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f/19 i go to uni doing my second year. theres this guy that started uni on his first year that i see around the campus. i dont no but we seem to ALWAYS glance at eachother whenever we notice that one another is ther.i dont no who he is or what degree hes doing or anything hes just this boy that walks around campus and looks at me he hasnt smiled at me yet and i havent at him either i dont no if he likes me but i think with all that glancing at eachother i have a major crush on him. im just afraiid to put myself out there and have him not like me or maybe he looks at all the girls and i just think he does it to me.should i wait till he smiles or says hi to me first or should i smile at him first or make a move i dont no what to do i dont even no if he thinks anything of me what do u think?or should i just forget him?
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don't be so afraid. start with maybe just giving him a smile. if he smiles back it will definetly give you confidence and make you feel special. and so then maybe one day you can strike up a cute conversation with him. just see how things go from there. and if things don't work out then its no big deal because i mean before you didn't even know who he was before so you won't have to talk to him.
good luck.
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I'm seventeen year old girl.
Here we go, there is this boy Mike who is friends with my friends. I met him a while ago, but never really got to know him. That is until last Saturday. That night he and I were hanging out with my sister, and her bf another girl and two other guys. He and I talked most of the night. We did a little flirting. Every time he'd look over at he he'd smile, and I'd smile back. We sat in the car together we went places, he put his arm around me. We played a little game where we flicked a bottle cap back and forth to each other. When I was about to go home, I mentioned I wasn't tired so he suggested I text him, so he gave me his number we talked the rest of the night till I fell asleep. We hung out the next day too, more of the same. A few days later I added him to MySpace,and he denyed it. AH idk why. And there was a rumor going around that we made out, his crazy ex either started it or her friend did.
Then last night I hung out with the same people again. And he was very nice, and more little flirting. He opened my door when we were getting out of the car, and when we were all finding seats at our friends house he got me one next to him. We exchanged a few text messages in the car and after I got out of the car then he said good night. He said a specific goodbye to me as I got out of the car.
So the problem is I'm confused. What do you think is going on. Where do I go from here? Please, I need opinionss :) (link)
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theres definetly something going on there :] the myspace thing might have just been an accident. so i think you should keep the flirting going on a little longer. and just see how things work out. if they seem to be going good try suggesting a date with just you two. that will show if its serious or not. if you guys are both feeling it then it might just amount to something. just go with your gut. and don't rush into anything if you're not sure.
hope i helped.
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17f.We broke up about a week ago, but I couldn't stand to be apart from him, and he has openly said that he would want to get back together. The reason I left the relationship is because I have a deep rooted fear of commitment among other things (he does drugs, smokes, drinks, and is often gloomy and down). So we continued to be friends as if nothing had happened, meanwhile trying to forget what we had been through. But I don't think it ever really ended, because everytime i see him and am around him there is something there that makes me want to be with him. But I keep trying to convince myself that I can't be with him because I don't want to. And that is half true because when we broke up, I definitely thought it was over for good. I told him that I have commitment issues and that perhaps one day i will get over them and be a different person. When we were dating I acted completely distant towards him, yet now outside of the relationship I act so close to him. So today we went to a movie and there was some hand holding involved and now I feel terrible. I don't know how to handle this. I don't know what I want...I don't want us to get hurt again...:( (link)
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i see what you're going through. there was a guy i dated forever and then it ended but we still stayed close but then ended up kissing and stuff and i didn't know what to do. so what i would say is you obviously still feel something but you have that fear. and i think your fear is because you think hes going to hurt you. so you should say i don't like the things you do and i can't be around that, so if you really care you would stop and then we could be good. that would show what kind of person he really is. now thats if you want to be with him.
if you decide that you can't its not going to work then you have to stay away for awhile. not forever but enough to make sure your feelings for him as something other than a friend are gone.
do what you know will make you happy.
thats what is most important.
good luck.
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Okay, so, this may be long-im sorry. But Its been on my mind for 2 years and i feel like if someone out there feels this way too, they could help me as to what to do.
