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okays well im 14 and a female. theres this guy i really like, and im pretty sure he likes me. we talk all the time. and flirt. his friends are telling him to ask me out and my friends are tellin me to ask him out. im thinkin aobut askin him out, but what if he says no. our friendship would be weired. but i think we should give it a chance by going out. i think we would make a good couple. do you think i should take the chance and ask him out??? or wait for him too???
thanks :] (link)
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for me, i'd be so scared to ask a guy out! so i say flirt with him lots, like it will give him the hint. if he flirts back then you will know he likes you and if he likes you enough he'll end up asking you out himself. then you won't need to worry about you asking him out.
if he doenst flirt back, then you'll know if he isnt interested.
good luck hun!
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ok i have cellulite on my butt and like, right under it. its really noticeable when i flex, but not really as much otherwise. i really would like to get rid of it. can anyone help?! thanks! (link)
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i was just wondering the same thing until i saw TYRA BANKS today on tv!
so cellulite it just fat. you can turn it into muscle, the best excercises are squats and lunges for it especially. its easy and you can do it while ur watching tv. another way is nivea's goodbye cellulite patches, they should work too.
hope i helped!
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My best friend has been going through a lot of trouble involving her family. the problem is even though i know she is going through lot she keeps saying she will talk to me about it but doesn't. we are really close and i don't know how to help her. recenlty she has started flaking out on classes. how can i help her out? (link)
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i think you need to talk to her, like really talk to her about how she can't go through it alone and you'll always be there(and tell her you really mean it) and if she wants things to get better she needs help, that she can get from you! and its not going to help if she ditches class. tell her yes she has told you she would talk to you about it, but she really has too becuase you'll give her all the help she needs.
i know this sounds like super deep, but you need something that will let her know how you feel and how she needs the help. and if you really care about her, you should say it.
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Lately this guy who had never talked to me before, started talking to me. I realized that his best girl friend, that he likes so much was in florida when he started talking to me, as soon as she got back, we stopped. Now we barely talk at all. How do i stop thinking about this or how do i get over him ? What should i do to stop thinking about it, because he calls me ocasionally when she doesnt pick up her phone. What should i do? (link)
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I think a person falls for someone more when they know they don't have the same feelings back or can't have them. Which in this case is happening to you. So maybe just bring up casually why he only calls you when his best girl friend isnt around.. it will lead him into talking about it wtih you and you can solve it out with him.
hope i helped!
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okay - there is this boy i have been going out with for about a month or two - well lately he has been get on my NERVES!! - and i think i have lost feelings for him - and i dont no if i have or not - like we will go somewhere and he will be trying to get all like close to me and try to kiss me and - yes we have kissed before but i just dont like kissing him - you know what i mean? and i really dont want to break up with him but i just dont know if i have lost feelings for him or not!
so please help me!
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I think a lot of people go through this. just give it time and thought maybe within a week you'll like him again. but if he just gets on your case more and you feel absolutely nothing and you see yourself looking at other guys, then you dont like him.
But usually when you are unsure, it means no you don't like him. you probably don't like him but want to(maybe he's really nice or somethingg) ,thats why you're trying to hold on to him and trying to make yourself like him again. so i'm sure you've lost your feelings for him.
you probably may want to break up with him but its up to you.
hope i helped!
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i want to go to get my ears pierced again, just third holes. Well do i have to have a parent come with me to sign something? or can my sister just do it (shes 19). Im 17, do i need a parent signature at all?
i live in massachusetts if it matters. (link)
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i got 4 holes done (two on each ear) by myself with friends when i was 13 years old. the oldest person i was with was 15
so no it doesnt matter how old you are when it comes to ear piercing, i guess its just really about where the piercing is.
i live in Canada though, but it shouldnt be any different
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If you have oral sex are you still a virgin? or is sex, sex, or is it just something sexual because my friend said it's concidered half but that dosen't make any sense it's either your a virgin or your not. (link)
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to me its like what the first person said, its what you think. but this is waht the dictionary said:
–noun
1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse
(so having oral sex i guess, would count and you would not be considered a virgin)
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ok so my name is brittany and i am 13.. my bestfriends name is kayla and she is 13 as well.. the guy she is datings name is grey and he is 16. ok well she said she is inlove with him and he said he is inlove with her.. but what they both dont know is im inlove with him. i cant get him out of my head and i feel so much for him... they have been going out now for about 2 months and havent even had one fight yet. now every site i go on to get advice about this gives me the same answer.. like "you have to move on to other guys" "your to young for him anyway" "healing takes time" i dont want to tell him that i like him cause i dont want to get shot down. and i love kayla to death and dont want to hurt her.. but i CANT help my feelings.. do you think they will be together for a long time.. like get married? knowing that they are young ..do you think they will move on to other people? i REALLY need to know what i should do.. do i have a chance with him at all? like if i cry and tell him or if i cry in the rain and tell him then i run off... do you think i have a chance? i dont think i do at all... I REALLY NEED ADVICE (link)
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Well really you need to decide between a boy, and your bestfriend. Im sorry hun but it sounds like he'll choose her in the end beucase he does say he is "inlove" with her doesnt he? And if he really liked you, you would probably have the feeling that he does like you already. No matter what, even if he they break up and you go after him you're still choosing the guy over your BESTFRIEND!! because she did go out with him and does "love him".
