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Uhh...is he jeaolous?


Question Posted Saturday March 14 2009, 10:36 am

Okay... I love my friend... Matt and I told him and he said he likes me ONLY as a friend. So...the other day I told him that i was going to start to get over him. He told me " It sounded good". So... the day after (That was yesterday..Friday) We had a dance he was there and so was I . He was with a group of friends...but he only hanged with his best friend Drew. I was with my friends there was a big group of us. We were having SUCH a great time!! I was like drunk on mountain Dew...lol and my friend and I were running down the hallway (Matt was behind us). I slipped (because we were only in socks .. we can't wear shoes) I fell on my ass..lol once I got up and went into the dance with my friends laughing. My friend told me that when I fell Matt stopped... and whatched ...and than when I got up and left he left. So, that made me feel happy...does that mean he cared? He didn't laugh!! Okay... when I was dancing and having fun with my friends...it was so weird ... he looked so sad...and mad. Like, he looked at me when I was dancing ..and looked away with a pissed look on his face. Like, there was this one moment...when my friends left me in the middle of the dance floor... I saw matt...and he started walking towards me ...than my friends came back...and he sat back down. Do, u think he wanted to dance with me?? Also...he looked so sad...his friend I saw put his arm around him...to comfort him. Why , would he be upset?? Would he be upset because I am not upset? Well...I wasn't upset at the dance ...but I am still upset about him not likeing me back. I still love him. Can anyone tell me why he was acting this way? Like...maybe a a guy should answer this question. No, offense girls... you can answer 2 it's just maybe guys can help more with this because there dudes and they can help with Matt's wierd body language.

Thanks so much for anyone who answers!


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Additional info, added Saturday March 14 2009, 6:02 pm:
Ok..I asked him if he was sad at the dance and if he was ok...he told me he was fine...but he didn't act fine at the dance. Can someone tell me whats going on?.

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henaaa answered Tuesday March 17 2009, 11:17 pm:
i feel like there's a definite possibility he's jealous. or also it could be that he liked the fact that you liked him and now he saw you were doing just fine without him (even though he doesn't like you) and that bothered him. i know i've felt that way because there was a guy that liked me for a full year and i like him and after i turned him down so much he told me that he was over me. and i was with another guy but that really bothered me. thats just another possibility to the many that could be it. i guess the best way would be is to ask the source, or one of his friends. a way of going about it if you want to ask him is saying at the dance you seemed kind of upset. were you ok? and if he tries to blow you off say come on i thought we were close i just want to help. maybe he'll give in....

henaaa :]

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holahayley56 answered Sunday March 15 2009, 12:37 am:
I'm a girl sorry, but I've been through stuff like this, and I think I get it.

Honestly. I don't think he was jealous or anything like that. If he liked you, he would have told you the other day. Maybe he wasn't hanging out with you or whatever, because he thought you might feel awkward about him not liking you. He could have also been just having a bad day. Did you talk to him there and stuff? How did you act towards him? Maybe he thought you were mad at him or something..

their are alot of different things it could be.
but i really don't think it was because he was jealous.

sorry.. :/

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kaybabe123 answered Saturday March 14 2009, 9:58 pm:
Well, I know what you mean, I was at a school dance and slipped and fell, im sensing that when he saw you fall he didnt want you to feel embarassed that he was watching so he left to make u feel more comfortable.
Thats just what i think.
-Kayla.

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