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lose a crush
how do you lose a crush? im a 13 year old girl and i cant stop liking some guy! well, hes cute and nice and all, and sometimes i remind myself of their flaws if they really have any, but it doesnt help. infact, ive never really stopped liking my crushes.. when i was younger, from like first grade to 3rd, crushes were basically meaningless. then from 4th grade on, like my main crush in 4th, 5th, and 6th, if i saw them, i'd still kinda have a crush on them.. and now i like 2 guys, but i dunno who i like better, either............... gosh middle school is hard. and like whenever i hear love songs and stuff i always think of the guys i like! lol
my friend kinda has the same problem. well for her, she thinks of this guy ALL THE TIME. and she cant get him outta her head. i dunno what advice to give her.. i mean, clearly he doesnt like her back, ever since the beginning, and i didnt tell her so it wouldnt be mean, but i kinda nudged at it, by like saying that she should focus on other things and not worry so much over him and such. and she overreacts over every little thing.. like he even asked her out on AIM and she was all jittery and excited.. when hes probably just joking, cause a guy's done that to me too, but it was a joke. but i guess i kinda see why she does that, but what can i do to help her move on? its hard.. shes liked him for like almost 2 years now, and she doesnt have alot of self confidence, and she thinks hes like amazing cause hes funny, nice, popular, and plays football. she doesnt even try to get him to notice her. like she keeps stalking him on myspace! seriously! she saves his pics, and even got his phone # without the guy knowing. but she wont call him, either, or post on his myspace. in my opinion, if she wont even try, then she probably doesnt want it bad enough. so like.. yea.
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okay, this might not help a lot, and if it doenst; please dont rate.
anyways when i have my crushes im the same, its all i think about. i can go for the longest time liking him and as much as i dont wanna like him, I CANT HELP IT!
*but* if you like someone, you just cant forget about them as much as you try becuase the more you think about him, the more you grow to like him -more-, trust me just give it time even though it may not be what you want to hear.
-when you give it time, youll lose interest ;)
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Heya well for you just lik people and you cant help who u like n if you have liked them for a long time then you will still have feelings for them a while after. You should try and focus on how goreous they are and try and not notice the flaws in the guys you like. Everytime you think of a flaw think of a possitive and then think of how happy ull probs be if you were together!! i find it helps alot!!
As for you friend you should try and persuade her to make him notice her, like leave him a message on myspace. Try and get her to understand that if she doesnt do anything then it will not ever happen. If she refuses then try and attract her attention to other guys who she is closer to. A guy is only amazing if your close to him and he is al of them things and is amazing in your eyes! Try and convince her to either move on or find another guy cos there is plenty of them out there!! I hope this helps. If you need anything else that ive not answerd or helped with just ask!! Good luck! xox Porsche
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