2 years ago,I had a boyfriend that i really did like. He was great, we felt instantly connected. Somehow,i loved him right when i saw him...i don't know how. But back then i was shy and unhappy, so i couldn't be who i was with him-seeing as he just made me even more nervous.I recall one time,when someone actually said "All guys want is to get in your pants!" and he whispered in my ear "i would never." I knew he ment it,its just who he was. After a month or two, i wimped out and broke up with him. For reasons like-we didn't talk much,hangout,and i was positive he could find someone better. And even though it was that short of a time-i still feel like i should be with him. I've found myself liking guys that have his features. His personality is exactly like mine,now(2 years later). He's moved on,had other girlfriends. After we broke up,he was so mean to me.i told him to never talk to me again. Then he apologized and i asked him if we could ever be friends and he said no. Then months later of not talking he comes out of no where and tells me he has a girlfriend,i say "thats good :D"(obviously i'm going to be happy for him) then he signs off of aim.That was the last time we talked.(about 2 years ago? maybe)
Which brings me to now.I actually think he hates me. See,starting this year-I see him everywhere(in school). He looks away every time i look at him-so do i. I went to a dance the other day(we met at a dance)And he was there. Everything came back to me,so i decided to dance near him with my friends.And as strange as it is..it felt good to be even near him. and my friend who knows about the situation was telling me he was staring at me.I was really happy,then really sad.I've been thinking about him a lot lately. I get these feelings-and it feels like he's thinking about me too. But he hates me. So i don't know what to do,i REALLY want to smile at him or say hi to him in the halls. But i know he won't do it back.
Leading to the grand fanalie, Should I try to talk to him again? Has anyone ever felt this way before? What did you do? Is there such thing as a connection between people that have to be together? Lastly, Why do you think he hates me,even after 2 years? Anything,anything to help this feeling go away,please. Thankyou (link)
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you obviously had really strong feelings for this guy, and still do. and the reason why you probably feel this way is because you ended it off for no good reason leading there to be unfinished business. and he probably doesn't want to talk to you because you hurt him. he must have had strong feelings for you and then you just dumped him. guys are really bad with dealing with this kind of stuff. if i were you i would try to make contact with him, anyway you can. maybe to avoid the akwardness write him a letter or send him a message. in it you should explain exactly what was going on in your head and why you made that move. hopefully he'll understand. and also make sure you tell him how much he still means to you. and you would do anything to be just friends. because you miss him so much. hopefully he'll believe and undertsand and be ok with you. and then you;ll have to work on strengthing you guys relationship. and maybe one day if you want him as your boyfriend again it can happen.
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I would just google this but I don't know which ones to trust.
Are there any good clinics in the St. Louis, MO area that offer affordable birth control for those under 18? (link)
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you should probably try the planning parenthoods there. there are two in the st.louis area that provide birth control so here are the address and numbers to them.
1) South Grand Health Center | St. Louis
3401 South Grand
St. Louis, MO 63118
P: 314.865.1850
F: 314.865.0535
2) Central West End Health Center | St. Louis
4251 Forest Park Avenue
St. Louis, MO 63108
P: 314.531.7526
F: 314.533.1586
hope everything works out :]
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i need your guys advice on this..so this is like the millionth time hes "blown me off" he doesn't really blow me off but he has this list of chores his dad makes him do and he knows that if he doesnt do them he can't go out or anything. hes basically lazy and its starting to get to me because he always makes plans with me and then cant last minute because he didnt do his chores..what do you guys think i should do? i texted him telling him i had to talk to him...what should i say? and what do i do? i need advice thankss
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you have to tell him exactly what you feel. theres no point in holding back. just tell him you understand that he has stirct parents and stuff but you would really appreciate if he could make more of an effort to actually spend time with you. because right now hes not. and that hes really showing that he doesn't care much which is going to ruin your relationship. just tell him what you feel but don't show anger because then he might get over dramtic about it. just stay calm and tell him what you feel. also maybe you could make suggestions for him to fix his laziness. like you could help him with his chores. or give him a specail surprise whenver he finishes.
these are just some ideas.
hope something works.
