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i keep getting these really weird stomach noises everyday on the same time. it usually starts when i lie down in bed at like 10pm and and it goes on for 10-20 minutes! it's so embarrassing because it also happens when it's quiet and i end up looking odd! i'm 100% sure it's not cuz i'm hungry. so what is it and what's wrong with me?! it's not painful at all it's just these really loud noises and they're embarrassing. and i really don't want to see a doctor because he may laugh at me. and what am i supposed to say anyway? 'uh, hi. my stomach makes weird noises...'
i'd appreciate any help. (link)
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There is nothing to worry about. This happens to me all the time. When your stomach starts working and digesting things, it can't always be silent. Now it has decided to be on the louder side. When you lay down your body is relaxed so your stomach likes working then. If you are worried then see your doctor for peace of mind. I hope I helped! :D
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I want to learn how to jump horses but I don't know which is the best jumping horse?
I have seen horses jumping on T.V. and at the local rodeo, and I don't want to sound ignorant, but except for the color and how tall they are, they all look the same to me! :-(
I know NOTHING about horse breeds or what the best breed of horse for jumping might be, so can any of you point me in the right direction and tell me what I need to know?
Do any of you own any of these, or know of a special place that has jumping horses for sale?
Thank you! (link)
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Hi! So I reallllly LOVE horses so this might be a long answer....
Ok, so first don't start jumping until you have a really firm backround in riding and you know 2 point and all that stuff. I don't know if you know that already or not...
As for breeds, the warmbloods like Swedish Warmblood and Dutch Warmblood are commonly used in the Olympics. Also, my favorite are the Hanoverians.This breed took over 300 years to perfect. Meaning that they are !very! good for any english sport mostly.The Holstiener has a strong personality but they are very athletic looking and have a good build for jumping.
A harder breed to get hold of, but is very good for jumping, are the Olderburgers. They are German and have a large history. My all time favorite breed is the American Saddlebred, they have nice long legs that can easily jump and they are beautiful. Thuroughbreds and Irish Sport Horses are wonderful as well. Irish Sport Horses are very commonly used for hard equestrian sports. There are more but these are among the best choices.
On Horseclicks.com there are many great horses for sale. You can personalize your seach so that you find horses near you that jump.
To narrow down the list of breeds that I gave you, I will tell you what breeds are probably the top three. Which are Thoroughbreds because of thier long, powerful legs. They also are known to have a stronger mentality and courage than other breeds. But if you are a beginner, they may be a little harder to handle.
The next breed would be one I haven't listed yet, the Arabian. This is my second favorite breed. They also can be hard to handle for a beginner but they are beautiful and have long legs made for running and jumping.
The last top breed would be another I haven't listed, the Trakkener. This breed isn't a popular but they have incredible endurance and have thoroughbred qualities. They are much easier to handle and make great companions.
Hope I helped! :D
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I have a good life. I have a good future, friends family and yet... for sometime I keep thinking about death, about all the ways I can die. I think of the easiest ways, the quickest and I find myself wanting an almost painful end. I have a good life, but at the same time, I want to leave it. I want to leave my future, my friends, family, people, and I hate myself for it, yet I hate myself for wanting attention, for wanting someone to notice that the smile I have on is killing me and all I want to do is sleep and forget everything but I can't because I have school and friends and they don't know how to handle me when I'm like this, I know because when I've told them they become scared of me and it makes me hate myself for making feel that way so I hurt them so they'll stop wanting to be around me and find someone better to be with but at the same time I can't let go of them and I know I'm poisonous and it's hurting them but I can't help it... I thought I was doing really well for a while but now I feel like I can't stand living but I can't stand the thought of death and I love the people around me but I hate them for loving me so I hurt them then I hate myself... I don't understand why I'm this and I can't take to them but I'm scared of being alone, the thought of calling someone scares so me much but I hate being alone with myself because I am a horrible person and I just want to die, but I'm too much of a coward to do it... I don't know what to do or why I'm like this... Please, does anyone understand? I need help but I don't want myself to be helped... I have a good life but I don't why I'm not valuing like people say I should ... I need help, I can't handle myself like this... (link)
