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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.

Thanks so much to you all.

please please please keep the baby. having an abortion is murder. you are killing the baby and not giving it a chance to live. killing it would be very selfish of you. if you keep the baby, you will learn so much and grow so much responsibility. many women who have abortions regret it in the future. they always think about the baby "they could have had." you dont want to feel guilty your whole life. just let this baby live and you will feel so proud and happy to own it. even if the father is not supportive, that doesnt mean you cant meet some other guy to help you out, right?

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hi, i am 14 and haven't started my period is this a problem and i want to start it all my friends have except me

dont worry, you will get it by the time you are 18. enjoy the time you have being period-free. its nothing to look forward to!

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when i am giving my bf a bj do i move the skin up and down or just like slide my lips up and down without moving the skin?

move the skin up and down too. it will definitely be more enjoyable and he will get more pleasure out of it.

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What are good [romantic/comedy] books to read over the summer?

the gossip girls series
candy -kevin brooks
dumb love-kathleen jeffrie johnson
boyfriend list-e. lockhart
angus, thongs, and full frontal snogging-louise rennison
what mother doesnt know-sonya sones
a bad boy can be good for a girl-tanya stone

no problem, but you didnt list your age so i wrote a variety of different books.

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how do you make fondant?

http://www.pastrywiz.com/season/fondant.htm

this site tells you all about it and how to make it.

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my teeth are like yellow, & I brush them 4 times a day& floss& use whiting mouth wash, how can I make them white?

crest white strips. they work so well and i highly reccomend them. to keep your teeth white stay away from coffee, smoking, and foods with dye in them. these things tend to stain your teeth a little bit.

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does eating a lot of sweedish fish have a laxative affect? like will it give you diarrhea? thanks!

no. they dont have any fiber in them so it shouldnt make your poop different or make you have diarrhea.

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For girls, what's the maximum age a girl stops growing?

between 16-18 years old.

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how long can you leave a tampon in for?

up to 8 hours.

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Hey :D I'm thinking of getting a bag for Christmas but I'm undecided. What do you feel abou this one?:

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2938581/0~2376779~2374605~6003905~6006297~6006303?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6006303&P=1

^^IN BLACK!!!

other suggestinos of preferred pursed would be great! Thanks!

to be honest, its not my favorite. =[ i think if you are going to spend that much money on a purse you should be in LOVE with it and make sure it is something you can wear everyday and change from day and night. this is what i prefer. =]

http://www.bebe.com/gp/product/B000NE3T88/sr=1-13/qid=1182732921/ref=sr_1_13/103-2179714-5567003?ie=UTF8&fontColor=000000&node=15851991&m=A2FMOXN01TSNYY&totalItemIn1Page=&startIndex=8&displayPageNum=2&bbBrand=core&field-clothing-size=&keywords=&firstPageItemNum=8&title=&restPageHasColor=1&myViewID=embedded-leaf&displaySalePrice=0&displayItemNum=16&standardPageSize=16&size=24&rh=n%3A15851991&page=1&bgColor=ffffff

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I need some music that is/has:
1. Not fast but not slow.
2. has a deep meaning/feeling.
3. Something like Joss Stone
or
4. Joss Stone Music

Thanksss

anything by imogen heap. =]

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how do i get rid of razor bumps and how do i minimize them in the first place

it might be time for a new razer. try that, and make sure you shave in the same direction the hair is growing. after, apply lots and lots of lotion.

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what is pin worms? i heard people talking about it and don't know what it is

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pinworm

here is some info about it and a picture to show you.

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u know if you want to use tampax do u have to be a certain age?

no, you dont need to be a certain age.

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ok so last year i gave this guy head (bad i know and i regret it) but anyways the next day i got a really bad sore throat. is this normal or could it be an std? i'm really worried about it and i was also wondering since i am 18 if i can get tested and treated confidentially without my parents knowing. thanks.

it is possible it could be an std. since you are 18, you are allowed to get tested without your parents knowing. you should go get tested and make sure you dont have an std.

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could you please click on the link below and tell me (without being harsh, please) how fat I am?

like would you classify me as super obese fat chick, fat, average, sexy, etc. (or whatever words you choose)

http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n210/LovelyBoylan/howfat.jpg

you are not obese by any means. you are a tiny bit over weight for your size, and the clothes you are wearing arent helping at all. long pants/capris will slim your legs up a bit and a short sleeve shirt would be much more flattering around your arms. if you feel good about yourself tho, dont change anything! always stay true to yourself and dont care what others think

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What does repent mean? Does it mean to ask for forgiveness?
I was just wondering.
Thanks.

exactly. to repent means to truly feel bad about something you did wrong and ask for forgiveness. yes i think it is okay if you just tell your priest that you did something "against your religion." telling him you masturbated is very personal and something you probably dont really want to share with him.

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are you supposed to shave down there if your a girl, i did and im 13. but im not sure if your supposed to.

it doesnt matter. whichever you prefer. some girls trim it up every now and then and some shave it all off. personally i think its better to just shave it all off in the summer because then you dont need to worry about any hair sticking out of your bathing suit.

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what is the healthiest breakfast that also helps control weight?

any fruit or a low fat yogurt.

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what is the difference between french kiss and like a makeout?

they are basically the same thing.

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