Gender: Female
Location: crockett
Age: 13
Member Since: February 18, 2007
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Last Update: June 6, 2007
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this really isn't a confusing drama story, it's just long. please read!
alright here it goes. i've been hooking up with this guy for about a month, and a few weeks ago he asked me out and i said yes. i immediately regretted it. i don't know why, maybe i'm afraid of commitment (probably not because i'm only 15) but i feel like i'm using him for experience. don't get me wrong, i do like him, just sometimes i get so many doubts about him that i get this sinking feeling, feeling like i did the wrong thing by going out with him, like i'm in too deep now to get out of it. the main problem is that i feel like i'm using him for experience and i feel like sometimes i have to force myself to like him, when other times i truly do like him and i feel like i would never break up with him. what do i do?? should i wait it out a little longer, just till the end of the school year? i change my mind so much about him that i feel like i'm gonna make the wrong decision by breaking up with him if i do..and he's been hurt so much in the past that i don't want to be his next girlfriend to hurt him. please help :( (link)
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your not using him your going with the flow your not going to hurt him if you do the carma thing treat him how you want to be treated you know and just talk to him more youll see if you like him because some fall slower than others and you dont need to commit at all as long as your doing that karma thing so just give him a chance
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ok so i really want to loose weight. im nto that fat. but im chubby. but i suck in my stomach.. so i look fat. people say thats good this way it builds up stomach muscle but i dont know. its jsut a habit now i automatically suck in but not when im sitting. only when im standing or walking. well im 14/f and i weigh 120 pounds and are about 5 foot 4 i guess. aroudn there. ok you guys wil lsyaim the perfect weight its good. but i have a st omach. and i want to loose it. so dont say you dont need to. well what do i have to do? i dont go running but im going to try? so probably since i have school i might go on saturdays or sundays. in the summer i will run more. or try too. but what foods should i eat or avoid? and what are some snacks that are good for you? that liek arnt only fruit? liek ome junk food that arent bad for you? liek is chex mix good or? and when i get bored. i eat. so what can i do? thanksss soo much. sorry this is long. my schedule is basically school then friends then home. i do a sport but thats not that much exercise its colorguard. and thats from august to like thanksgiving. so then im good at maintaing my weight. but now i cant. and ifeel soo fat around my friends becuase there so skinny. and i want to loose wieght. thanks. (link)
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ok im 5'5 145 and thats avredge for my height i use to want to losse weight till one day my life almost ended it was crazy [an acadental overdose] and i started to relize life is too short to criticize yourself when you have people for that so just love yourself and the pounds will shed because i use to have an eating disorder because of critisism on myself and by others but after that experince i started to eat a meal a day and i lost 15 pounds because i started off 160 and 5'4 so thats all i got to say
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This is going to be long but im going to try to make it short:
Ok this year i lost about FIVE "bestfriends" they all screwed me over and like i feel so upset and sad that like i treat them so equally and i would beat up anyone for them and basically i would be there for them. When i thought they could be there for me one by one they start to screw me over its just making me really sad and depressed that like you can be BESTFRIENDS with someone for OVER 5 YEARS and some less and then they just screw you over. How is that? Should i start talking to each of them? or should i just let them live there own life and keep them out of mine??
