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Am I weird?
I don't liek anyone in my school like for a boyfriend or anything and I don't feel anyway towards them. Like, I'll say a guy is hot if they look it, but I don't have feelins towards anyone and I'm pretty sure that no boy likes me either. I've never been asked out and I have no desire to ask anyone out. I want a boyfriend really bad because I like the companionship, but it's not happening for me. By the was, I'm only 14 and a freshman if that's gives you a better picture. Thanxxx. =)
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Nope, its not weird at all. i do that
except i like guys at one point, and then i dont
so it may just be mood changes. they can last a long time or a short time..((well for me a very lloongg time))like up to months.
anywyas hope i helped<<3333
p.s. you may not have any interest in them now, but you probably will later, and once in comes into effect the guys will probably start likin you to.
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I know exactly how you feel because when i am single i feel the same way. I love the feeling of just knowing I have a boyfriend. But I learned from previous relationships is that you shouldnt jump into a relationship with the first person you like. Be patient, wait for a guy who you really like, who really likes you and the relationship should work out good for you. HOPE I HELPED !!! *L0CACiiTA
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DOnt worry, im not going to tell you that you are too young, or that your weird. Because your not. SO, I really hope you take my advice. What i understand is that you want a boyfreind for teh security and the companionship. It sounds like you need a guy best freind. They are best kind of companion. If they are your best friend you dont have to worry about the pressures of having a boyfriend, and their companionship is pricelss, and they stick up for you. I have one, and even though I am talkin to another guy. My best freind is one of the best things that happened to me, and no feelings like that are requried. So, one of your freinds, in teh absence of your likey feelings, work on building and strengthing your guy freind relationship.
I really hoped you helped
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Nah, you're not weird.
Fourteen is still pretty young. There's no reason why you should feel rushed at this point to start dating anyone. You have four years of high school and then however long you want after that to enjoy the dating scene. If you get to be 25 and you still haven't gone out on a date, then you should probably start worrying.
As far as whether the boys like you, you won't necessarily know about it. Boys, you see, are stupid (I know this from experience, having once been young and stupid myself). They won't just come out and say how they feel about you. If they like you a little, it might not outweigh their natural reluctance to reveal their feelings; and if they REALLY like you, then they'll probably assume everyone else does too so they don't have a chance. Perhaps you're not anyone's secret crush object, but I can virtually guarantee you that there are boys out there comparing notes on all the girls they know, and your name may be coming up favorably more often than you think.
You say you don't have feelings toward anyone. Who says you have to? Dating isn't reserved for those who are madly in love from moment one; you're allowed to go on a date with someone who you just think might be fun to hang out with. Sometimes feelings grow over time.
For the next couple of years, don't sweat it. Be visible, take part in activities where you can meet guys, let your friends know that you're available so they can pass the word on, that sort of thing. And if all else fails, this ain't the Victorian age; you're allowed to take the initiative, and ask the boys out (there's usually a school event specifically for that purpose, called the "Sadie Hawkins" dance).
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Nope. You're not weird. You're just not ready. The time will come. It's normal.
Sabine
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