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Hey, my name is Gabby. I'm your average teenage girl. I would say that I really am good at giving advice, considering I do it a lot. I'm open to any kinds of problems or situations, so if you need advice, just try me. =]
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OK, I am a little interested in this guy. Yes, we are both married, but, I am not saying I want to build a relationship or anything like that. I am just curious. We talk a lot when we're altogether, he picks on me, makes sexual comments sometimes and I always catch him staring at me. Does he like me or is it just "friendly flirting?"
Also, what are other signs guys give off when they like you. Thanx in advance. I rate 5's for real answers.
Hmm, well it sounds like he's friendly flirting to me. Many guys just flirt casually with girls, because it's just what they do. Since he's married, I don't think it's anything huge if he does like you, unless he's sincerely unhappy with his marraige. If he IS unhappy, then yes, he probably likes you. I really hope this helps you!
hey people!
I recently met this amazing spanish dude, and he keeps sending me spanish love notes, which is really cute!!
Yeah, it means, "I who I want so much to you, that I am going to do". I think he meant that, I want you (or love you) so much, but what am I going to do? Maybe they had a problem or something, but that's what I think it means.
where can i get a really cute layout. thats really simple. like a "skinny layout".
There are ALOT of places where you can get skinny layouts. Try http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=62758558 . She has really cute ones. Once you go to hers, ask to be her friend. When she accepts, look at her layouts. Under her Affiliates List, you can find many more places as well. Hope this helps!
I want to make my image just a little more punkish/skater, but I don`t know of any places where people get band tees, and things like that. Does anyone know of any?
Well, Hot Topic is ALL about the music. Many band tees there. Pacific Sunwear has a lot of skater brands, too. Here are their links:
www.hottopic.com
www.pacificsunwear.com
Good luck!
Is it wrong that I never tell my "best friends" anything anymore?
Whenever I do tell them something, they end up telling their other really good friend who tells someone else, who then tells other people and the next thing I know, I'm walking into Best Buy and the guy at the register asks me about what I did with who at what party a few weekends ago. True story..that really did happen. Kinda funny but I was pissed as a mofo.
Now that I don't talk to them about anything serious, they get all mad. But why should I tell them things when the rest of the world is just going to find out about it?
I don't want to loose them as friends because they're still fun and everything so I just figured okay, I'll still hang out with them but not tell them anything that I would rather keep between us. But, turns out that they don't like that.
What should I do? Just ditch them?
No, you should tell them how you feel. If you like your friends, you don't want to leave them. Good ones are hard to find. Well, I think that you should tell them what happens/ed, and why you don't tell secrets anymore. If they aren't cool with that, and they say things like "We swear we won't tell anybody!", and you still don't trust them, just say that it will take a while to regain their trust, and you eventually will tell them things. It's up to you if you ever feel like telling them anything serious again. So, I really hope this hlpes!
Okay, there's a dance coming up. Since it's the end of the school year, and I've liked this one guy for a while, and I was planning on (possibly) telling him that I like him then. My dilemma? He might not be going! What should I do?
Maybe you should start a conversation, and casually bring up the dance. Ask if he's going, and if he is, then you can tell him. If not, then just tell him before. Or even after, whatever works. Just make sure it's casual. I hope this helps!
I have had my period like 4 times and i ahvent got it and it was due like a 4 days ago. Ive never had sex could i be preganant!?!?!
Periods aren't always on a schedule, they sometimes run late. Or even early. It's deffinitley normal, and nothing to be afraid of. Don't be alarmed if it doesn't come for a while, either. When you are just starting, it's really unpredictable. Hope this helps!
my friend told me to "pop a pill." is that a good thing? and what does it mean?
Well, popping a pill means to take a drug, in a pill form. But if they were joking around it means to just relax. If they weren't joking around, it means to swallow a drug. Hope this helps.
So.. wow this is kinda embarassing..
Since I'm the one usually giving advice, and now I really need some! Please help :)
okay, well I heard that when people are stressed/depressed or stuff like that they can either start eating a lot, or eating less and getting an eating disorder.
Well today was really bad, and I just want to keep eating food, and I dont know why, I feel hungry, but I dont want to get fat. I'm upset, but ahh how do I control this?
Well, most people have days where they eat a lot. I know I do, anyway. Yes, it is often triggered by sadness, but usually it doesn't turn into anything major. If you see yourself doing it alot, like every day, then maybe it isn't good. You should probably talk to a parent, or something. You mentioned eating disorders, and let me tell you, they are NOT the way to go. One day won't also get you fat, so you don't have to worry about that. Maybe you should also try focusing your energy on to something else, instead of being hungry. Like, something to do, probably away from the kitchen. I hope this helps!
ok, here's the situation: i was at a dance Friday night and i met this girl(whoo hoo!), and i got her phone number. I said that i would call her sometime.
what i was wondering is when i should call her. should i wait 2-3 days or do it right now? and when i do call her, what should i say? Should i be like "hi, remember me from friday?" or what should i say?
