Hi! i'm Jodie and i just want to help all you peeps out there who are having problems! If i can help i will. I'M RATED HIGH!!
Gender: Female
Location: England
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Age: 14
Member Since: January 19, 2005
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I have a freind. The other day we went over to her house and it was scarry i didn't know that her brother was the guy i had been hanging out with before i met her. How do i tell her that i know who he is and ahe doesn't have to keep explainig him to me. Irate high!
-Haley (link)
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jus tell her. its not a big deal and shes a mate so she'll understand. if she takes it badly she is really over reacting!!!
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i like this guy and hes hott and we friends we talk alot and sit by each other he waits for me when i get out of classes but i mean we huged before and held hands but not to be
serious ...but im i don't if he is what should i do ?
should i ask him if he likes me or something i need som ideas or anthing (link)
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talk to him. dont miss a great chance like this. he obviously likes you! cus i got new guy friends who seriously hold my hand proppa. we hug but all mates do that. get a mate to ask him. get them 2 slip it into a converstaion, if he says yes you go and ask him because he'll probably more truthful to you espeically if he knows how you feel!
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Ok well i wanna pierce my belly button but my parents won't let me. So, i'm gonna do it myself. What are some good tips for piercing your belly button and wut type of needle do ya need...thnx a bunch (link)
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DON'T!!!!
Its a really stupid thing to do! it can go really bad and will look totally yuck if it does! AND your mom WILL find out bcus moms always do! Persuade your mom or dad if possible and if you dont do that at least find a expert to do it 4 u!
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OK me and my mom always teld to get in arguments and stuff! and she has always drinked and stuff even b 4 i was born!when ever she gets drunk and stuff shes always a bitch! and one time i hit her and i felt really bad! and she still drinks and me and my dad dont know what to do! he always calls the cops on her and stuff and says hes gonna make her move out but he never does! she is still living here! most kids wouldnt want their parents to get divorced! but im praying every night that thaey do! i dont realy care! and im having problems at skool and no 1 likes me! and when i say no 1 i mean no 1! i have like 4 friends @ my whole skool! and ppl always want to fight me! i have alot of drama in my life and i dont know what 2 do! i hate break ups and bad stuff ALWAYS comes 2 me! my friends turn against me and so do my bfs! and soo are my parents! my dad always yells @ me! and he drinks 2! just not as much as my mom! somtimes i really think about not living! like runnin away or whatever! should i! i cry everynight! yesterday i didnt go to skool cause i was cryin cause i hate my skool! and my parents wont transfer me and they dont never do anything about my problems! what should i do i need really bad help! i rate 5s! IM me on AIM southpolehunny14 to talk! THANX!! KAYLA!! (link)
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Have you got a close grandparent on your dads side? if you have talk to them about what is happening so they can speak to your dad about leaving your mom. or if u want u can sit down with your mom and talk to her but it doesn't sound like you have a very good mother/daughter relationship with her!
As long as you will be happy with your dad thats everything but your dad probably really loves your mom still no matter what they've been through. threatening to leave her is probably a more dramatic way of saying 'Buck your ideas up'. men always take a long time to get things done!
School advice on next message!!!
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My friend has manic depression and I was wondering if any one like knew anything about it or like has it and can talk to me about it because i would like to learn more . (link)
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my m8 has depression bcus of skwl nd all the work nd all that! theres nt much u can do but support her all the way. Do you know what the problem is? if yes try and advice her, if no speak 2 her bcus she probz needs sum1 to speak 2 rite now thats nt patronising her.
She'll jus want support. message me mor info!! so i can advice u betta. Gd luk!
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okay so who knows of a good pill to clear up your face..i'm talking mild breakouts that are always there..nothing horribly severe but they dont go away. (link)
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jus cleanse, tone and moisturise every morning and evening and it will make your pores cleaner. it will stop a build up of muck which causes these break outs. invest in a face sauna, there well good and they really clean ur face. Giv it a try and if it works send me a message. Gd luk!
