How should I approach my girlfriend parents in wanting her back and everything back the way they were because we had a big fight and I shouldn't have involved them but I did and now they must think I am a monster but I am no where near. They think that she may be unsafe with me but only after one misunderstanding I am not normally like this I want to reassure them that I am her safety and I was under a lot of stress also but blew up on the wrong person
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? henaaa answered Sunday March 22 2009, 3:51 pm: obviously you did something you regret so you have to show them that. ask to come over one day and just talk to them about what happened and their concerns. and then ask them if you can make a plan to fix eerything. just go step by step. first ask if you can spend time with them and thier daughter. so they can see how you act. and then jsut stay home with her. and then hopefully eventually take her out. you have to prove to them it was a huge mistake that you regret and want to fix. and you're willing to do anything to regain their trust and be able to be with thier daughter again.
karenR answered Thursday March 19 2009, 7:19 am: The only thing you can do is just talk to them and hope for the best. I have to be honest and tell you that its a long shot that they will accept your story. When you blow up on someone and even involve their parents, they are going to see you as a possible abuser. You can talk to them, but I doubt they will believe you. Actions speak louder than words most of the time. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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