ughh itsss so sad i hate thiss (link)
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i say move on for right now because freinds never fight but best freinds need time to fight fuss cheat hurt and then time to heal love and be there forever because me and mii freind fight all the time but now we've learnd how to deal mann right now were even going with the same dude and both cheating on him any other one of my freinds did that it would be a girl fight but with her i dont even care now but we dont fight because she taught me how not to feel pain and to stay strong thats why we have best freinds not plain and borin freinds
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Please someone help me.. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and 14 days today.. We have been doing really good lately.. But she is one of those girls who wants to talk to me CONSTANTLY and believe me i like it.. But sometimes it can be to much.. She gets mad at me when i want to go anywhere with my friends.. But the other day i told her she was to attached.. And i didnt mean it i was just mad because of how she kept getting mad.. But now i feel horrible because i have hurt her in the past.. And i love her more than anything in this world and i hate myself for hurting her.. Can someone please tell me how to appoligize to her and make it better. But dont say to tell her that i said it out of anger or to just appoligize because i have already tried it.. We used to fight alot because of how she would get mad.. But that is over with now.. And now she is scared to talk to me alot because she dont want to fight with me anymore.. And told her thats not the way to do it.. I know she loves me i can just tell she does. .But i dont know how to make things like they used to be.. Someone please help me.. (link)
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well the first thing you should do in a case like this is tell her you love her and always will and you dont want her to leave you and you never will leave her because shes afraid right now and i can tell shes just thinking on how to make the relationship better so you tell her you love her for always being there for you but you dont need her to be there for you every second because she runs through your mind all day. [gurls love how and when a boy says they misses them] and whatever you decide to do remember to remind her you love her
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I, 16/m, should probably tell you now I'm gay or you lose the entire premise of this. okay, so It was New Year's Eve and I called one of my friends (we'll call him Jake for further analysis.) Jake, 14/m, and we started talking. Jake's an eighth grader and I'm a high school sophmore. So I told him that I liked him on New Year's, thinking that he didnt like me back. Well, he did. So we dated for the next week and then I answered the phone and he told me, "your not gonna like this," and I mean, I got pretty scared. Well, then he said, "I gotta go, I'll ttyl," and then right before he hung up, he goes, "I'm straight."
So Im thinking okay, I need to talk to him and see if our friendship is still okay. So I call him back a day later and I told him I'd like to talk about it, and he says, "I dont have any thing else to say." and I got pissed and hung up.
Plus Jake's older brother is a Senior at my school and really popular in the theater dept. like I hope to be. So I got really scared that his brother might find out and just told a few of my friends.
Well, literally, two months passed without me seeing him, and then I went to my schools spring musical and he was there I talked to him during intermission and he still said he didnt know his sexuality. I told him that I thought I deserved an explanation. He said I did, but someone interupted us, and I never got one.
Right as we were going back to our seats I told him that I was over him and that I wanted him out of my life.
I cried through the entire second act, as I was driven home, as I went to sleep, and two days later.
I dont know what to do. I don't want to love him, and he doesnt deserve it, but I do. Please help me. What should I do?
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this boy is probly just scared like most of our 8th grade boys your too old and too sweet for this boy you diserve better so you wake up and smell the flowers because most boys are childish and no effence but gay young ones who just started out because they dont know what they want so dont sweat it just be you and walk away
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Ok so I'm 15 years old and I have a boyfriend and I love him so much...we'll I think. Sometimes he calls me dummy and stupid and then says that he really likes me. But its like he can't talk to me about personal stuff. I know he loves me but I want him to show it more how?. I love him so much but its hard sometimes to talk to him and show him my feelings. Sometimes I can't even say I love you?. Why and I do know I mean it. Also how do I get him to stop calling me stupid I know he loves me though. Oh and how to I get him to tell me his personal stuff and to let me in?.
Thanks lotsss! (link)
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well the boy only lets you in on his true filings when hes ready and feels he truly trusts you so you got to just give him time also when you dont say you love him it makes him feel like your backing off but youve probly just learned how to shut your heart down like most of us gurls and you just need time just like your boyfreind obviously you care enough to want to know so just give it time and talk to him more but dont lie to him and yourself by saying you do when you dont
and about the he calling you stupid he probly just means goofy and we goofy gurls are sexy gurls so just takem as they come
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Hey im 13 and a boy i really want to have sex
so much and alot of kids at school have hade sex already and i want to.wut do i do?
also with this how can i make sure nobody sees us if we do have sex?
where can i have sex?
helm plz im a beginer plz help (link)
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dont mess your life up thanx to hormoans it will hurt you in the long run doing what everybody eles do because once you lose your inacence you'll never get it back besides you need to have sex have it a little older were you can do it on your own property just dont do it till you think your ready for real and just not horney
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In school I sit next to this boy and he flirts with me all the time (and everyone says he likes me) and I never know how to act around him because I really like him too and I don't want him to think I don't like him because I act akward what do I do? (link)
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the best i can tell u is to ask him out and tell him why you've been so weird i think you like him and he likes you to yall are just afraid to ask each other out so be the first one to step up
good luck!!!