sorry, but i say choose your friend, if you love her to death you'll let her be with her boyfriend, the guy that she really loves because who knows, maybe he doesnt have the same feelings towards you as you do to him.
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I'm a teenager who is single and completely miserable and hating it. I can't get a boyfriend because i'm so overweight. Everyone is automatically unattracted to me because I'm so fat. No one wants to date a fatass like me.
I want to commit sucide, but I don't want to have the pain. And I'd be afraid to anyway. So what should I do?
I've seen several therapists and counselors about my depression but they don't help. (link)
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If those stupid people don't like you, becuase youre "unattractive", forget about them. You dont need those fakeasses around you anyways. One day you'll find people that you can click with, and thats all that really matters.
and in the end, you only have family? right!!
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So recently, I told my sister that I'm gay (her and I are really close) and she promises to keep it a secret. She just got out of a relationship with this guy(let's call him X). I recently found out that X is bi so we started being friends and now were secretly dating. When my sister found out that we were dating, she completely flipped out because since I'm gay I should follow the girl rule: "Girls don't date other Girls' exes" and told me that if I don't end things with him now, she's going to tell my parents that I'm gay. I really like X, and I don't want to end things off with him just because my sister believes in this girl rule. I know for a fact that my parents aren't very understanding with this situation because we're Catholis I'm supposed to degrade gays. So what am I supposed to do? Do I choose love I mean I've never had a deeper connection with anyone else in my life, or do I choose acceptance, shelter, food, and an empty, unhappy life? (link)
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hey, sorry i dont have a lot of time to answer, and if this doenst help; please dont rate me!!
first of all im all up for homosexuality.
anyways they say true love is life's greatest calling, so i say go for him! Your sister shouldn't be following the "rule"..because maybe you might not find another guy like him again(not to sound too negative). maybe your sister might just be kind of creeped out, i mean -her ex is dating her brother-. talk to her!
msg me if you need anymore help!!!
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What can I do to get slimer thighs in the upper area? I'm skinney but I got a lot of fat in my upper leg I could say because if I walk in my underwear or in anything I can feel that fat in my legs jiggling! Here's a picture of an example of the legs I want (any example would do like celebs that don't have fat in their legs) and I don't have a webcam or scanner or anything so I tried my best at drawing my leg.
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/leg.jpg
Anything about ugly knees either? I sit down a lot so my knee is really ugly looking but it's mostly from school, you can't say I want a chair and other students can't get one or it would be unfair. (link)
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im sorry but you cant really do anything :S.. maybe try turning it into muscle?..
but yeah i agree, try running it off!
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My BFF's older brother (who just so happens to be a Senior) says he loves me alot. And i kind of like him too. So what I want to know is if it is cool to date your BFF's bro, or just say no?
He is like 4-5 years older than me.
Much Hearts,
DaAdvicePerson (link)
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ohh...
first you should make sure he meant"ilove you a lot"
in a "liking" you way first, then just sister-brother kinda of thing.
other than that, sure why not go for it!
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how do you lose a crush? im a 13 year old girl and i cant stop liking some guy! well, hes cute and nice and all, and sometimes i remind myself of their flaws if they really have any, but it doesnt help. infact, ive never really stopped liking my crushes.. when i was younger, from like first grade to 3rd, crushes were basically meaningless. then from 4th grade on, like my main crush in 4th, 5th, and 6th, if i saw them, i'd still kinda have a crush on them.. and now i like 2 guys, but i dunno who i like better, either............... gosh middle school is hard. and like whenever i hear love songs and stuff i always think of the guys i like! lol
my friend kinda has the same problem. well for her, she thinks of this guy ALL THE TIME. and she cant get him outta her head. i dunno what advice to give her.. i mean, clearly he doesnt like her back, ever since the beginning, and i didnt tell her so it wouldnt be mean, but i kinda nudged at it, by like saying that she should focus on other things and not worry so much over him and such. and she overreacts over every little thing.. like he even asked her out on AIM and she was all jittery and excited.. when hes probably just joking, cause a guy's done that to me too, but it was a joke. but i guess i kinda see why she does that, but what can i do to help her move on? its hard.. shes liked him for like almost 2 years now, and she doesnt have alot of self confidence, and she thinks hes like amazing cause hes funny, nice, popular, and plays football. she doesnt even try to get him to notice her. like she keeps stalking him on myspace! seriously! she saves his pics, and even got his phone # without the guy knowing. but she wont call him, either, or post on his myspace. in my opinion, if she wont even try, then she probably doesnt want it bad enough. so like.. yea. (link)
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okay, this might not help a lot, and if it doenst; please dont rate.
