OkAy..im having a really tough time with friends right now..and lately its been because im "involving" myself into things..like with my friend that ive known FoReVeR..has got a boyfriend and hes cheated on her and she knows that..and i told her he doesnt love her if hes going to do that and shes telling me to butt out and lately she has been making bad desiciona in her life by hanging out with the wrong people...and everytime she does..she does drugs and a whole bunch of other things and she jus turned 14..and it's so hard because everyone is telling me to just not be her friend and they say it like its so easy. I mean i want to sit down and talk to her but i ahev so much to say that it all comes out in the wrong way or i get messed up and dont say everything i want to..i mean what should i do? go seperate ways? Thank you so much...i asked you this because you have helped me before and you are really good at advice!
wow, she really needs to be careful w. the whole drugs thing. she's young! well, just make sure she knows that you're her friend and all you're trying to do is help her, not be rude. Ask her what kind of a friend she'd think u were if you didn't try to help her out! plus, you can't just break up your friendship over something small. you shouldn't just walk away, because she needs someone to help her out. Drugs and things like that are noooot good. you said that when you try to talk to her things come out the wrong way, maybe you should write her a note! no its not cheesy just try it. because you can always erase words on paper, but its hard to take something back that you said. well lemme know what happens! [ AF_Babie01's advice column | Ask AF_Babie01 A Question ]
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