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Butterflies {:(
Oh my gosh. I have a majorly HUGE crush right now! Hes in 9th and im in 8th. But i see him every week day for 2 hours at practice. Then for another hour in the weight room after practice. I never really noticed him until my friend started talking to him. But apparently shes crushin on him too. He gives me butterflies soo much. Even if im nowhere around him! How do i hint to him that i like him without telling him? And how do i get over the butterflies?
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Hi!!!
Okay... first maybe...like if you have a My space look him up and ask him to add you. Than, if he does.. when you see him at practice...or school.. take a deep breath.. and go up to him and thank him for adding you. Or, you can message him on My space and tell him thanks...and maybe he'll notice you more and come up to YOU first. You can get to know him better ...and that can help you get over your butterflies! Flirt a little bit... and maybe wear more make up than usual. (Not to much...he might not like girls that wear to much.. or maybe not at all...but not all guys are like that)You can try new styles with your hair...maybe even a new hair cut. I really hope everything goes okay, and I really hope I helped!
- Faith42 :)
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Why would you want to get over butterflies! When your older you'll understand lol.
To get his attention you could maybe dress up now and then, dress differently, wear your hair in different ways, a little makeup. You should definitely talk to him more. Smile whenever you see him, especially when you talk to him. Keep a constant conversation by talking about things you both like (if you don't know, do some spy work and find out from other people or just ask something basic like 'what kind of music you into?' or sport). Don't be afraid to tell a joke.
To get over the butterflies you just have to talk to him. When you look back on it you'll miss those feelings, so take as much advantage of them as you can now!
If you really want him to know you like him, the only full-proof way is to tell him. It's hard but never know, he may like you, and the worst thing he could say is 'no'.
Go for him hunny!
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First, you need to decide whether this guy is worth compromising your friendship. If she's crushing on him, too, there might be a problem. Before you say anything to him, if I were you I'd have a talk with her & see if she likes him or not.
If she doesn't, the best thing you can do is to flat out tell him. So many people have a problem with that, though, & I understand. But a lot of people have a problem knowing if someone likes them or not, even if they're flirting a lot. Some people are just naturally flirty. So, you could flirt with him & see if he seems interested, but the best thing you can do is to just ask him how he feels about you.
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