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How should I approach my girlfriend parents in wanting her back and everything back the way they were because we had a big fight and I shouldn't have involved them but I did and now they must think I am a monster but I am no where near. They think that she may be unsafe with me but only after one misunderstanding I am not normally like this I want to reassure them that I am her safety and I was under a lot of stress also but blew up on the wrong person (link)
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obviously you did something you regret so you have to show them that. ask to come over one day and just talk to them about what happened and their concerns. and then ask them if you can make a plan to fix eerything. just go step by step. first ask if you can spend time with them and thier daughter. so they can see how you act. and then jsut stay home with her. and then hopefully eventually take her out. you have to prove to them it was a huge mistake that you regret and want to fix. and you're willing to do anything to regain their trust and be able to be with thier daughter again.
hope everything works out :]
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I am fifteen years old, female. I am not in any relationship. I have random, strange, out there ideas, im pretty spontaneous. Im a pretty opposite person, meaning i take either one or the other extreme. example relating to this, i will either take a long time to romantically like someone or i will like them really fast. its always one or the other with me, not in the middle. I feel like when i get older im either going to take long to get married or get married spontaneously to a guy that i havent known very long. That will just result in multiple marriages. But to get to the main idea of this, a little while ago it randomly came to me that I WANT TO GET MARRIED, and NOW. I know it sounds stupid, because im young and dum and not even with anybody but the whole idea of it sounds so appealing right now, at a young age. Then when im a bit older like 22, thats the time to party and date to get to know people and few years from that get to know people to find a husband. I just kind of wanted to know about why i feel this way, about other young peoples marriages if its your own or someone you knows' personal experience. (link)
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don't worry about it. many teens feel the same way to you. young marriages appeal to many because it just seems to romantic. and it also might be your want to be in a realationship resulting in you wanting to get married so early. just let these feelings take their course, hopefully you won't do anything you regret. and when your hormones die down you'll know wha you really want and it's probably not to get married at 15.
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My periods have always been really regular except for my last three. The first messed up one lasted a whole 3 days longer than it was supposed to. Then a week later I had to take "the morning after pill" for the first time. A week after taking the pills I had another period. I thought that maybe the pills caused me to have another period. But then today, almost two weeks after my last period, I started another period so now I've had two periods in one month. Is this normal or should I go see a doctor about it? (link)
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i remember when i first got mine for the first year i had it twice a month. so it should be ok, especially since you just took the pill. it probably just set you off a little. if you don't take any pills for a while but it continues then you might want to see a doctor. but right now it should be nothing to worry about. it's probably just one of the side effects of the pill.
henaaaa :]
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I am in love with this outfit
http://i40.tinypic.com/k2env5.jpg
and the dress underneath looks like this
http://i43.tinypic.com/2j6a16c.jpg
but that dress is 336$, I have the leggings and shoes, but where can I get a cheap version of the leather jacket and a similar version of the dress. Thanks! (link)
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i tried looking for a similar version of the dress but i had no luck. so i looked and i saw it was basically like a sweater vest. so i was thinking if you got a little larger size in some of these listed below you could wear them like a dress and put whatever tank top you want underneath.
these are all found at forever 21:
1) http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=sw%5Fcardigans&product%5Fid=2057493762&Page=all
2)http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=sw%5Fcardigans&product%5Fid=2055796380&Page=all
3)http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=sw%5Fcardigans&product%5Fid=2058224805&Page=all
these are just some of the many on their website under cardigans. other stores should also have similar ones.
and for the leather jacket:
i found a black leather jacket at american apparel but it has a hood. i don't know if you would like that but here's the link.
http://www.americanapparel.com/rsamf400w.html
hope you something works.
good luck.
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Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this? (link)
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you should definetly let him make the first move, up to a limit. because that proves that hes into you. hopefully it'll be soon, but if he doesn't after a day or two just send him a casual message. like hey, how are you? and then keep the conversation going. and try to sneek in a wanna hang out one day. just as a friend. and then see how that works and if theres a connection. it might then amount to something.
henaaa :]
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I don't know what to do with my friend!
I've been friends with this girl, lets call her Abbey, for a few years now. In year 8 we became close because I had no one else to talk to. She was always a big girl so the guys we'd sit with used to pick on her a lot and make her cry so I'd always comfort her and make her feel better. She never wanted to move away from them though, mostly because they were the only guys that gave her attention, which is pretty sad.