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really good advise, i would tell her but its just so hard. i think im gonna try to be sure that he likes me before i tell her though. do you think i should talk to him and then her or backwards. or maybe i should do something else. i dont know. you tell me.
thanx
oh thats cool ur name is Jennifer too =) haha (link)
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well like i said its always best to ask the best freind first because if you dont the best freind would think betrail hurt pain then talk to the boy then things will work out
and i kno the whole jennifer thing is crazy
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I feel like I am loosing one of my best friends. We only see eachother in school... we are in two classes together and we hardly talk cause she is talking to her other friends. I feel like I don't know all of these things about her. Like i found out through a friend that she hooked up with someone last night for the first time. She didn't even tell me. I am really upset about this. What should I do? (link)
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well this is just something we all go through give it time things will level out you just miss your freind alot you and her just need time apart everyone dose
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There's this boy, James, who is my great friend. I'm in love with him, but I don't think he knows. I know that my friend Joy likes him, and I think that he likes Joy. I've been really upset about it, and I just want whats best for him, but still. But I've decided that I just need to ask him if he likes her or not before i go on crying about it. What would be a good way to go about doing that?
sometimes its hard to get him alone, if he's not, how should i get him alone and where should we go? what should i say?
i really wish that he wouldn't go out with her, but if he's going to be happiest without me, then that's what i want for him. (link)
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well ur in a big mess if you ask me but write him a letter ask him dose he like you or your freind and tell him you like him but you wont cry if he says no [if you do i got your back] and just stay strong but mann iwanna follow up on this bbecause i know some stuff is going to happin that youll have questions so dont be afraid to ask peace!!!
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Ug so I like my ex still but only a LITTLE. I'm the one that broke up with him. And me and him stayed pretty good ffriends then I flipped on him on myspace becauase he like stopped talkin to me. But he told me he did it because he still likes me alot and I didnt know that and now i feel bad because I dont know what to do :[ (link)
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well to tell you the truth i think you should look at it in his point and decide would you rather be lied to and hear the other wants to get back together or tha truth you just want to be freinds decied and put into action
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ok well me and this girl used to be really good friends!! the last year in 7th gr ( im in 8th now and 14) she spread a rumor about me and started stuff between me and alot of my friends! so i decided not to hang with her anymore!!! we've had a lot of fights after that too and we've been very close to fighting 4 real!!!! but now i kind of over it and at a party the other night she invited me to a barbque of hers next month! I donbt know if i should forgive her or what to do ??!?!?!?!!! please HELP!!!! (link)
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well forgive and forget because you need to fight to get your fillings out the more we fight the more learn so just think nothing to extream happend yet
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OK prepare yourself this is gonna be long....
is it wrong of me to like a guy that i told everyone i was over when a friend-stacy- of mine also likes him? he doesnt like anyone or so that is what he said. he doesnt know i still like him. hes my best guy friend and stacy hangs out with us and a big group of friends.
so....i liked him before and stacy knew about it. he always flirted with me but then he broke my heart when he said that he didnt like anyone. so i got over him. then stacy revealed that she likes him. that was two weeks ago. slowly i started forgeting that i was supposed to be over him already and started liking him again. but i dont know if i should.
he flirts with me too much right in front of her and all of our friends. he will hug me and lean on me when she is right there! and its like he doesnt care about her feelings. he says he loves me, in a playful way though. its not like a confession of love or anything like that. i think he even tried to kiss me once but i pushed him away. im not sure if he was just playing around or actually trying to kiss me.
Stacy asked me two weeks ago whether i still liked him. i told her "no. i promise i dont" but i do. and i cant tell her. whenever he gets really close to me and hugs me our friends try to take his attention away from me because they are trying to protect stacy from getting hurt.
i feel evil. he said before he doesnt want a gf because they are annoying and clingy. but i cant help feeling like i am hurting my friend. but i like it when he huggs me. he really cares about me but im not sure of what to do. i dont wanna tell him i like him again because last time that didnt go so well. he broke my heart. and i cant tell her. i have no idea wat to do.