anyways when i have my crushes im the same, its all i think about. i can go for the longest time liking him and as much as i dont wanna like him, I CANT HELP IT!
*but* if you like someone, you just cant forget about them as much as you try becuase the more you think about him, the more you grow to like him -more-, trust me just give it time even though it may not be what you want to hear.
-when you give it time, youll lose interest ;)
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when you have your period, it comes from the vagina, right?.. when you pop your cherry it comes from the vagina? idont get that, if its a layer of skin that hasnt been popped, how can bllood get through? (link)
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google it
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To the parents of teenage kids out there(meaning 13,14,15 year olds), you know your kids are smoking, popping, doing drugs and partying. Do you care? Do you try to stop them? , i'm really curious, becuase now-a-days it seems like everyone's doing it, and there parents dont even care. (link)
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No, im not a parent, but honestly i think they do care, but dont at the same time. They used to when they were there age didnt they?
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no. i'm not anorexic. and i'm tired of people asking me that! see, i'm reallllly skinny. and short [i think that's part of it.] but still, i eat like a pig, well not really, but i eat normally. it's just that i'm REALLY thin!! it sucks because i have ppl that start rumors at school that say i'm bileemic or anorexic! it's like.. what, so u want me to stock up on McDonalds and get fat or something? i dont know what i should do!!! help! (link)
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a.)that happens to me to, but its means your healthy.
-so thats a good thing
b.)would you rather be an overweight pig?
c.)theyre probably just jealous: as much as you say it, they wish they could to: you eat, but dont really gain a lbs.
my advice: just take it as a joke: for example be like , yeah yeah i am ireally am in a sarcastic way
HOPE I HELPED
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I don't liek anyone in my school like for a boyfriend or anything and I don't feel anyway towards them. Like, I'll say a guy is hot if they look it, but I don't have feelins towards anyone and I'm pretty sure that no boy likes me either. I've never been asked out and I have no desire to ask anyone out. I want a boyfriend really bad because I like the companionship, but it's not happening for me. By the was, I'm only 14 and a freshman if that's gives you a better picture. Thanxxx. =) (link)
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Nope, its not weird at all. i do that
except i like guys at one point, and then i dont
so it may just be mood changes. they can last a long time or a short time..((well for me a very lloongg time))like up to months.
anywyas hope i helped
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What places/stores/restaurants/etc. hire 14 or 15 year olds? (link)
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hey sorry i dont know a lot: but
age 14:sirons
age 15:coast mountain sports/nike
hope i helped
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My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do. (link)
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hunny, you need to confront her. if she decided she didnt want to be friends with you anymore, would you care?..there other ppl out there you just need to learn to be more sociable.
Tell her if she really is your bestfriend she should treat you w/ respect.
hope i helped, if you have any other questions just ask me
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I dont know what to do, it's been months and i just can't forget him.OK i was going out with this guy for about 2 years, I loved him so much. But we have broke up and im sure he's waay over me. He has had like 7 girl friends already. Now he's with one he really seems to like and she is beautiful. Meanwhile I'm here 7months later still crying as if it was the first day we broke up. I have a new boyfriend. He treats me great and I like him alot but, I could never love him. I dont think i could love anyone else. I have tried so hard to get over my ex, to fall in love with my new boyfried, but i just cant. I cant take it. Im dieing. NO matter how happy i may spend the day at night it all comes down to thoughts of him. Its like im happy with my new boyfriend but theres something missing. I feel so incomplette without my ex. I need him, i really do. But he can have who ever he wants, why would he waste his time on me. I'm probably just not worth it. I'll never be happy. Please don't think I'm some emo girl I really do try to be happy. I work hard in school, I go out all the time, Im nice to everyone. But then when im alone i cry. I usually cry myself to sleep, or pray and pray to feel better until i just knock out. I cant live like this anymore. Please guys I know this was long. But please help I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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It's almost like you're trying to make yourself not like him, or even hate him. but the more you think aobut it you like him more, it seems?
give it time, he shouldnt be the number one thing on your mind, when youre 1 in a lot in his.
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