude to me is because they have been making up rumors about me and my friends. I don't know what to do and wehn you have almoast tha whole skool turned against you cause of a few people makiing up rumors...trust me it doesn't feel good. (link)
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aw okay first off i'm really sorry cus that sucks girl! okay what you needa do is just go up to the people you think are starting the rumors and tell them u'd appreciate it if they stopped b.c uhm we're not 2 years old here. And if they don't stop, just brush it off, hard as it may seem, they'll come around and realize that they're being REALLY STUPID. and w.e you do, DON'T LET THEM KNOW IT BUGS YOU cus then they'll do it more. if they say somethin 2u you, 1.) pretend like you don't here it or 2.) come back w. something better! lemme know what happens, x0!
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OkAy..im having a really tough time with friends right now..and lately its been because im "involving" myself into things..like with my friend that ive known FoReVeR..has got a boyfriend and hes cheated on her and she knows that..and i told her he doesnt love her if hes going to do that and shes telling me to butt out and lately she has been making bad desiciona in her life by hanging out with the wrong people...and everytime she does..she does drugs and a whole bunch of other things and she jus turned 14..and it's so hard because everyone is telling me to just not be her friend and they say it like its so easy. I mean i want to sit down and talk to her but i ahev so much to say that it all comes out in the wrong way or i get messed up and dont say everything i want to..i mean what should i do? go seperate ways? Thank you so much...i asked you this because you have helped me before and you are really good at advice! (link)
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aw i'm glad you liked my advice!
wow, she really needs to be careful w. the whole drugs thing. she's young! well, just make sure she knows that you're her friend and all you're trying to do is help her, not be rude. Ask her what kind of a friend she'd think u were if you didn't try to help her out! plus, you can't just break up your friendship over something small. you shouldn't just walk away, because she needs someone to help her out. Drugs and things like that are noooot good. you said that when you try to talk to her things come out the wrong way, maybe you should write her a note! no its not cheesy just try it. because you can always erase words on paper, but its hard to take something back that you said. well lemme know what happens!
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i think i have hyperhydrosis. i sweat nonstop even if i do nothing at all. i have no money but i heard of stuff that i could buy to prevent the sweating *armpits*. i asked my parents if i cud have some money to get it but they didn't let me and made me really embaressed.. well anyway they didn't let me buy the stuff so now since its like gonna be really hot soon i'm doomed to be walking around sweating under there all the time or wear lotsa lotsa clothes and still sweat but nobody will see but i will be really really uncomfortable if i wear layers and layers to cover the sweat in the summer. i've heard of putting on antipersperent and then putting baby powder ontop of it but it doesn't work, so what can i do to prevent the sweating? how come other people don't sweat and i do? i hate myself (link)
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okay theres this stuff that i use to stay dry..its called certaindri and its aweeesome. you put it on every night before bed, it kinda itches for a lil bit when u put it on but after about a week, ur totally dry! its like $5 at grocery stores
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I know this is long..but please read it..
I have this friend and we are really close and i've known her for five years. She has just got a boyfriend and she thinks of him likes he's everything because she has gone farhter with him then any other guys. Lately she has been not wanting to hang out and she even ditched me on my birthday. She said sorry and i forgave her(like always) and she hasn't even tried to make it up and hang out or anything! Well a couple of days ago she found out her boyfriend cheated on her with one of her really good friends and they broke up. Then a day later she forgave him and the friend and got back together with the guy. I tried telling her that was a mistake and that he wasn't for her and she thinks i'm just not wanting her to be happy and she said he loves her. If he loves her then he would of never done that. She's just changing so much and i've told her this but she just says "people change"...i really don't know what to do..i really need some good avice! thank you for taking your time to read this. (link)
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wow tough. i would just sit her down and tell her how you feel about her ditching you for him, and then explain to her that yes you are jealous but no thats not why you think he's bad for her. You're right, if he truly loved her, he wouldn't cheat..and she can't just let him think that he can get away with it. Theres a guy out there for everyone, and she'll find one that won't do that to her. Lemme know what happens!:o)
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I've been liking this guy at school. He's been giving me many compliments & flattering me lately. He's been asking to hook up in school several times and I really do want to, but when it comes down to it and we're finally alone in school, I freak out and stop myself. I've waited so long for that kind of moment with him too. We'd be perfect together but I'm just scared someone will see us, I'll look slutty and he won't respect me because we don't go out. Should I just finally do it or forget the kiss? (16/F) (link)
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yah! just relax and reassure ur self that its somethin you want. don't care what people say, those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind! loove that quote lol.
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Hey your so pretty, i was wondering if you can tell me step by step how you do your make up and the kinds you use? thnx lots (link)
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hey hey! all i wear is eye make up! first i put on shadow ((cus if my lashes get dusty the mascara gets rid of it)) and i usually jus wear like white shimmery stuff..and then i put on mascara..and then eyeliner on my bottom lid!
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I know its another song question but i have a question if anyone has a link that could be given to me by stained.. its that song where he's like "somehow i hope it f*cks with you" its a more newer song.. well not new new but its been playing lately. I would greatly appreciate this! (link)
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i looked and i couldn't find it, hmm bummer..just type some of the lyrics and staind into search and see what happens!
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have you and ur bf done n e thing? if sooo what have yall done..make out kiss sexx (link)
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me and tyler are both christians so we don't have sex. we do everything but lol. a lot of people think sex is like the ONLY way 2 keep a relationship goin, but its not.
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