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I have gone through this before and am going through this a little still right now. Except I don't let my friends see any negative behaviours from me so they have no clue that this happens to me. Your friends are sad for you and you are making them feel your pain! I have a great life like you do, but sometimes I just want to say goodbye. I have held a knife to my stomach a couple of times for a few seconds to see what it would feel like to be about to kill myself...and I hated it! I'm not saying you should do this because once I almost fell when I did this (I was walking down the stairs) and I don't want that to happen to you. Many people go through these stages in life, a lot of people don't show it though. All those loners that sit by themselves during lunch and such, are going through this. I always wonder how they feel about death. Just get through it and one day you'll look back at this and say...I am so happy that I didn't kill myself. :D
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I've been doing terrible academically lately. The biggest reason is attendance. I'm a freshman in college. I've always had punctuality problems. Every time I plan to shower and leave, I do a lot of things between thinking it and actually doing so. I fix my bag, write, read, or something completely random - the other day I was attempting to fix a stapler I broke! I can't seem to stop. Before I know it - 3 to 5 hours have passed. I don't study. I procrastinate obsessively. I even miss meals. It's like I have no concept of time whatsoever. I always think, "I'm going to study hard from now on." "I'm going to be more organized." "I'm going to do this early." but I never do. My things are a mess but I actually like tidying up - the problem is I just never seem to do so. I'm either an extreme perfectionist about a task or I don't do it at all. I miss deadlines. I'm forgetful. I'm afraid I'm slow and/or stupid. Even though logically speaking I think I'm quite bright - or average at the very least but I often feel that I'm not. I was an honor student in grade school but even then I didn't spend a large amount of time studying. I've always thought maybe I'm just extremely lazy and thus, have tried and wanted to change - but for some reason I just really, really can't. I'm extremely talkative, I have a tendency to guess what a person's trying to say and interrupt before they finish talking, and I often get told that I'm just not trying hard enough. I'm worried because I don't know if I'm just being really lazy and just having the usual priority-issues. I've searched for ADHD symptoms because I couldn't stop thinking about my weird habits and how it's affecting my life. When I told my friends about my concerns though, a couple said I'm over reacting and even thought I was being silly. (Although 2 of my closest friends and aunt support me in this.)
I'm sorry it's lengthy but I can't stop thinking about it. I'm so confused. I can't concentrate at all this week. Am I showing signs of ADHD or is this typical teen behavior? (link)
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Reading this was like reading a document about myself! I am JUST like you! I have told my mom about my concerns with me having ADHD or ADD but she gets SUUUPPPEERRRR mad at me. And since I am gifted, the symptoms seem even more accurate. I have no clue why she gets so mad but it's hurting my life and my grades a LOT! I used to be a straight A students, now I am pulling c's and d's. So I know how you feel. I would say go to a doctor for your concerns and ask them to test you. I know I want to do that. Since you are in college you have more freedom to do that. Because if you do have ADHD it may affect your future and present, so get yourself checked out! Good Luck!
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Please please help me!!!! ugh! ok well i am a 13 year old girl and i got asked out on valentines day by a my best guy friend(also 13) who i like and he doesn't talk to me the same now! we used to always talk and stuff but now we barely ever do and if we do its not the same. if we are in a group of people talking he will talk to like everyone but me! its only been 7 days and its both of our first real relationship so people are saying its normal but idk. he hangs out with other girls alot to. What do i do? i want to talk to him more but i get nervous and he is to.please help ASAP!!!!! (link)
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This happened to me once and we broke up after a while. I really regreted not doing what it took. I asked what I couldv'e done and he said that I shouldv'e told him what I was upset about and what needed fixing. Which is what you need to do. Ask him why he hasn't talked to you much and don't give on him! I am also 13 so I know what it feels like to have a bf at this age. It's pretty awesome. He gave me such bad butterflies that I lost my appitite for a week. Isn't that horrible? But at least it was Spring Break! :D Anyway, you gotta say it. It may seem uncomfortable or something but in the end, you will be better off. And if it doesn't work then you guys obviously don't belong together. Just think, somewherer in the world is your future husband waiting for you. Don't bound yourself from him with other guys. Wait until your old enough to find that special guy. Even though some people do find their true love at a young age. But you will know if that's the case. Good Luck Chiky! :D
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What are good ways for a female to masturbate, have lots of pleasure, and not break your hymen (link)
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The best way that I knowis turning on the faucet in your bath tub and sitting under it so that it runs over your clit. Turn the water on really high but don't make it too hot, you don't want to damage anything! But it feels SO good and only takes a few seconds to work. You can also flick your clit with your finger for better stimulation.
Another thing you can do is get a phone or a back messager and turn it on vibrate and put right on your clit.