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Well...my sister told me about this one younger kid who she thought was so adorable. He's a little chunky but I dont care cause when I seen him I thought he was so cute!!lol He went past me and just looked at me! Thats It
! I cant expect him to do or say anything but i dont know...how do i get him to notice me without going around the skool looking like a whore...please help (link)
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Age difference!
If hes loads younger then forget him but if not go 4 it girl! he might b overcome or mayb neva had a gf b4 but dont taking it personally (Gessin hes quite young!???) who cares about age anywayz as long as you love each other.
get your sis 2 invite him and a few of her m8s over and then intrude into their get togevva. just do a bit of flirting and you'll b togevva by the end of the night!
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There's this guy that I have a little crush on. He's nice and all and fairly good looking but the problem is he's about an inch and a half shorter than me. I stand quite a good chance with him but I keep worrying about the height thing because I used to go out with someone shorter than me and it was annoying. Should I just forget the height issue and go out with him or leave it? It's not even a major crush, just a small one and I could get over it if I wanted to. (link)
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The question is: DO YOU WANT TO GET OVER IT?
if i was you i'd give him a try but you really need to follow your heart in these situations. just think... he'll grow! if you love him a few months of bending down to kiss him wont really matter! Gd luk nd rememba 2 tell me if u get him and whetha it works out!
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i'm a freshman in high school.. 14 years old, and i'm dating a sophomore. all these girls my b/f hangs out with don't like me. today, these two girls - anna and liz were talking to my ex boyfriend, corbin about me and ryne. anna asked corbin if me and my b/f had sex.. (its not true).. liz said no, corbin said no, and anna didn't believe them. anna hates me w/ a passion by the way.. but yeah.. she's going to go around telling evryone a stupid rumor, and my b/f already bitched her out and went to the dean and told him. but what can i do to make this rumor go away or stop? or how can i stop them from ruining my reputation? i have a good rep right now and i don't want it ruined.. plz help! i'll rate all 5's for an effort. (link)
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Well...ur acents well kwl. lol. (I'm from England) and i'm so glad u put ages on cus i hav no idea what freshman and all them are.
There isnt really much you can do to stop bitches like that spreading rumours (its wot they base their lifes on). people will soon get sick of them bcus no1 likes a shit stirrer! if people know you properly they will know you arent that type of girl. dont let them girls take over your life. your happy wit ur bf and your happiness is all dat matters!
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My mom is so thickheaded. Once she has something in her mind, she sticks to it. There is absolutely nothing that can change her mind. It gets to the point where I start hating her. Please give me a solution or something to maybe help stop her thickheadedness!!! (link)
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Thats just how moms are. if its really getting you down just ask her if u can have a chat and tell her u dont like the was shes actin! Gd luk hunni!
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Hey guys, our Sadie Hawkin's dance is coming up, and I want a creative way to ask my guy. We're dating, and I don't really have to ask him, I just kinda want to. Lol. Some ideas have been:
Balloons
Puzzle
Cake (but that won't work because I can't bake...)
Um...I think that's all my friends have thought of. If you guys think one of these ideas is great, tell me, and lemme know if you have any other ideas! Thanks =) (link)
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get a pizza and write da question out in smarties or m+m'z. (From princess diaries!)
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Hi, I'm a 17 year old fmale and I'm trying to lose weight. I'm not overweight officially, I'm a size 12 (UK), but I do look really chunky next to my friends who are all like size 8/10. I've been dieting really hard for a fortnight and I walk 2 miles once and sometimes twice a day and do sit-ups every day but it's not working at all! I don't feel any better, no-one has commented and my clothes all fit the same. If it's really not having any effect then should I stick at it or try something more drastic? It's just I'm hungry all the time as it is and I'm always going faint or dizzy between meals so I'm not sure I'm eating enough anyway. Help me!! xxx (link)
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Try the cornflakes diet. i did it and it really works. jus eat speical k or crunchy nut for breakfast and dinner for two weeks. (no snacks) but normal tea! Gd luk nd tell me if it works!!!