Well, I think usually you should wait about two days or so, and it has been two days, so you should call her. You won't seem desperate or anything. She's probably waiting to hear from you if she likes you, too. So as a girl, I would suggest calling her either today, or tomorrow, but about 3 days is too long. Hope this helps!
in the morning I usually cleanse with facial wash, exfoliate, use astringent, put on moisturizing sunblock and then put on foundation & other makeup. Is this okay for my skin? Is there anything that I should add, take away or change? I will rate high.
Well, my routine is actually quite similar. I do the same, except without the astringent. The astringent is meant to dry up acne, while the exfoliation is supposed to moisturize, so doing both at the same time may not work. Just from experience, it is okay for my skin, and in my opinion, you should not use the astringent. Hope this helps you!
ok im not sure what colors of makeup to use with my face. I have:
blue/grey eyes
lightly tanned skin
dark brown hair
and somewhat chubby cheeks
what colors are good for like my eyes? I want to look natural, but with a little bit of color(nothing too dramatic)
thanks...websites would be nice too( if awavilable...wonth elp rating) i rate high
Well, I think you should use a bit of eyeliner, probably a brown if you're going for the more natural look. With that just a hint of mascara, if you wish. I also think you should use a bit of neutral eyeshadow, like a tan, or light, light brown, or even a grey. Maybe something with a little bit of shimmer, but nothing way dramatic. Combonations like that look good with light blue-ish grey eyes. I would stay away form the blue and purple eyeshadows though, because cool colors don't always exactly match up with cool colored eyes. (cool as in the colors blue, purple, etc.) I hope this helps.
alright so my boyfriend comes over here like everyday and i love it because i get to see him everyyyy dayy and thats just fine with me but sometimes when hes over here and im in the shower i get out come to my room and hes on myspace writing someone or reading someones message to him but once i really get in the room he closes out of it really quick and this has happen twice. idk what to do because if hes hiding something i need to know but im scared to ask him because i dont want us to start an arguement. what should i do?????
Well, I don't think you should be that worried. If it were something serious, I don't think he would be doing it at your house. Maybe next time you catch him doing it, just casually say, "Oh, what was that?" or something like that. Or bring it up if you're in the middle of a relating-subject. Just don't bring it up out of the random, because that's when arguments start. I hope this helps!
I'm wearing a lime green dress to prom and it has some silver at the bottom half. My date has a black tux and a white tux. Which do you think he should wear?
Your date should wear the black. It's a lot less likely to clash with your dress, and it's classier. Hope this helps!
On the latest episode of degrassi where emma & manny go on diets Snake made dinner for them and it was a dish called:
Masuki or Mosoke
Can someone tell me what it is please and if so a website that shows you how to make it.. Thank you soo much!
xoxox
Haha, actually it is deffintily called Moussaka. But, I don't know any websites off the top of my head for recipes, but if you go to a search enginge, like Google, and type it in, there will be plentyy of recipes. I hope this helps!
I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions?
You should just start small talk with this guy. Like, when you see him, just even say hey, or give him a smile. You could casually build it up, and have a normal conversation. If he's in one of your classes, then ask him something about the class, like what the homework is, or how to do something. I also think you should go on your own screen name, and talk to him. Just be like, this is so and so, I go to your school. I think I've seen you in the halls, or something like that. Once you start the online conversations, it will be easier to do it in person. So, I hope this helps!
On weekends, and such, I go out with my mother and grandmother. I'm very close to them, and they're really cool. We relate a lot even though we're all different generations. I guess I'm a lot closer to my family than most people my age.
I look at other seventeen year olds though, and they're always out with their friends, partying and stuff. I very rarely go out with my friends, because a lot of them annoy me and I have a lot more fun with my family.
But I'm starting to think I'm the only teenager who goes out with both my mother and grandmother, and I should be going out with people my age doing more "teenagery" things, as I don't want to look back on my youth and think of all the things I missed out on.
Firstly, is this pathetic? Should I be doing things with people my own age? If so, how do I meet some new people?
Be honest! I can take it. And thank you.
This is not pathetic at all. It is great you have a good relationship with your family. You'll realize that they'll be the ones that are always there for you no matter what, and if you are having a good time with them, then you won't look back and think of all the things you missed out on. The teenage years are about having fun, and if you have fun with your family, then nothing else should matter. And sure, you COULD be hanging out with people your own age, but that's really up to you. There are a lot of people your own age out there that aren't annoying like your friends, and you can find them anywhere, even at school. So, I hope this helps.
ok so me and my "bestfriend" ashley have been friends for a couple years now and we grew apart so much but she told my friend jen that she doesnt think we grew apart at all but i dont no what to do to let her no that i dont think we should be friends anymore its not that shes mean or i want to pick a fight i just dont have fun with her anymore i get so bored when im at her house so i need to find out how to not hurt her feelings or get in a fight and ill rate 5s as long as you dont say talk to her cause that will hurt her feelings
Well, I think that if you don't want to talk to her, there isn't really much more of a way. You could ignore her, but then that would be worse, and I don't suggest it. Maybe you could just start slowly to just not being so tight with her. Like, don't hang out with her as much, or don't talk to her on the phone as much. Once that happens, she'll probably realize you two are going your seperate ways. The best way really is to talk to her, but if you're not up to that, the second best way is just to let things cool down with her, and to maybe start hanging out with other people more. I hope this helps.