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shy.
my boyfriend and i always talking about doing all this sexual stuff and most of the time it never happens. sometimes its because i just change my mind right before it happens. its like when im with him i get nervous or shy or something i dont know.. but ive been going out with him for 8 months so i dont think this should happen. is it normal? and then sometimes he doesnt do the stuff he says he will but thats because hes just shy. is there any way i can show him that i really want to do that stuff with him?
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mann it looks more like an emotinal problem thanhormonal and for the first time i agree with
TiNA_DUH i think u should wait and see if its rite i think u just want to have sex because hes puting it in your mind
but when you say sexual stuff just to make sure were on the same page u talking about fingering and that kind of stuff your nervous give it time itll come to yall
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It's normal to have second guessing when it comes to sex. But when you're shy, or nervous, you're not as ready as you think.
I would put sex off for another few months or whatever until you're completely ready. You should have no doubts about it when you go through w. it.
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If you feel shy, then you should wait till you feel comfortable before you take things further. Maybe some things are new to you and you don't know what to expect...but anyway, it's best to just let things happen, and of course to be safe.
If you are with him and want to take things further, a good way is to just take charge and show him what you want him to do. You don't even have to say anything; actions speak for themselves. You might want to just take his hand and lead it to wherever you want.. then he'll understand, and chances are that if he sees you're comfortable, he'll open up too. Or if you want, talk to him about it and let him know that you want to do other things with him. If you both communicate your feelings about it, you'll know what you want from each other and you can take it from there.
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