thanx,
Jennnifer f/14 (link)
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well to tell u the truth i think you should be with him but he dosent think so and the best way to rip off a band aid is to do it fast and quick so im basicly sayin tell your freind if shes your best shell understand trust me she would rather hear it first from you then somewhere around the street that you like him you just dont want to be with him and hey theres nothing wrong with just looking its probly best but if you have anymore questions or just more advise dont be afraid to ask
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my boyfriend and i always talking about doing all this sexual stuff and most of the time it never happens. sometimes its because i just change my mind right before it happens. its like when im with him i get nervous or shy or something i dont know.. but ive been going out with him for 8 months so i dont think this should happen. is it normal? and then sometimes he doesnt do the stuff he says he will but thats because hes just shy. is there any way i can show him that i really want to do that stuff with him? (link)
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mann it looks more like an emotinal problem thanhormonal and for the first time i agree with
TiNA_DUH i think u should wait and see if its rite i think u just want to have sex because hes puting it in your mind
but when you say sexual stuff just to make sure were on the same page u talking about fingering and that kind of stuff your nervous give it time itll come to yall
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im not in love with him so ok??? there is this boy ok and i asked him if he likes me and he said no but he always acts like he does he looks at me all the time in class and when im alone he comes and talks with me and the other day he moved alittle closer to me while we were alone it was sooooo dreamy but if he doesn't like me why is he doing all this stuff to me???? (link)
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unfortunaly he dose like you hes just a cowerd but the best way to deal with those is just to walk away because its eather that or he has no intrest at all and im here to tell you hes no good eather way it is
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ok well heres the thing i think my boyfriend is cheating on my but im not 100% sure. we've been going out for almost 11 months and like last month he said he thinks that im the one. Like im the only girl he thinks hes actually been IN LOVE with. but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause i heard he was going to but then he got reallyy mad at me and we talked after shcool and he said he wasn't going he was just having a bad day and was thinking about it. so we got back together and ever sense then he has been like kind of mean to me. like now it doesn't even seem like he likes me that much. and on his myspace he has been talking to this girl named taylor and then during art yesturday he was talking to his friend zach and was just like yeahh i talked to taylor for like 3 hours last night but he whispered it and didn't think i could hear him and i was like you talked to taylor for 3 hours? and he smiled and was like uh no. then i got mad and hes like im just kdiding! and said he just talking to his friend jeremy and mike. but he invited her to this concert thing friday and he wanted me to go too but he invited her first, and he goes to a different school but please tell me if there are ways i can tell if he would be cheating on me! HELP PLEASE!!! thanks! (link)
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ok so hes in another scholl? anyways you need to tell him get your act right or walk because you dont need that in your life obviously if he loved you he wouldnt act up like that i know it hurts i had 1 that did me like that but i didnt break up with him and now i wish i did instead of wasteing my time but dont just break up with him just tell him you dont like him taking things and his fustration on him some boys do that and dont kno there doing it if you need anymore help or advice dont be afaid to ask o yea my myspace email adress is j_lo@msn.com if you have 1 dont b afraid to add me
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Sometimes I want to tell my boyfriend that he looks good.... but how do I say it?
The thing is, I don't want to say GOOD or beautiful. :/
I only know of cute. I joke around with pretty.
I comment about his eyes a lot.. But the 'cute' thing gets old.
Or does it not?
*Your opinion?* (link)
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*god u look sexy today
*i have to see an angle everyday and im gladd it you
*and sometimes you dont have to say it you can tell him by the way you look @ him
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ok since my last few questions i finaly made up my mind about who i should ask out, but this girl shes realy quiet and the only times i could ak her is going to my home room or PE so my problem is how should i go up toher and ask her? (link)
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a leter is always good give it to her saying you like her and tell her to meet you somewere after school to talk only and nothin else a gurl loves to here a boy dosnt always have sex on the mind
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(22, F)- I've been going out with a guy for a little over a month now. I feel comfortable enough letting him lick/touch my breasts. But that's as far as I want to take things at this point. The other day I let him go 2nd base, and of course we were both worked up and 'in the moment.' I know that we'll both want to take things further, but I'm not comfortable enough to let that happen just yet.
I'd like to hear from guys/girls: what kind of torture is it for a guy to have a girl who will only go 2nd base for a while? I mean, I can imagine what's going on in his mind, wondering,"when is it going to happen?"
Again, I'm content with the level we're at, but guys I think can be different in that sense (not that I don't want certain things.. I want to know him a little more).
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o my god i admire you for your choices i am so gladd to hear some one is thinking and i think you should want to get to know him before you you know him and thanxs for being another hero and if he dosnt stand on the groung you do i thank its time to let him go
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