Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this?
henaaa answered Friday March 20 2009, 2:07 pm: you should definetly let him make the first move, up to a limit. because that proves that hes into you. hopefully it'll be soon, but if he doesn't after a day or two just send him a casual message. like hey, how are you? and then keep the conversation going. and try to sneek in a wanna hang out one day. just as a friend. and then see how that works and if theres a connection. it might then amount to something.
dottie4 answered Friday March 20 2009, 12:02 pm: I think it would be a good idea to get his number first. Then actually talk to him on the phone and ask him if he wants to hang out with you and some of your friends. After you get to know him a little better, ask him then. I wouldn't just ask him right out of the blue because then I can almost gurantee you he will say no because he barely knows you.
ShelbyGirl15 answered Friday March 20 2009, 12:43 am: I think you should just send him a friendly but flirty message. Just say like hey whats up? or something, then as you talk more with this conversation say hey we should hangout sometime.
NikkiD answered Friday March 20 2009, 12:21 am: Well if he talked to you for 2 hours, more than likely he's feelin you. So my advice is don't msg him back 2nite, wait a couple days and see uf he hits you up. Now if not in 3 days send him a msg and say what's up. If the second round of conversation goes well mention something about your prom and see how he responds. Something like "yea I was online today looking at prom dresses" if he asks you how your day was! Much Love! [ NikkiD's advice column | Ask NikkiD A Question ]
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