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My 11 year old sister likes to wear makeup. Any good makeup sites?
Also, don't say stupid stuff like "Uh, too young!" or "Ahaha. Wanna be 16 year old!" or anything like that. It's her choice. (link)
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If your parents allow you could go to a mall and they will find the best look for her. Or websites like Mary Kay. They have virtual makeovers and really good makeup. Hope I helped! :)
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I'm 11 and my boyfriend broke up with me and I really seriously can't get over it! I'm madly in love with him but he's dating my bestfriend please please please help! (link)
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Hi! I'm 13 and last year a boyfriends of mine broke up with me and told me I wasn't good enough for him. This guy you dated seems like kind of a jerk for dating your best friend and you best friend wasn't very nice for doing that either. What I'm about to tell you probably isn't what you want to hear.
Many people have found their true love at a young age but there are also many many people that don't. If he broke up with you and got into another relationship quickly, you guys don't belong together. There are so many guys in the world and just think, your future husband is alive right now somewhere in the world waiting to meet you. You guys will be so happy together and would you want to upset him by never getting over the guy that broke up with you?
For a while I mourned about my boyfriend breaking up with me but when I got over it, I realized that I don't need a boyfriend to live or get through life. The right guy will come to you when it's time. I hope everything works out for you! :D
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In the back of my throat I always notice like white things in their. I always push them out with my finger. (if I can get it out) and they smell disgusting. Idk what it is and it's so annoying. I take care of my teeth so idk why I have this or what it is...help? (link)
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I'm not completely sure what they are but most everyone gets them. My brother and I call them Poop Seeds. You have nothing to worry about. But I would do something about it if there were a LOT of them. Talk to your doctor for peace of mind if you like. :)
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thers thios girl i realy realy like and she likes me but she likes a diffrent guy more......how do i get her to like me more???
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Girls like it when a guy gives them attention. Not too much but not too less. Stare at her in class once or so a day. And let her catch you staring at her. This guy that I really dont talk to was staring at me in class and I quickly fell for him. We never went out though because we barely communicated. Something that is really random but girls love is stickers. Just randomly bring her a sticker one day. A small one, those are the best. And dont do this all the time, if she appreciates it when you give her the first one then bring another every once in a while. If she doesn't seem to appreciate it to much then just leave it. I wouldnt do the sticker for like older than 20 though.
Dont give up until she really says no to you, and I wish you luck! :)
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I know this is really long but please just read it. I used to have a perfect life. I was pretty, popular(not trying to sound conceited), and had great friends. My best friend I was especially close to, she was practically my sister. A couple weeks ago, she texted me saying she didn't want to be friends anymore. I have no idea why. I kept asking her and saying like "can we just try?" but she didn't respond. I tried talking to her at school but she just walks away. Now all of my other friends hate me and don't talk to me anymore. They all found this group of new friends and I always see them laughing and having fun. About a week ago, they video chatted me and started saying mean things to me. I asked them why they all hated me and they said, "because you f*cking pyscho" and "you try and act all cool, but it doesn't really work", and " we hated you from the beginning you f*ucking slut". God, I cried so hard that night. Anyways, I've been cutting lately... A lot. I have cuts going down my left arm, one on my neck, and 2 on my hip. I have attempted suicide 2 times. One time I took like 4 advil(it wasn't enough) and the other time I tried choking myself. Also, a couple days ago this guy told everyone I told him I was gonna give him head, which is not true at all! So everybody is calling me a slut last night I made myself throw up for the first time. I just fell alone, and confused, and I'm crying so hard right now. Just give me some advice on what to do please. I feel like I can't take another day of this torture. I'm 13 by the way. (link)
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Hey there! Something similar happened to me. I was the most popular kid in school then when I went to middle school it was so wierd to not be at the top. I hated it and I got a little ways up there. I got a boyfriend and he broke up with me over text saying I wasnt good enough for him. And this was right after I has surgery on a broken and twisted bone. Then I had a horrible sunburn that covered my back and the back of my legs. It was purple and hurt SO badly that words cant explain it. I was hating life so much i thought about running away or something. A few other hurtful things happenend to me and I used my super long thumb nail and dug it into my arm everytime I did something wrong.