Anyway through year 8 she was just a real backstabber, like convincing one of our other friends that i was very close to that i was trying to get with her boyfriend (of course i was not) which led to me and this other girl growing distant, and just not a nice person to me so one time i said to her "look i don't want to be friends with someone like you" and hung out with my guy friends. Eventually after she'd spent 3 weeks staring at me giving me sad 'puppy dog' looks her friend spent an hour trying to convince us to be friends and I said "Whatever, i don't care." By this point i wasn't intending on being best friends with her and I didn't care if she associated herself with me.
In year 9 and 10 she was just a rude person in various ways, ditching me on occasions and things so i just learned to not trust her and found everything went along a lot smoother, particularly as she had her own 'best friend' that she'd spend more time with.
In year 11, her best friend left and now she clings to me and two other friends of mine. By this time I was over everything that had happened and didn't mind her as she had become a funny person to be around that made me laugh. Through year 11 and now into year 12 though, she's just returned to her formal bitchy state.
It's hard to describe the kind of person she is without sounding like I'm just discriminating against her.
I have no problems with how people look, but constantly she refers to how ugly she is and is always telling me things her mother says to her as a way to make me tell her shes the opposite and beautiful and lovely. At first i thought she was just reaching out, so I would do all i could to make her feel better, but then she started repeating things. Over and over again. The same scenarios with her mother, day after day, and she'd sit there and wait for me to tell her the same things. She started telling other friends and basically everyone in her classes the same things and they'd say the same things I'd say. I know this Abbey has a low self-esteem and I've done so much for her ever since year 8 but she doesn't appreciate any of it and it's all just become a ploy for attention.
When i have a serious conversation with her she always makes a hypocritical evaluation that's completely unsophisticated or educated. I know everyone learns differently and some are smart in their own ways but when she speaks it just sounds so rude and ridiculous. Example "I hate how Americans always stereotype Australians, I mean, they're all a bunch of Rednecks" Also if me or my best-friend make a simple mistake that she corrects, she spends weeks reminding us and telling everyone she comes into contact with about it, and in a very mean and insulting way.
I know this girl has issues that cut deep and I still try to help her out, i give her advice and things like that, I try to be nice to her even though pretty much my entire group hates her, telling them it's mean when they make 'fat' jokes about her behind her back (as childish as that sounds) but it's just come to the point where i can't defend her anymore because i feel like I'm doing all this for her and shes being a terrible friend back.
I've tried telling her about things but she just gets upset and makes it worse. I've tried telling her to leave me alone but she comes back the next day as if nothing has happened. I don't want to kick her out of the group because she has no other friends.
I only have about a term left of school so i figured she can just hang around us until school finishes but we have schoolies coming up.
After that essay, here is my question.
Me and about 4 other girls are renting a house for schoolies, and because none of them like Abbey, she's not invited. Abbey hasn't said anything about schoolies yet so i don't know if she'd even want to go but i have a feeling she will eventually. I feel mean not inviting her but I don't want her to go at the same time. A few of my friends hate her because she's always rude to them so i know they'll talk about it in front of her because they don't care. I know if I was her that I'd feel horrible if people did that to me.
I just don't know what to do about her. The only thing i used to like about her was she was just an easy person to laugh with and make stupid jokes, but more recently she's just become annoying and immature.
Can anyone just give me some advice!? (link)
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this girl definetly does not know how to be a good friend. it might be she just doesn't know how to. so you need to give her a serious talk. even if she does get upset. she needs to understand what shes doing. tell her straight up what is bothering you. hopefully you will be able to get your point accross to her. and hopefully she'll take it into consideration and change. that way you can show your friends that shes not that bad. and if she doesn't change then you're going to have to give her an ultimatum. if she doesn't learn how to treat people right you guys can't be friends. its just what it has to be.
hope it all works out :]
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What day does school end for the summer in Texas (USA). (link)
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It's different for every school but I know for me it's June 4th.
