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asking him 14/f
There's this boy, James, who is my great friend. I'm in love with him, but I don't think he knows. I know that my friend Joy likes him, and I think that he likes Joy. I've been really upset about it, and I just want whats best for him, but still. But I've decided that I just need to ask him if he likes her or not before i go on crying about it. What would be a good way to go about doing that?
sometimes its hard to get him alone, if he's not, how should i get him alone and where should we go? what should i say?
i really wish that he wouldn't go out with her, but if he's going to be happiest without me, then that's what i want for him.
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You should just outright ask him if he likes her. I highly doubt he would read anything into it, meaning that he won't know you are needling him for information. Just say "I'm just wondering what your feelings are about Joy" or something to that effect.
But let me give you a nickels' worth of free advice: As a rule, the best way to lose a friend is to date them. When you break up, you are likely to never feel the same about one another again.
I speak from experience. That is how I lost my best friend. We are still friends, but we are more along the lines of the acquaintance type of friend than real friends. ]
well ur in a big mess if you ask me but write him a letter ask him dose he like you or your freind and tell him you like him but you wont cry if he says no [if you do i got your back] and just stay strong but mann iwanna follow up on this bbecause i know some stuff is going to happin that youll have questions so dont be afraid to ask peace!!! ]
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