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is it wrong


Question Posted Sunday March 25 2007, 4:46 pm

OK prepare yourself this is gonna be long....

is it wrong of me to like a guy that i told everyone i was over when a friend-stacy- of mine also likes him? he doesnt like anyone or so that is what he said. he doesnt know i still like him. hes my best guy friend and stacy hangs out with us and a big group of friends.

so....i liked him before and stacy knew about it. he always flirted with me but then he broke my heart when he said that he didnt like anyone. so i got over him. then stacy revealed that she likes him. that was two weeks ago. slowly i started forgeting that i was supposed to be over him already and started liking him again. but i dont know if i should.

he flirts with me too much right in front of her and all of our friends. he will hug me and lean on me when she is right there! and its like he doesnt care about her feelings. he says he loves me, in a playful way though. its not like a confession of love or anything like that. i think he even tried to kiss me once but i pushed him away. im not sure if he was just playing around or actually trying to kiss me.

Stacy asked me two weeks ago whether i still liked him. i told her "no. i promise i dont" but i do. and i cant tell her. whenever he gets really close to me and hugs me our friends try to take his attention away from me because they are trying to protect stacy from getting hurt.

i feel evil. he said before he doesnt want a gf because they are annoying and clingy. but i cant help feeling like i am hurting my friend. but i like it when he huggs me. he really cares about me but im not sure of what to do. i dont wanna tell him i like him again because last time that didnt go so well. he broke my heart. and i cant tell her. i have no idea wat to do.

thanx,
Jennnifer f/14


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jenniferp answered Sunday March 25 2007, 6:04 pm:
well to tell u the truth i think you should be with him but he dosent think so and the best way to rip off a band aid is to do it fast and quick so im basicly sayin tell your freind if shes your best shell understand trust me she would rather hear it first from you then somewhere around the street that you like him you just dont want to be with him and hey theres nothing wrong with just looking its probly best but if you have anymore questions or just more advise dont be afraid to ask

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