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the boy that I've been with for 6 months now really hurt me his been really good to me and i even started to believe that his not like the others well i was wrong.i met him at a summer job and at the time he liked my friend cause he met her first when they hang out the first time i was there like a third wheel cause she begged me to come at the end of the day she told him that things wouldn't work out make story short i made a move and got him. fast forward to six months now I've been trying to hook her up with one of his friends so me and my boyfriend went to her house and they were talking i was there then when she was leaving i noticed him staring at her ass i ignored it but when i got in the car his like how about that threesome thing.well it was my fault cause i always joke about me and him and her having a threesome but he knew they were jokes.when i got home i called him because i felt hurt he told me everything his like he did look at her ass and while she was there he thought about what would have happened if him and her did work out and he also thought about fucking her.so i broke up with him I'm just wondering if i made a good decision.please give me some advice. (link)
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definetly the right decision.
i mean i respect him for telling you the truth but its like thats stuff he shouldn't be thinking let alone telling you about.
and it really hurt you and he knew that but he still went on.
he was obviously not worth it.
good job.
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So this whole school year I've liked this guy. I've been taking time to build a realllly strong relationship with him( that's why I haven't told him yet) and I thoughtbhe liked me, friends told me he liked me too.
But Wednesday he asked another girl out. Their personalities don't click, try have maybe 1 class togther, and they rarely talk. I've been really depressed the last two days ( crying all night) because I was about to tell him.
I was thinking he wouldn't ask her because they're complete opposites! (were in 8th grade btw) They shouldn't last log (especially until prom, 2 months away) I think this because they have barely any relationship at all and long lasting couples have had long and good relationships right?
How do I cope with this? And what are some signs if someone likes you?
(if I got it wrong I just put me in a bad spot; I definately thought he was leading me on.)
Thanks for any help!!! (link)
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he might not have known that you had feelings for him. he might have just htought you guys were really good friends. guys never know these kinds of things. i bet he wasn't trying to intentionally hurt you.
and you can't know how long they're going to last. they might end up liking eachother more than you would expect. that might hurt you but just know he probably didn't mean to do that to you. so he probably still really cares about you. so just know he is a part of your life. but that might also hurt you so if you really can't deal with them being together just back off talking to him and avoid seeing htem together. this way you won't have to cope with it as much.
hope i helped.
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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
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this is in regards to the comment you sent me:
i think thats its his sweet talking thats gotten to her. every girl loves to hear that, especially when more than one guy says it to her. but theres no way she could have serious feelings for him if shes never met him. so don't worry too much. i hope that answers your question.
if you need help with anything else, feel free to send me a private question.
she probably finds herself confused in her own thoughts. she might just need some time away because she doesn't want to say anything that she might regret because she will later find out its not true. also the death might be bothering her and she just wants to be alone.
but,
if it goes on too long that might be unfair to you.
so you should definetly confront her and ask her that you really need to know whats going on because you're her boyfriend and its your job to be worried.
good luck.
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I unfortunately fell for someone who doesn't like me... in a relationship way.He told me were just friends... and I REALLY love him. I can't get him out of my mind!! I really need to get over him. I told him how I felt...he said he just likes me as a friend nothing more. So... I'm heart broken. I can't find anyone else... I really want someone special in my life. I can't find anyone who likes me . I don't understand why... can someone give me some tips on how to get over him? How can I find someone that likes me back?? Please... anyone give me some advice. Uh...I am 13...if that matters.
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first remember everyone has different ways of getting over people. it might take you a while but you just have to deal with it because you can't force because you can't stop what you feel, right?
the fact is you're 13 and you probably do have strong feelings for this guy but its not the end. usually true love and real dating starts at least when you're 16 or 17. so you can't hold on. if it helps completely take him out of your life. that way you don't have to deal with seeing him.
and don't worry if right now you if you can't find a guy. use that energy in something else productive. like rebuilding an old freindship or making a new one. or picking up an activity you've always wanted to this way you won't even have time to think about it.
henaaa :]
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Okay, so at the beginning of this school year I said something pretty nasty. It was referring to a boy who died of a drug overdose, and how his friend was gonna end up the same way if he didn't stop. I know, it was totally uncalled for and I really, really, really regret it. The thing is, I don't know how to apologize to the friend of the deceased boy. Its a couple of friends, actually. They happen to be the most popular guys at my high school, so I'm kinda intimidated. Now I feel like they all hate me along with the rest of the drama club.
