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how to find out who he likes . . .
14/f/us
freshman
i like this guy a lot. we talk almost every night on facebook and we talk a little in school. i flirt with him but im not exactly sure how to tell if a guy is interested or is flirting back. also my friend that sits in front of him in my class always turns around and flirts with him a lot. i dont want to tell her that i like him becuase im pretty sure that she likes him to and if she likes him as much as me then it wouldnt be fair to ask her to stop. i dont mind them talking but i never get jealous intill now. how can i tell if hes interested? also im really shy so i cant ask him who he likes or anything. i dont have that kind of confidence.
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I can totally relate with what you're going through. This same thing happened to me a little while ago. The only thing you need is a little confidence. That's what usually comes between people and their crushes. First, just simply ask your friend if she likes the guy and be honest with her. Tell her you like him and if she does too then you guys should make a compromise. If both of you guys want him equally then he's off limits. period. becuase there's no point in ruining your friendship unless one of you is willing to sacrifice this boy to make the other happy. Also, talk to the guy. Casually start up a conversation in class like before or after the bell rings. Ask him about his interests and things that will make him feel like you care more than he thought. That would signal an open door for him and his care for you will also grow. Definetely don't ask him who he likes because that would be just a little too personal and Straight to the point. See if he spends a lot of time with a specific other girl to indicate if he's dating, or interested or not. Just remember, build up confidence one step at a time. Trust me. You're not alone on this one :)
Hope I helped!
Love, Rachel ♥
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why not try at first to see if your friend likes him aswell. She may just be being friendly towards him so try asking her first.
Try to build up a little confidence. If your shy then thats sweet, but perhaps if your friend is alittle outgoing and this guy responds to that you could try to be too. Speak to him more at school and learn of his interests, you may find that you share some of them, if so attempt to become friendly with him more in person instead of on facebook. perhaps spending some time together will open up more doors for you and then maybe he will tell you who he likes. Bear in mind he may not be interested in anyone at the moment, but if he's wary of answering this question it may be that it's you he likes.
Most guys i know who have crushes tend to smile more or act EVER so slightly different when their crush is around. for example the smile more, try to impress them , become more talkative and their eyes brighten. Flirting can be sincere or a bit of fun and laughter. So express how you feel to him when you feel ready or things may never progress beynod friendship.
Hope this could help you
female~also 14
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