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loosing a friend
I feel like I am loosing one of my best friends. We only see eachother in school... we are in two classes together and we hardly talk cause she is talking to her other friends. I feel like I don't know all of these things about her. Like i found out through a friend that she hooked up with someone last night for the first time. She didn't even tell me. I am really upset about this. What should I do?
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Hey. You could try to hangout with her, like outside of school. You could also start trying to be more friendly towards her other friends, maybe that way you could hang out with her while she's with them without being a "third wheel."
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
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i feel ya girl. my good friend caroline and i hardly ever hang out anymore. but my best friends name is brandi, and we are inseperable. as long as you have one good friend it's okay =]. but anways, if she's really your best friend then call and ask if she wants to hang out and see if she wants to catch up and talk and stuff. if she doesn't then that's not very friendly of her. i'm actually going to start doing this w/ my friend because we really need to catch up. ask to go out or see a movie or something. just hang out with her for a while. then y'all will have some stuff to talk about at school. good luck =].
xo cHaSsi3
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one day, invite her over so you can talk things out. tell her how it makes you feel when she leaves you out of her conversations with her other friends, and how you feel when she doesn't bother telling you about things best friends tell each other about, like how she didn't tell you about her hook up. try to make plans with her more often. friendship is important, don't let a good one fade away. good luck!
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well this is just something we all go through give it time things will level out you just miss your freind alot you and her just need time apart everyone dose
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i had the same thing happen to me..
like the SAME thing..
i talked to her about..
told her i felt left out. and it hurt.. cause i would sit with her at lunch, and not even be talked too. i know it sucks. i told her about it. she tryed to blam it on me, but it didnt work. i dont know if your friend is like that, but just dont let her blam it on you. me and my friend arent friends anymore.. i got sick of it all. im better of now, happier, honestly. i dont have to worry about her. it sucks, but just try talking to her, and if it doesnt work, well break things off... sorry, but its what you have to do. but if she understands, then wonderful!.. hope i helped<3
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