When they found out what I said, it was obvious they were upset. One of the boys called me, and wanted to talk to me about the comment I made and try to clear the air about it all. I agreed to see him the next day in school and thought that was mature of him, but he never approached me in school the next day like he said he would.
I'm not really sure if they are starting to harass me or not. They've done a few things, such as logging onto my school account and leaving a false love letter from one of them. And on a field trip, they tapped my cell phone number to the back of the bus and made a sign that said to "call for a good time" and obviously we know what that means. I got a few inappropriate phone calls....
I was actually writing an apology letter to them all the other day, because I wanna be on good terms. I'd like to try to be friends, because they are actually nice, outgoing people. But when you get on their bad side, it isn't always pretty.
What should I do? Should I still apologize, or just ignore it all? If so, how should I approach them? Thanks in advance. [16/f] (link)
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you should probably talk to one guy at a time to make it more personal. i think the first one would be the one who was making somewhat of an effort before. i would apologize for what i said and that it was totally disrespectful to the deceased. but hte only reason you said it was because you cared. and you don't like drug use, and she was hoping that was an awakening to them. if you can get him to forgive you then hopefully he'll put in a good word for you but you should still talk to the rest of the guys.
hope everything works out.
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Okay... I love my friend... Matt and I told him and he said he likes me ONLY as a friend. So...the other day I told him that i was going to start to get over him. He told me " It sounded good". So... the day after (That was yesterday..Friday) We had a dance he was there and so was I . He was with a group of friends...but he only hanged with his best friend Drew. I was with my friends there was a big group of us. We were having SUCH a great time!! I was like drunk on mountain Dew...lol and my friend and I were running down the hallway (Matt was behind us). I slipped (because we were only in socks .. we can't wear shoes) I fell on my ass..lol once I got up and went into the dance with my friends laughing. My friend told me that when I fell Matt stopped... and whatched ...and than when I got up and left he left. So, that made me feel happy...does that mean he cared? He didn't laugh!! Okay... when I was dancing and having fun with my friends...it was so weird ... he looked so sad...and mad. Like, he looked at me when I was dancing ..and looked away with a pissed look on his face. Like, there was this one moment...when my friends left me in the middle of the dance floor... I saw matt...and he started walking towards me ...than my friends came back...and he sat back down. Do, u think he wanted to dance with me?? Also...he looked so sad...his friend I saw put his arm around him...to comfort him. Why , would he be upset?? Would he be upset because I am not upset? Well...I wasn't upset at the dance ...but I am still upset about him not likeing me back. I still love him. Can anyone tell me why he was acting this way? Like...maybe a a guy should answer this question. No, offense girls... you can answer 2 it's just maybe guys can help more with this because there dudes and they can help with Matt's wierd body language.
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i feel like there's a definite possibility he's jealous. or also it could be that he liked the fact that you liked him and now he saw you were doing just fine without him (even though he doesn't like you) and that bothered him. i know i've felt that way because there was a guy that liked me for a full year and i like him and after i turned him down so much he told me that he was over me. and i was with another guy but that really bothered me. thats just another possibility to the many that could be it. i guess the best way would be is to ask the source, or one of his friends. a way of going about it if you want to ask him is saying at the dance you seemed kind of upset. were you ok? and if he tries to blow you off say come on i thought we were close i just want to help. maybe he'll give in....
henaaa :]
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I am a 16 female. Just went through my first break up as of a few hours ago. We were going out for 7 months. He and I both decided to end it and stay friends. Although right now he is pretty pissed off. I am feeling 60% sad, 10% mad, 20% confused and the other 10% is lost somewhere in my brain. I've never experienced a break up before, so all I am asking is for some helpful advice or stories to help me feel better and move on.
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dealing with break ups is different for everyone. but one thing i wanna say is that i completely believe its good to stay friends but wait awhile. because it might make it harder and it will probably make the feelings still linger. so step off for a little. also, this way you can figure out exactly what you want before doing stupid things. and then eventually you might decide you want him back. and i respect that so you can go about it the right way. or maybe you just want to be friends or want nothing to do with him. it just depends on what you end up feeling. and also don't regret. because thats what leaves you behind, and then you just sit there thinking why? so know that all things happen for a reason.
hope i helped.
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