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hey! i really need to lose weight b4 spring. i am 13/f and i weigh about 95 pounds. i know this isnt like overweight, but all my friends weigh 80 pounds. whenever we go shopping, i feel like a freak. does anyone know any good tips to quicly losing weight? Thanx! (link)
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Try the cornflakes diet. i did it and it really works. jus eat speical k or crunchy nut for breakfast and dinner for two weeks. (no snacks) but normal tea! Gd luk nd tell me if it works!!!
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15 (link)
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u need a big reality check. the most important thing to do is stick by your gf and tell your parents. they may be annoyed but then they'll chill and they'll want to help you. GD LUK. bet you'll b a gr8 daddy!
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I always study for test really hard. But all the time when I get the test back I made an F. I just get nervios and mess up. How can I get over it? I dont want to study all the time like I do and all I get is an F. It will really help me if yall tell me how to get over the freakking out on the test.THanks
I rate high (4&5)
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Make sure you are revising the right things and if your not sure what to revise ask your teacher. if this problem continues you need to speak to your teacher anyway because its important to do well if you want anything from life!! (or money.. LOL) GD LUK!
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**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**
There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin' (link)
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Well go to the cinema, flirt a bit and see if he makes a move on you. take it slow because boys dont like being rushed. i'd understand if you were like really good mates bt it seems like ur just bus pals. GD luk and tell me how you get on!!!
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What i wonder is why.....i do everything i am asked to do, if i do one thing remotely wrong, im bitched at for several days. Why does she single me out....It cant be because im the oldest, my brother doesn't do anything and he is such a little pecker....So what the hell did i do to piss her off....NOTHING. But i still get bitched at, why do you think this is....its really pissing me off (link)
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ur moms probably just stressed and she probably needs to let out sometimes. ur a girl so she probably feels that you will just listen to her problem like she would for you. explain to her that its getting you down but say that she can have bitchin sessions with you occasionally. me and my mom hav times wen we both hav a little moan about things to each other. if you need anymore help just say!
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yes...its me again!ok here we go,me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and i just came back to school w/him and...i think i might want to breakup with him...but im not shurr!my friends say no bc they know that i love him and that i will go out with some guy that i think is hott and then just go running back to my current boyfriend bc no1 eles can make me feel the way he does...and i need some space! or just time to figure myself out but i dont want to do that to him..he is my bestfriend and he is my everything and im scared that if i tell him i need some space or time that he might do something "stupid"...and i dont know what i would do if it broke his heart and he stoped talking to me...i ahve always treated him bad by breaking up with him for no reason...and he loves me anyway! he is head over heals inlove with me and i am with him...but i just came back to my old school and i am trying to turn my life around and i just need time to figure it out...and i cant just tell him that i dont think he would understand...idk..please give anyinfo you can or advice...lataz
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Jus giv it time but u sound like like you need a party or a good night out. Do have discos or foam partys locally bc seeing other lads could really help you. Tell him you still really like him but you need some space for the time being!
GD LUK!!!
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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something.. (link)
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Dont cry because no ones worth your tears. Whats mor important a guy you'll b into 4 a few months or friends you have and will know 4 years!? Ask your friends if it would be better if you seperated from him. Its probab;y jealousy thats making them like this but they probably dont know how selfish their being to you. i bet if you told them they would stop it and be happy with you but make sure you do what you want. they probably aint really that gd of m8z if they cant let it settle and be happy 4 u. GD LUK BABE!
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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do.. (link)
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forget her! who needs enemies when you've got friends like that. if you cant just leave her and go nd hang arounds with sum new peeps then you can speak two her. But if she spoke behind ur back once she can do it again!
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