A month passed by and I had done a lot of work over this time. Including becoming closer to God, exercising more often and eating write. I got into a routine of this things and then a few more things happened to me! But they didnt phase me even a bit
What I am trying to say it God may be testing you. If you show all those jerks at school that they can't bring you down you will never be hurt again. Go into school everyday with a smile and leave school everyday with that smile. Don't make yourself throw up, that burns your esophagus and is really unhealthy. Cutting is horrible, people may notice sometime and call you even more names! I hope you get better quikly like I did. God Bless You. :)
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How do I get a Victoria's Secret Model body? (link)
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I am a health freak so I may be able to help you on this one.
First of all your diet is very importent with this process, this will keep your metabolism high and your body looking young and alive. You will also feel great. Skipping meals is unacceptable a it actually can cause you to gain weight. Don't starve yourself to look better, that will make you look worse. And when your an old lady, all of the models that starved themselves will have wrinkles and bad skin if they arent already dead.
Next, this needs to go further than just eating right. Medetation and accupressure will help with very many things. Medetation will balance you and keep you whole and happy. Doing this for about 30 minutes a day is good. I know it sounds boring and it will be for a while but as you go along, if you stay commited to it, you will start to look forward to it everyday. yogajournal.com has great poses and types of medatation.
Accupressure has many uses. I use it when I am sick, stressed, need to make better decisions, pretty much anything. There isn't any one good website for accupressure but look it up on google and read about it, it's a great thing!
Lastly, exercising for at least 1 hour a day is great. You may not have time for this but at least do 30 min. Exercise also includes having fun and enjoying yourself sometimes. I'm not saying go to night clubs because that would be horrible. If you were to do this, then just once a month. But don't smoke and avoid any alcohol.
If you are ever having hard times staying on track, there is accupressure for making good decisions. This point is the dip that forms right next to your ear when you open your mouth. You aren't supposed to use this very often. Also there is medatation for making good decisions or clearing your mind. This is all on yogajournal.com
I hope you succeed in your journey to looking good! Good Luck! :D
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I offered to give my guy friend a "sick kit" to help him get well because he has a cold right now, so im going to take it to school for him tomorrow which happens to be Valentines day. I already know he's getting me something because he was offering to buy me something, and i said you can get me a candy for valentines day. But he told me a week ago "I already got all the stuff for valentines day" so I guess that means he got more than just a candy bar, but i dont know what else he wouldve got and what i should give him so i dont feel bad. Should i add something valentines like in the "sick kit"? All i was gonna put in it is some vitamin C, soup, and cough drops, with maybe a get well card and a Valentines day card, so any suggestions or help would be great! thanks (:
btw, he's 18 (link)
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Hey guess what! I am sick too, I have the flu. :( I haven't eaten much all day because I am really scared of having nausea. But for a cold, bring some bannanas, the are very light on the stomach, and also there are pressure points that help people get past cold and flu. Such as under the cheek bones next to the nose. There are plent others that you can look up.
Eberything that you were gonna bring to him sounds great, he will love it! :) I hope I helped!
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how can i make myself orgasm? my boyfriend can do it but i cant. thanks:) (link)
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Well you could get in the bath tub and turn the water right onto "the spot" and it only takes a minute or so for that to work. You could also use a removable shower head, it feels good with all the different ways it shoots out water.
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Hi 16/f
So I have a few friends that go with me to college from high school, but I want to make more. I really don't know how as I'm so shy and it never gets beyond meeting anyone outside college, which gets me down. (link)
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I'm also shy, to the point where I don't want new friends. But one day I got tired of it and I went up to some people and said hi! That's all it takes, a simple hi. Then tell them your name and ask them theirs. Don't make the first convo too long because that would be weird. Just the next day, talk to them again for not too long, then the third day you can start talking more to them and asking questions about themselves. If you do this too soon they will think it's weird. Good Luck! :)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We are both scorpions, which makes arguments really crazy at times. We like to fight till we win. So last week we got in an argument because he heard a message where my friend and I were making fun of a guy that was drunk. He would not take the time to listen to me to at least hear my side of the story. Instead he was busy creating his own theories of what happened. I tried to let him know that I also wanted a chance to speak but he kept on going so I told him that if I can't talk he can't either. I started blocking my ears and he got so angry that he pushed my head and it hit the window to the side. I was so shocked!!!!! By the way this was in the car. I got a hold of my purse but then he kept driving and leading us towards the view of the city. Right when the car was close to the top of the hill he said " you see that? You and I are going to roll down that hill". This was after I had told him that it was over. I started balling my eyes out because I was scared. He then stopped the car and started trying to hug me. Long story short, his excuse for scaring and emotionally abusing me was that he was trying to calm me down and keep me from running away in the night. We haven't talked for almost a week and I am dying. He tried brought me flowers and chocolates but I told him that was not going to fix anything. I feel like if I go back with him I am risking having the same thing happen, or worse. I feel like if we were to get back together it would not be now because he needs to know that what he did is not right..even if he didn't really mean it...what do you guys think about the situation? Thank you for reading. (link)
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I'm also a scorpio! But I heard a rule one that I completely agree with. Always give the guy a second chance but after that it's over for good. Try calling him and calmly ak him to come over. Don't tell him why even if he won't come because he doesn't know. If you do this he will find it hard to not go. WHen he gets there be chill about everything and try not to fight. Accept anything he brings you that is nice and tell him that he has another chance. But make sure he knows it i his last chance. I hope I helped :)
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Hi! So I'm an eighth grader, and I'm REALLY confused about high school in general. Luckily for me, in my town, the middle and high school are in the same building, so I'm not too worried about getting lost. Here are my questions:
1. What is the difference between AP, CP, and Honors classes? Which one is the most challenging?
2. I heard that you need 175 credits to graduate at my school. What are credits and how do you get them?
3. How do you get placed in a specific level? I earn A's in my classes, so would that determine my level?
4. How much do your grades count in ninth/tenth grade? Do colleges look at them? What about your grades in eighth?
Thank you so much :) (link)
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1. AP classes are equivalent to college classes when CP prepares you for college.
2. Credits are points you get from doing certain classes. I am in 7th grade and I started earning these lat year. I go to a gifted school and doing things such a language has given me credits. I will have 9 credits when I get to high school :)
3.If you mean specific level like AP and CP then you get to decide that for yourself. At least here you do. So if you find your really good at math then you can take AP or CP math. That will give you extra credits.
4. All of your grades from 6th to 12th grade count for college. When you graduate from high school they will be averaged out and you will have a GPA. Which could be from 0 to 5.00. The higher you score the better.
For any other questions just inbox me :)
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i am a 44 yr old woman and i am finally in a place i feel at home.i'm single disabled and have the biggest heart anyone could ask 4. But my problem is my youngest daughter 22w/child i addore so much that lives with me for the forth time and her daddy raised her in nc,where i'm from and he stole her from me when she was 2 but she came back to me when her stepmother left to 4 the same reason i did,, drugs...he was on and 4 me physical and mental abuse. i left my home state because he threatened me and my land lord that he was going to burn my house down if he didn't get shed of me.well that was 13 yrs ago and 2 wks ago he called my daughter and asked me if he could stay here temporarily and of course i said yes. well now 3 wks later he caused me and my babygirl got in a fist fight today. i have fybromyalgae and now have bruises on me and then she left with him but said theyd be back tomorrow. well my pt. is i don't want to live anymore because stress brings alot of pain to me and they are taking over my home and won't help clean all they do is ask for money that i have not gottten so i'm miserable i want to kill myself cause well my child told me to die today that it would make her
life so much better well i am sick and tired of being sick and tired.signed MISERABLE (link)
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Don't die, your a mom and no matter how many hurtful things a daughter says to thier mom, they still love them with all their heart. I know that because I have been a daughter for 13 going on 14 years now. About her dad though, it may be time to call the police, or at least next time he does something to you that shouldn't happen. Such as the fist fight.
I normally have a lot of stress but lately I have been stress free. This is because I enjoy my life even through the bad things. This saying also helps me..."The castle lays beyond the thistles"
You need some time by yourself, if you can afford it then go fly to somewhere nice for a few days. And if you don't have enough money try horse back ridding or just a walk outside.
Eating foods like beets or alvacado help your brain. This would help you to think more positively. I hope I helped, I have loads more of info so if you want it just inbox me :)
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okay so i shave..down there.. and somedays it really itches and is quite uncomfortable.. but the itch isn't like inside its on the outside where i shave. and there are tons of little red bumps all over. is there any way to get rid of them?? (link)
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Try putting baby powder on it to soothe the itch. You can also apply lotion. But get a little more expensive razor if possible for the next time.
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My gay relationship has recently ended and now I don't know which sex I want to be with. I'm male and I'm attracted to girls physically but not for sex and I'm not attracted to lads but like the sex. This was my first gay relationship now I don't know what I want. I'm so lonely and really confused please help . (link)
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You might be homosexual. Since you like guys and girls, but I'm not sure about the liking them in different ways part.
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