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I Love Him....But I Think I Need A Brake!
yes...its me again!ok here we go,me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and i just came back to school w/him and...i think i might want to breakup with him...but im not shurr!my friends say no bc they know that i love him and that i will go out with some guy that i think is hott and then just go running back to my current boyfriend bc no1 eles can make me feel the way he does...and i need some space! or just time to figure myself out but i dont want to do that to him..he is my bestfriend and he is my everything and im scared that if i tell him i need some space or time that he might do something "stupid"...and i dont know what i would do if it broke his heart and he stoped talking to me...i ahve always treated him bad by breaking up with him for no reason...and he loves me anyway! he is head over heals inlove with me and i am with him...but i just came back to my old school and i am trying to turn my life around and i just need time to figure it out...and i cant just tell him that i dont think he would understand...idk..please give anyinfo you can or advice...lataz
<3 Tony
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Hi,
You say you keep breaking up with this guy - why? If you two keep splitting up, then there must be something wrong with the relationship. Are you sure that you're not just with him because he loves you, and you're scared that you won't find that with anyone else?
You've gotta ask yourself what you really, really truly want out of a relationship, and if this guy can give it you. If the answer is no, then break it off. He WILL get over it - people do, honestly. It sounds extremely harsh, but it's true.
For now, don't break up with him - stay with him, but take a week to figure out what's going on in your head. If, by that time, you're still not sure, then take a break - but warn him that it might not be temporary. If you're not happy with this guy, then get out of the relationship.
Just remember that, if you do break up with him and go out with a 'hott' guy, don't go running back to him. It's not fair on him or you, and there are other people out there who will love you. Good luck :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Jus giv it time but u sound like like you need a party or a good night out. Do have discos or foam partys locally bc seeing other lads could really help you. Tell him you still really like him but you need some space for the time being!
GD LUK!!!
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